rose loder
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Marsha H replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Rose ... I know how you feel as I've been through someting similar.  I realized that I am not the only one grieving and it took my family a bit to realize that contact between themselves and myself was very important.  Most of the…"
May 12, 2012
Jane P. replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Rose, I which I knew why with one dying breath changes any relationship you ever had with in-laws, nieces, nephews and the rest of the bunch!   My MIL blamed me for my husband's cancer and his passing and has called me everything except…"
May 10, 2012
Peg Edwards replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Rose,  I totally know how you feel. It's been 6 months since my husband died from a rare sweat gland cancer.I hardly ever hear from his side of the family. And my brothers and their families hardly ever come to see me…"
May 7, 2012
Vee replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Rose, have you hear the comment "The best defense is an offense"?  Well, since I don't know the relationship here, I'm going to say they just want to hide from it all.  I have learned in these nearly three months that…"
Mar 29, 2012
janeo replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"My husband passed away 27 months ago and one of his brothers didn't even call to see how his nephew is. I had to curse him out just for him to call once that day. To me that's disrespect. I was upset at first and than very angry. I said…"
Mar 27, 2012
Lisa Quinn replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Rose, I completely understand. I have 2 step sons and although they are young 16 and 20 - they have never just reached out and called me to say hello or to see how I was doing. It's been 5 months since I lost my love, their father to cancer. We…"
Mar 26, 2012
rose loder replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"thanks jane..food for thought ..thanks"
Mar 26, 2012
rose loder replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks Judy....Sometimes I wonder if htey feel the same pain I feel..for losing their brother or son"
Mar 26, 2012
rose loder replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"thank you peter.. get it...thanks"
Mar 26, 2012
Judy Kaan replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Rose - this is so normal. Tomorrow it will be 6 months for me.  My husband had 2 sisters and 2 brothers and I only hear from his 1 brother - all the others do not bother with me.  Thanksgiving and Christmas came and went and I was not…"
Mar 25, 2012
Jane P. replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Rose, I wish I had an answer as to why with one dying breath it all changes but it does.  My mother-in-law has called me everything except human!  I wish I knew why!  But with no regrets, I retired from a prestigious  position I…"
Mar 23, 2012
Peter replied to rose loder's discussion haven't seen much of relatives in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Rose,    I have dealt with very similar circumstances and I have come to realize that we can't change what others do, only what we do. I have lost 2 sons a grand daughter and my wife and I don't let things like that control me…"
Mar 23, 2012
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haven't seen much of relatives

since my husband passed i have not heard from his brothers mom or sisters...I just wish they would call to see how im doing or just to say hi...I want to give them things he left that I know he would want them to have but they show no interest...this hurts me and makes me sad..Now I am angry at them and resent them ....Is this normal? what should I do?See More
Mar 23, 2012
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"since my husband passed i haven't heard from his relatives...Now I get very resentful and angry with them .Is that normal?"
Mar 23, 2012
Diane Marante McDonough replied to rose loder's discussion why do i get mad in the group Bereaved Spouses
"I know that smothrering feeling so well and then 5 minutes later you want it.  This is the craziest and hardest thing I have ever experienced.  It is almost 9 months for me and feel I have had a set back.  I started on Zoloft Tues.…"
Mar 15, 2012
Vee replied to rose loder's discussion why do i get mad in the group Bereaved Spouses
"We get mad because that's all we can do.  When death rears its ugly head, that is all the "left behind" can do is get mad.  You're mad, if it is a sudden death, that you didn't see some sign that might have saved…"
Mar 14, 2012

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