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Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Friends.....I finally have something to look forward to.  I know this may sound strange to some, but Matt Fraser, a psychic and medium will be in my town in July.  I had been to a Medium a couple of years ago and my great…"
6 hours ago
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Harold ...  Your post brought me to tears because it reminded me so much as to how I felt.  We have much in common, our dogs, family, gardening and some friends that decide to stay with us.  Anger is a normal reaction when your…"
21 hours ago
Deb S commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Harold, Thank God for our pets.  I also have dogs. In the beginning, they searched everywhere for my husband.  I think they accepted his loss much sooner than I did.   You are right.  Our pets need us to take care of them. They…"
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Deb S commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Sarah and Harold, Please know that I said the same thing about living another 30 years . . . Can't happen . . . no way, no how. For me, narrowing my focus helped.  Can I get through tomorrow? I think I can do that. Can I commit to…"
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Harold McKinstry commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Deb I'm pretty free on talking here, Pastor or classes, not so much to family and friends. They just seem too feel bad because they don't know what to say. I have the TV on all night too some shows I will actually watch, others to fill the…"
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Harold McKinstry commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Sara I'm the same way I go through the motions doing the stuff I need to do. There is no particular joy in what I do, or life in general. Hopefully like Deb said we can find some joy to life, I don't see that happened for me any time soon…"
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Sara Murphy commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Harold:  I'm sorry you had a bad week.  I was struck by your comment that you would hate to live another 30 years.  That's almost an exact comment I made myself this past week.  I lost my Ken 3 1/2 months ago.  For…"
yesterday
Deb S commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Harold, I am sorry that the last week and a half have been difficult. My own ups and downs are not consistent. Sadness can strike at any moment, without notice. It is difficult to explain to anyone how deep the grief and lonely the isolation is when…"
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Todd B. Goodrich commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Harold, With it being the 29th today, and as expected super tough, my thoughts, prayers and hopes go out to you my brother-in-grief. You have value, you are important, especially to this family here! We love ya! Take care my friend! Todd"
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Harold McKinstry commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"The last week and a half has been a rough time for me, I have been crying more than I have in a while. I can't escape the loneliness, I'll work in the yard I'm working on the flower garden that meant so much to Diane. My dogs are next…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Chuck ...  You did make me laugh and thank you for that my dear friend and for sharing that personal memory.  It seems we have the same luck.  Sorry my friend, but when you let one of those balloons go you have to be in an open…"
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Charles E. Nelson commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hello Todd, I second Debbie's comment - thank you for a good thought to keep in mind through the day. I hope you know that as we move into May, all our thoughts and love will be with you facing two dates that will be difficult for you -…"
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Deb S commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Todd, Love this!  Thanks for sharing!  Debbie"
Thursday
Todd B. Goodrich commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Quotation for the Day "And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years." ~ Abraham Lincoln"
Thursday
Deb S commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Chuck, Thank you for sharing how you spent Larry's birthday on November 15, 2015. I love your story! I haven't focused on how I will spend Bob's first birthday in Heaven. Typically, we travelled on his birthday. I still have a…"
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Deb S commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, I mentioned you to my sister yesterday. She is visiting for a couple of weeks while traveling. I so wish that I lived closer and you and I could just hang out. Since that is not likely, I will enjoy hanging out with you here. I am getting…"
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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 11:08am on June 18, 2015, Cynthia Murphy said…

It has been a while since I have been here. My husband died 19 months ago after 17years of suffering from diabetes related problems. I didn't think I would ever get better but I have. Eight months into a horrible grief a friend called and asked me to come over, her brother was there. I dated her brother in high school. He had lost one of his sons in 2001 and grieving as much as I was. We've had so many discussions about what we have been through and where we are now.. We are dating now and loving life again. We still talk about our loved ones we lost but we remember with smiles and happy memories. I don't know what the future holds for me but I have to trust that God is leading me in the direction that was meant to be for the second half of my life.

At 2:19pm on September 1, 2014, Karen W said…

Joyce, welcome to the site.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I lost my husband Ed almost 9 months ago and I have found myself back at this site often looking for comfort, encouragement, understanding, or just to vent my feelings.  Everyone here has been where you and I are and understands what we are going through.   I wish you strength for each new day. 

At 10:45am on September 1, 2014, Joyce M said…

I too am new to this site...and am not sure how to post a comment...I have read so many comments by others and have found some small measure of comfort knowing that what I am going thru is so normal...I lost my husband just 3 weeks ago and every day is so hard right now....

At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

 
 
 

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