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Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Chicago Beard - Oh the poor girl.  I had C-Diff from a dentist!  But I wasn't sick with something as untreatable as stroke.  It still took me a long time to get over it.  I"m so sorry that Rose had to suffer from C-Diff…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi again Pam ...  As promised I'm sending you a good link as to what to expect in grief and what feelings are normal.  Not everyone gets all these symptoms. …"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Pam ...  No problem at all and I do know how you feel because I sure have had those feelings when I was in raw grief.  Most grief counselors will tell you to get a physical because grieving takes a lot out of our bodies.  It…"
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Pam Wetzel commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha H. Thanks for answering my post. When I get very anxious I think negative thoughts. I have one now that I think I need to be in the hospital. I know that's not true. I was in the hospital in August and they don't do any more than my…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Pam ... I guess it's the Scottish/Irish streak in me.  Ha, ha.  Seriously it just takes time hon and each day to each month you manage to get through you are getting stronger even if you feel you aren't.  It common in…"
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Pam Wetzel commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha H. You sound like a very strong person. I would like to get that kind of strength. Yesterday was an awful day for me. I cried most of the day over my husband. My son came over and we talked and cried together. After he left the anxiety…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Pam ...  I can understand your doctor lowering your anxiety medication, but, I also know that our minds need to be clear of panic attacks in order to concentrate so I hope he has a counter attack plan. Grieving is a process as most of us…"
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Chicago Beard commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Wilela I do not remember if she had a MRI. While in the hospital recovering from the stroke she developed C-Diff and the treatment for that reigned havoc on her diabetes and finally her body shut down."
Saturday
Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you, Chicago Beard, for your compassion words.  If you don't mind my asking. did your beloved Rose have an MRI?  Was she left with other deficits?  All the doctors I've been to,  and there have been many, say…"
Saturday
janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Renae, I agree with Barbara . Happy Anniversary! My prayers and hugs for you. You'll be in my prayers tonight. God Bless"
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"A student in my school just passed away this morning. He was just hit by a car last may and they just found out he had cancer and gave him 2 weeks to live. God must of needed him. Feeling blah what do you say to the parents. I can't understand…"
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Barbara Sullivan commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"So very sorry, Renae.  Let the tears flow -- the only bad tears are the tears we do not shed.  Today is not a day for trying to imagine how you will get through the rest of your life without him -- today is a day for remembering the years…"
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Renae McKee commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"7 weeks ago today MY LOVE went to Heaven. 16 yrs ago today I married MY LOVE. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MY LOVE! Today is hard, tears are flowing, I can't imagine the rest of my life without him, these past 7 weeks have been so hard, & to think of…"
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Chicago Beard commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"So sorry to hear of your speech issues Wilela. I can only imagine how frustrating that must be. It is like you had a stroke, as this is an issue stroke sufferers often go through. My Rose had that problem after her stroke. I hope that your medical…"
Thursday
Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"When my husband died in June 2011, I developed a speech problem.  They've just taken my 4th MRI over 3 1/2 years and all is fine - the same as the other three times.  It has gotten worse over the years; now I feel like I'm…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Renae ..  Your post brought tears to my eyes.  I am so sorry you ended up in hospital (not uncommon for some grievers) and we get all sorts of maladies and some of it is due from stress.  It is so sweet of your grandson and I agree…"
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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 2:19pm on September 1, 2014, Karen W said…

Joyce, welcome to the site.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I lost my husband Ed almost 9 months ago and I have found myself back at this site often looking for comfort, encouragement, understanding, or just to vent my feelings.  Everyone here has been where you and I are and understands what we are going through.   I wish you strength for each new day. 

At 10:45am on September 1, 2014, Joyce M said…

I too am new to this site...and am not sure how to post a comment...I have read so many comments by others and have found some small measure of comfort knowing that what I am going thru is so normal...I lost my husband just 3 weeks ago and every day is so hard right now....

At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

 
 
 

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