Hi Ted iam sorryfor your lost,my husband of 40yrs. died 10 months ago it seems like forever,I know the pain of not having him close anymore& to know its forever is unbearable,I will pray for you please do the same for me. Dolores
it does get better. The holidays and birthdays and anniversaries suck. But u will get through them. Somedays will be worse then others. Things that got me through this so far were my kids, talking to him and yelling at him for leaving me, and just forcing myself to live bc life is so short. If you need anything, please do not hesitate to contact me.
I want to give you my condolences.
I felt like you did, when I lost my husband 8 years ago.
It is not easy what you are going through. Our loved one would not want us to be this way, but it the living that has to go on and I am not going to say it is easy, but time will ease some on the pain. We will never forget them, but time will heal. Do you have friends and family that you can just talk to them. They need to just listen to you. Sometimes when someone has not gone through what we have, they think they understand, but they don't because they have not gone through it, so again they need to just listen to you and be there for you. Try not to make any major decisions for some time.