Posted on November 9, 2009 at 12:36am
Hello my name is Mike Perla I'm from Encino CA . I am 24 years old and sadly I have lost my little sister in a tragic car accident 5 months ago she was on her way to prom. What brings me here is sadness im lost I dont know how to cope with this tragidy. I want help please somebody tell me how I can help my family. I feel like were the only ones in the whole world that are going through this horrible pain.
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I agree with Brenda the word SORRY doesn't seem enough, yet we hear it all the time. I wish there were words to make the pain stop, as we all here are dealing with the loss of someone we love.I read the messages and the stories of loss, hoping it will help me deal with it all. Yet I still hurt It helps to know there are people that know what we go through and don't judge us for what we feel, just keep reading the messages and know that we care. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Jenny
let me just say it is really terrible to hear what happened to your sister and what you nd your family are going through is terrible. Now I havent lost my sister like you have but I have lost my bestfriend. I do know partly how you are feeling. Like why did this happen to her out of all people and you wont be able to see her again and you wish you culd just say 1 last thing to her?? Well what I 1st started doing was pray. At tough times like this thats really all you can do. Then I started a journal. It helped me to express all my feeling and its like your reallty writing to that person and instead of keeping it all bottled up inside you can just let all your feeling out and it will help. Then the next step is acceptance. Everyone has there one timing when they have to go and yes she was young and it may not have seemed like she should be gone but she is. You have to accept that and cherish all the good you had with her and remember she will always be there with you and she wouldnt want you to be depressed she would want you to keep on living your life and to be happy. It takes time to heal but it will get better. Just pray to God and when its your time to go years and years from now you will both see eachother again in heaven.
Hope This Helps,