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Renae McKee commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha you are amazing!!! I truly feel like your advice fits where I am right now and I could not thank you enough!!! You are truly blessed to reach out to those that are in need and in many cases I am sure YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE that can understand.…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Renae ...  I am so happy you knew I was only trying to help.  It's called 'tough love.'  Right now you need to come first for a change.  Feelings of going crazy is a normal reaction in grief and it will be…"
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Renae McKee commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"To Marsha, Deb, Jan, Carol Kayser & Janeo *****YOU ARE ALL FANTASTIC!!!! Marsha I did not take offence to anything you said. The money thing, how crazy my kids think, they know that I now get less then 1/4 of what we had coming in as a couple…"
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Renae, You have my prayers as well. People will shy away but you have us and we won't leave you. Everyone here has your back. No one understands the way we do. And please give your kids time. They will be there for you. It took a while for my…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Renae ...  I am so sorry to hear you are in a dark place.  Hon, I know you are in a fog-like state and it's difficult to resolve problems when you are going through raw grief.  I hope what I am about to say will not offend…"
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Deb commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Renae, You're not alone in that dark place because I'm right there with you as well as many others that unfortunately belong to this group. It's helpful to know that the pain will become more bearable "someday"...I have a…"
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Jan commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Renae hang in there. I have lost my mind over my kids too. They are 19 and 23 both live at home rent free and I have to yell and scream at them to do their chores. Since they don't pay rent the least they can do is help out around the house.…"
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Renae McKee commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I am in a very DARK PLACE  right now!!!!! The loss of my husband & all the estrangement is killing me!! My son has been estranged from me for almost 5 years! My firstborn grandchild turns 5 today (she is my son's daughter that he gave…"
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georgia commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Good morning Ranea, I wish you a good day today. I have been reading your post, it brings me back to the pain in the first months of my greif. I just want to tell you that it does get better the pain and anguish . You will always have a tuch , and…"
Dec 10
Jane P. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Janeo, That is why we are still here, we understand your pain.  We understand this is not something we will ever get over it is something we just get through.  HUGS, Jane P."
Dec 10
janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you Carol its like living that worst day of my life. The picture of seeing die again. Nightmares, felt sick to my stomach. What kills me is people not understanding the pain. They expect me to be over it by now."
Dec 10
janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Jane P. And Michelle thank you it was one hell of a day. So glad it's over."
Dec 9
Elvira Castellanos commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, no need to apologize, Janeo & Michelle thank you for the congratulations on the birth of my grandson. I previously posted a few days ago that it was going to be 9 months of my husband's passing but my mind is really not working to…"
Dec 8
Michelle commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Janeo, I hope that your day went well. I am thinking of you also.Elvira, congratulations on the newborn! That is such a blessing for the families! Renae, I understand the scrambled brain and weakness too :( I lost my husband about that same time…"
Dec 8
Jane P. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Janeo, Will be thinking of you today stay strong. Hugs, Jane P."
Dec 8
janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Today is Richie s birthday and 5 years in heaven. Took off work today and going to see him and tell him happy birthday and I love him."
Dec 8

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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 2:19pm on September 1, 2014, Karen W said…

Joyce, welcome to the site.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I lost my husband Ed almost 9 months ago and I have found myself back at this site often looking for comfort, encouragement, understanding, or just to vent my feelings.  Everyone here has been where you and I are and understands what we are going through.   I wish you strength for each new day. 

At 10:45am on September 1, 2014, Joyce M said…

I too am new to this site...and am not sure how to post a comment...I have read so many comments by others and have found some small measure of comfort knowing that what I am going thru is so normal...I lost my husband just 3 weeks ago and every day is so hard right now....

At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

 
 
 

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