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Bereaved Spouses

A continutaion of the "When a Spouse or Partner Dies" thread.
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Diane C commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Everyone, I would also like to Thank Steve for starting this site. I just happen to stumble across it when I was very down and out. I just needed somewhere to turn to talk to others who were in the same predicament that I was. I remember being so…"
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Bereaved Spouses

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Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you, Jane P.  I'm glad to know she's OK,  I was worried about her.  She has a way with words to answer the new widows/widowers."
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Wilela I haven't see her post lately and she always post. Maybe she just needed a break.."
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Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Has anyone heard from Marsha H?  I'm worried about her.  I've sent her two e-mails and no reply.  That's not like her.  I see on this site that she hasn't posted since the first of the month."
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Chicago Beard commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Steve This site helped me to navigate my grief. It is the main thing that has gotten me through. I learned so much and am very grateful to your and you lost love for the opportunity you have presented here. I am not here very often but I do keep…"
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Bereaved Spouses

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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Steve, I know how many people joined this group that we now call friends. I'm sorry and sad that you had to start this. But the way I look at you saved all these lives.I for one don't have family and coming here letvme know what I was…"
Sep 22
Steve Cain commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi everyone, Well, we have hit a milestone which I am not sure how I feel about it. We hit 1200 members today."
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Steve Cain replied to Susan Barner's discussion Thank goodness, I found this site. in the group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Susan, While I am sorry you had to find us I'm glad you have. The group is very helpful in making sure everyone feels safe in the journey. If you have any questions please ask. Our members are a wealth of knowledge and sympathy. Please feel…"
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Bereaved Spouses

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stacey commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Carol- Thank you have to do something for myself for a change, its also helps out in the future. I'm glad Abby is doing well also we are to  real fun stage ten million questions and some bizarre answers back from what I ask…"
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stacey commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello everyone. I also hope everyone is doing a bit better. Things are looking up for me a bit, Besides working my part time job as a banquet server and my full time job taking care of my aunt; I decided to go back to school and I'm going for a…"
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Frank Andrews commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
" JAN,  SO SORRY ABOUT THE VACATION GONE BAD AND I STILL CAN'T BRING MYSELF TO GO ANYWHERE WITHOUT MY BELOVED NOREEN BY MY SIDE BECAUSE I KNOW I WOULD FEEL SAD AND PROBABLY GUILTY EVEN THOUGH I KNOW SHE WOULD WANT ME TO BE HAPPY. STILL…"
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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 2:19pm on September 1, 2014, Karen W said…

Joyce, welcome to the site.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I lost my husband Ed almost 9 months ago and I have found myself back at this site often looking for comfort, encouragement, understanding, or just to vent my feelings.  Everyone here has been where you and I are and understands what we are going through.   I wish you strength for each new day. 

At 10:45am on September 1, 2014, Joyce M said…

I too am new to this site...and am not sure how to post a comment...I have read so many comments by others and have found some small measure of comfort knowing that what I am going thru is so normal...I lost my husband just 3 weeks ago and every day is so hard right now....

At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

 
 
 

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