Hi Susan just on here to get some peace to my misery. I know all us moms feel the same. I can't believe my son is gone and it hurts real bad. I want it to go away but it won't moved away from home 5 years ago and see so clearly that i should have stayed and had fun with my kids... now i am kind of in a rut. one day i will get out of it. I am so sorry for your loss. He was having fun. but it is sad. it comes so quick. and then it is forever. hugs to you carrie
I am in Seal Beach Ca. I don't know how far that is from you but we share in our grief by the fact we are both on this website. I have lost 2 daughters in the last 18 mos, both of cancer. Some days I believe I'm feeling better, some days I am overwhelmed by what has happened to me. I remember a line from a song, "God, you gave me a mountain this time." So true.
Susan, thank you for your post. It is devastating to lose a child, and only those that have can understand just how devastating it can be. I am in Palm Desert California so we are not that far away. If you are ever in this area let me know, and I will do the same if in yours.
Thank You so much for the email. I am also new to this site as well. My deepest condolences to you as well. Nothing in life prepares us for our babies leaving us, thats just not the way nature's supposed to work, at all. I am actually here in east bay ca. would love to meet you for coffee but it's still quite the distance. If you don't mind I would love hear about your son, and what happened to him. I believe it's very helpful for us as parents who have lost a baby to just be able to talk about them, and I also know from experience that most of my friends definately don't want to talk about him; for whatever reason. So if you don't mind please share with me. Wishing you well during this difficult time, that I'm afraid never go's away< Tiffany Cottrell