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Carrie L left a comment for melissa
"Hi Melissa hope you are ok. but know we are not. It is just the sadness that makes life so different and we can't call them and hear their i love yous. which were so vital part of us feeling good. love to you at christmas and hope somehow we…"
Dec 21, 2010
melissa replied to Angela Ensley's discussion Mssing my Brother Joey in the group suicide's survivors
"I'm sorry about your brother and sister, I also lost my brother last year, he also hung himself and I lost my mom three months before he took his life, and is birthday is the 21st. of this month, He was my best friend and I am always wondering…"
Nov 7, 2010
Kathy Morey replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"I am so sorry to hear of you going through all this....it is hard to get through..I know..been there..almost same story..my brother shot himself then I got cancer, then close friend and family died..then lost my home....Some days I think I am on the…"
Aug 31, 2010
Melissa replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"I'm so sorry for your loss, Melissa! I lost someone I loved very much to suicide a year ago tomorrow. I don't know the why, the how, or anything else of how life goes on, I just know that it does. I'm experiencing that same feelings…"
Aug 31, 2010
Catherine Johnston replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"Melissa, I'm sorry you haven't found what you're looking for. The pain you have is real and all the trouble and stress you've had in your life since your brother's death is only amplified by his death. I'll be honest…"
Aug 23, 2010
melissa replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"My son was 14 and not only did he find him hes 9 year old son found also. My son is doing better then I am, He has grown up a lot since then, which I find weird, I took him to see some one and he did really good. I'm sorry to hear about what is…"
Aug 18, 2010
samantha ramey replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"Melissa how old is your son?That must have been so hard on him . I found a support group today that I hope will help him.The problem I face now is his mother is speading rumor that my son and Jacobs girlfriend were seeing each other behind Jacobs…"
Aug 17, 2010
samantha ramey replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"Melissa how old is your son?That must have been so hard on him . I found a support group today that I hope will help him.The problem I face now is his mother is speading rumor that my son and Jacobs girlfriend were seeing each other behind Jacobs…"
Aug 17, 2010
samantha ramey replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
Aug 17, 2010
samantha ramey replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
Aug 17, 2010
melissa replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"Thank you Samantha, Please tell your so that I am so sorry for the lose of his best friend, It is very hard not to be angry, and not knowing why is the hardest. My niece pointed something out to me today and I never realized it tell she told me, on…"
Aug 16, 2010
Chelle replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"Dear Melissa i am sooo sorry for your losses. I cannot imagine nor tell you i know what you are feeling or experienced. Please please please know that God, i am not being defensive fear not i just hope i can offer some comfort! Please take a look if…"
Aug 16, 2010
samantha ramey replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"Melissa thank you for posting this.My 21 year old son's best friend of 13 years hung himself on Aug 7,2010. My son found him.He is having a hard time dealing with this,nightmares almost no sleep. I am hoping to find him a support group in our…"
Aug 16, 2010
melissa replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"Thank you Vicki. I have tried to be strong, but it is just pulling me down. I do have a great family and a few friends and I am grateful for that. my twin and I are getting closer, we have been close but for a while things weren't that great…"
Aug 14, 2010
Vicki replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"Melissa, Boy you've had a lot to go thru. I read this in a magazine the other day. When life deals you blows. You come out swing, and move forward. I know how you feel. I lost my mom to colon cancer 15 years ago. She died on Easter Sunday. This…"
Aug 14, 2010
melissa replied to melissa's discussion I thought this was a support thing. in the group suicide's survivors
"It was my brother that died not my husband, he's still here, he does his best to help me and I do love him for that, It's just so hard to cope with the loss of my brother he was my best friend and I want so bad to go back into time and let…"
Aug 11, 2010

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At 10:27am on December 21, 2010, Carrie L said…

Hi Melissa hope you are ok. but know we are not. It is just the sadness that makes life so different and we can't call them and hear their i love yous. which were so vital part of us feeling good. love to you at christmas and hope somehow we can find some peace somehow i don't know how but eventually maybe we will... carrie L

At 12:29pm on August 14, 2010, amaryllis said…
Hi Melissa, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your brother one year ago, the loss of your mom before that and for the fact you did not get even a single word of support from any member of this community and I am included. Right early this month I could not open this website and sent e-mails to them to relate the issue. It took some days for me to be able to log on. Today going through all the discussions and groups I saw your comment and want you to know you are not alone, Melissa. God bless you. xxxx
At 11:18am on July 19, 2010, melissa said…
It's been almost a year when my brother took his life, and I still have no idea how to deal with it, every day I think about him and my mom who passed away from cancer just three months before my brother died. It's really hard, he was the youngest of my mom. There was so much going on in his life that he couldn't take it any more. My son and his son was the ones that found him in the basement. That night before it all happened he gave me something because he said he was going to stop so he could get a better job, so we had no idea what was going to happen, he even asked me to come to dinner but I already ate. Then my son calls me at midnight telling me my brother was dead, and I didn't believe hem till we got there and saw the medics there and I asked his wife if he took his own life and she told me he did. He always called me when things was getting bad and talked about it, but this time he didn't. I really wish he would have and maybe he would still be here. I always was able to talk him down and make him feel better. he left behind two boys one is 15 and the other is 9. the 9 year old was the one that found him. I miss him so much, he was my bestfriend. I miss the cook outs and just visiting for the day. I know people tell me things will get better, but how when it was so sudden and he was young, well in his 30's but it was still to young. Losing two people close to you with in a few months of eachother is very hard to deal with. Every one don't see the pain I'm in I hide it well. I try to talk about it to help, but it makess it worse. I miss him so much, and I miss my mom just as much, It's just with her we knew it was coming, with him we didn't, so it makes it harder.
 
 
 

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