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Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I just found out that I'm going to be a great grandma for the first time!  They got married May 31st of this year and the baby is due May 31, 2015!  Isn't that neat?  It makes me happy but when I think about my husband - he…"
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Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Jane P., Thank you.  The local funeral home sends a coping technique to me everyday. I really like your quote.  It sure is accurate!"
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Jane P. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Wilela, Beautiful!    After one passes, we suffer,  it is the price we pay for love!  Author Unknown"
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Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Quotation for the Day "After the dead are buried, after the physical pain of grief has become a permanent wound in the soul, then comes the transcendent and common bond of human suffering, and with that comes forgiveness, and with forgiveness…"
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Sorry if I'm not making sense but Nov 2, will be our anniversary and I'm just not thinking sraight. I'm sorry."
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha I'm so sorry for your loss. But you'll be in my prayers. Maybe Ernie will meet him at that pearly gates. With death there are no words to comfort the pain you feel with loss. Just like you always say time goes by the pain you feel…"
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Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Stacey - Did you ever think that we as a society are much better at treating animals who have a terrible disease than we are at treating people.  In fact, it is illegal to take somebody's life, even if they are suffering and there's…"
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Elvira ...  You are welcome and it appears many of us are going through some rough times of it.  Your grief is still very raw and time is the healer.  Even now after 3 1/2 years of Ernie's passing I can feel as if he was here…"
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Stacey ...  I'm so very sorry you had to put your dog down as I have two of my own 10 and 12 and I don't look forward to that day coming as they've been my loyal companions.  Here is a bit of tip that may give Damien a…"
stacey commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello everyone. Well, I thought things were looking up for me for a while and bam right back down the hill again. October 7th it marked 2 years for the passing of my husband I got through that safely and calmly and Monday I found out my dogs was…"
Elvira Castellanos commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you Georgia & Marsha for your words of support, like previously stated, this month is horrific for me, on the 19th it was 41 years I began dating Pablo & next Sunday will be even harder since it would have been our 34th wedding…"
janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Michelle, You be surprised on how many people do."
Michelle commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"♥ I am glad I am not the only one chattering to a spouse."
janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Mark, Someone once told me that you can talk to them anywhere you are. I used to go every Saturday morning now I can talk to Richie any time without going to him. And yes guilt is part of grieving but thats normal. And I'm glad your back…"
janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Carol, I believe jack is around Abigail . And jack is also with you as well. Just by the love you and Abigail share. That's a beautiful thing. I think we will always grieve we just have to learn how to cope. Your words of wisdom is appreciated…"
Mark Jackson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Everyone,   I'd thought I would drop by and say hey. Sorry I been a while since I've posted anything or checked in. I still read your post mostly late at night when I can't sleep. Which is most nights. My doctor wants…"

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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 2:19pm on September 1, 2014, Karen W said…

Joyce, welcome to the site.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I lost my husband Ed almost 9 months ago and I have found myself back at this site often looking for comfort, encouragement, understanding, or just to vent my feelings.  Everyone here has been where you and I are and understands what we are going through.   I wish you strength for each new day. 

At 10:45am on September 1, 2014, Joyce M said…

I too am new to this site...and am not sure how to post a comment...I have read so many comments by others and have found some small measure of comfort knowing that what I am going thru is so normal...I lost my husband just 3 weeks ago and every day is so hard right now....

At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn




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