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At 5:38pm on July 9, 2011, Jeff Justus said…: Hi Niecy ! Just read your life insurance story and I have a nightmare also. My son was engaged to get married to a young women in Sept. '07. Less than 48 hrs before the wedding, she called it off because she met another guy at her pre wedding day party.

To make a long story short, He some how messed up on his beneficiary and she got all his life insurance. I'm not sure how much but he had two, one with the Air National Guard and one with Best Buy Corp.

It really would not have bothered me if it was only her benefitting but she's marrying the guy that came between my son and her. That creep benefits monetarily through the death of my son. Take care!

At 5:38pm on July 9, 2011, Jeff Justus said…: Hi Niecy ! Just read your life insurance story and I have a nightmare also. My son was engaged to get married to a young women in Sept. '07. Less than 48 hrs before the wedding, she called it off because she met another guy at her pre wedding day party.

To make a long story short, He some how messed up on his beneficiary and she got all his life insurance. I'm not sure how much but he had two, one with the Air National Guard and one with Best Buy Corp.

It really would not have bothered me if it was only her benefitting but she's marrying the guy that came between my son and her. That creep benefits monetarily through the death of my son. Take care!

At 8:48am on July 9, 2011, Carrie L said…: Hi Niecy love to you and all of us on here where our lives are different than they were. love to you carrie l

At 8:48am on July 9, 2011, Carrie L said…: Hi Niecy love to you and all of us on here where our lives are different than they were. love to you carrie l

At 2:59am on January 11, 2011, Rev.James Durden said…: HI Neicy,its love that keeps you here and it keeps me here and all of those who are here express their love in some manner whether its the pain they feel or the love of others and the pain they feel its all combined as we strengthen each other,so I pray that I can help someone along the way as my days are great sometimes and other days I just read what others post and hope to gain insight.

At 12:26am on January 2, 2011, Rev.James Durden said…: Hi Neicy, I haven't heard from you in a while don't shy away I know that this is hard and somedays down right unbearable,I hope you and your family are doing well and may this year find you progressing in every aspect of life.The Preacher!!!!

At 10:51am on December 30, 2010, Wendy M. said…: Hi Neicy,

Thank you for asking me to be added to your friend list. As you can see, I haven't been here for a while and I am pretty inconsistant. I have been so scatterbrained lately. Starting in January I am going to bereavement groups (1 per week for 8 weeks). I need to make myself go. I have read all of your comments and I know that you have lost a child who was ill. I do not know when or how. I do know or think that must be the hardest thing a mother could ever go through. I am in so much pain over the loss of my mother I could not imagine the pain I would feel if I lost my daughter. When I was very young my mom lost a daughter when she was 13 days old, my sister. She never talked about it. How sad is that? I think what we all are doing here, by sharing and reading each other's stories is the right thing to be doing. I have heard that holding in pain can make you ill. My mom died very young. Who knows? I miss her so much as you miss your baby. Thank you. I hope you are getting around better. I tend to stay home alone which is why I am choosing group through Hospice. have you done anything like this? Wendy

At 5:31am on December 25, 2010, Shirley Creed said…: Thank you for your support and prayers. Today I will just get try and get through. No plans or expectations - just keep going. God bless.

At 6:52pm on December 11, 2010, TAMMY said…: HI NEISEY SORRY TO JUST NOW BE GETTING BACK 2 U HOPE U R DOING BETTER AND I WILL KEEP U N MY PRAYERS HUN HOPE 2 HEAR BACK FROM U SOON.HUGS

At 9:43am on December 2, 2010, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: I had written on my day planner that today was the one year angel birthday of your son Gregory. I will be lighting a candle for him in his honor today.
I read your main post and am very sorry that you are not finding love and strength through your family. This is the time you need them most and they have failed you. I am glad you have your faith that seems to have been your savior in this tragedy.
Hugs coming to you today ......Happy Angel Birthday Gregory!!!