All Blog Posts (3,211)

This it to hard

Don't know how any of us do this. It is so hard.  Went camping for one night with my son and some of the kids and almost couldn't stand it. It just wasn't natural to be there without him. I followed my son home, who had his dads 4 wheeler in the back of his truck not ours

Added by ROSE EGGERS on September 26, 2016 at 4:31pm — 1 Comment

Recent Shooting in Charlotte

My heart goes out to the family of Keith Scott. Peaceful protest have done some good and its good to see even the national guards giving the citizens of Charlotte warm handshakes and hugs... Then I hear of folks getting shot up in a mall. I pray for a more permanent solution to all this blood shed, violence and pain. The only solution (Matthew 6:9,10)...Come Lord Quickly!

Added by T.C. Goodwin on September 26, 2016 at 4:14pm — No Comments

Gardening – The Best Way to Spend Time with Your Lost Love

Jan and I were different in so many ways. Most of our likes and dislikes were totally opposite and I always maintained that this was why we were so close. Sounds strange, doesn’t it? But I think our disagreements created a positive energy in our marriage that just resulted in raising the level of our love and…

Continue

Added by Lindsay Collier on September 21, 2016 at 3:30pm — 4 Comments

Turning Grief Into Purpose

While grieving a loss, you learn a lot about what helps or hampers healing. That’s what happened to Laurie B. following the death of her beloved husband. Despite a wide circle of friends, she often felt alone and saw a need for sensitive support. She approached her pastor and suggested they start a shawl ministry, a support group where members would knit shawls…

Continue

Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on September 20, 2016 at 8:00am — No Comments

How Writing Helps Us Cope with Death

William Shakespeare once said, “Give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak knits up the over wrought heart and bids it break”.

For hundreds of years, people have taken up writing, especially letters, to express their grief and deepest…

Continue

Added by Julie Ellis on September 20, 2016 at 6:01am — No Comments

one year coming up 9/26/2016

I lost my best friend and spouse, David, on 9/26/2015.  We had 35 years together, all of which provided wonderful memories but I miss him so much.  time has only made it harder for me, definitely not easier as many said it would.

Added by Tim Morgan on September 19, 2016 at 2:35pm — 2 Comments

new here

I'm 31married in March.  He's 34.  He died July 8th flipping his car on the freeway.   6th of July found out I was 11 wks pregnant.  I have two other children 6 and 8 from previous relationship. I guess I'm just looking for advice on how to raise our child knowing their father.  Everything we had was in the vehicle and destroyed pretty much.  I have a few items of clothing.  Since the accident I've created a facebook page  to collect pictures etc.  I didn't know any of his friends or family…

Continue

Added by Whitney Rollins on September 13, 2016 at 12:48am — No Comments

Options When the Deceased Didn't Want a Funeral

Q. My late friend and colleague wished to be cremated and did not want a funeral. He had no close family. I (and others in my professional organization who will miss him) feel very sad. He had a huge impact on our careers, especially when we were starting out. What can we do that…

Continue

Added by Florence Isaacs on September 7, 2016 at 11:00am — No Comments

My Sister Karen

I lost my sister on 5/15/15. She was one of the brightest lights in my life. I was the closest to her of all of our family members. We laughed like crazy when we were together and I always wanted to be like her. Everyone she met fell in love with her. She was 3 years older than me and she died at 57. She had type 1 diabetes since she was 21 and her overall health was suddenly declining as though she was giving up on life. She had started drinking and smoking more I guess as a way to cope with… Continue

Added by Lisa coplin on September 2, 2016 at 8:46am — No Comments

Texting Support During Trying Times

We all know the importance of being supportive during troubling times, and yet it can be challenging despite our best efforts. One of my friends is facing that dilemma right now. Her dear friend’s mother is dying of cancer, and my friend has…

Continue

Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on September 1, 2016 at 9:30am — No Comments

Only the Beginning

I lost my soul mate on April 8, 2016 while he was walking on his lunch break. My daughter bought him a fitbit so that he could get healthy with all of us. He loved it and he beat us on every challenge. The sad part is that she now feels some responsibility for his death. No matter how much you tell her she isn't it stays in her mind. The texting, on meth driver crossed over the road and hit him from behind. He was at the hospital for almost 2 hours before we even found out he had been hit.…

Continue

Added by ROSE EGGERS on August 30, 2016 at 12:16pm — 4 Comments

Research into online mourning

I'm a graduate student in Medical Anthropology at UCSF/UC Berkeley, and my dissertation research looks at grieving online. The idea emerged out of the experience of losing my own father, who died unexpectedly 2 years ago. My project specifically explores how accessing sites such as online memorials, Facebook profiles, and digital archives might allow people to feel connected to loved ones who have passed away. If you visit a particular website or sites to connect with a loved one who has…

Continue

Added by Molly Hales on August 29, 2016 at 11:05am — 5 Comments

Comfort with Flowers

Flowers make those that are grieving feel better. Every good gift is from above James 1:17.

Added by T.C. Goodwin on August 24, 2016 at 3:44pm — No Comments

Every Kindness Helps Following a Death

A friend of a friend died last week. We hadn’t been in touch with the family in 10 years, and I vacillated on whether to attend the visitation. I not only decided to go, but I also encouraged my spouse to go. We were surprised and humbled when the daughters of the deceased…

Continue

Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on August 17, 2016 at 1:00pm — 1 Comment

Healthy Grieving

A friend in her early 30s grieved the loss of both her mother and father who died just one year apart. My friend chose outlets for her grief that helped her process and mourn the deaths of her parents. After a year had passed, her older sister confided that she was concerned in…

Continue

Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on August 10, 2016 at 12:00pm — 2 Comments

Music for Funerals and Memorial Services

Q. When my time comes, I would like to have music played at my funeral. Is music acceptable at services in all religions? Can you suggest some appropriate choices?

Music has played a role in funerals since ancient times when…

Continue

Added by Florence Isaacs on August 3, 2016 at 12:15pm — 2 Comments

Grieving or Wallowing: How do I tell the difference?

As I grieve for my husband Jim, who died on April 1st of this year, I recognize the pain and confusion that I hear in others comments. I feel this overwhelming loss each day.

It takes so much energy to plow through the emotions. No one could tell me this truth until I experienced it for myself.



This is a place where I can express some of those emotions that must be suppressed, avoided, or simply ignored, in most of my daily interactions. Thank you for being here. Thank you for… Continue

Added by Deanne Brown on August 2, 2016 at 2:49pm — 2 Comments

Widows' Aid To Coping? Coloring Books

Q. I’ve read about coloring books for adults that somehow help reduce stress. Are any of them for widows?

I haven’t found any that focus specifically on widows, but "Colors of Loss and Healing: An Adult Coloring Book for Getting Through Tough Times" by Deborah H. Derman, Ph.D., targets…

Continue

Added by Florence Isaacs on August 2, 2016 at 1:00pm — 1 Comment

When a Loved One Dies

Please follow link below to read this magazine.  May it bring comfort to you and your families.

https://www.jw.org/en/publications/magazines/watchtower-no3-2016-may/

Added by Margaret Lopez on August 2, 2016 at 6:55am — No Comments

Hospice Care

Hospice can help one to enjoy a dignified and meaningful life in the company of loved ones... It can also give the family support... How grateful we are to have compassionate workers who are skilled at this

The last thing to go is the hearing...just holding our love ones hand is comforting...Looking forward to no more pain and sorrow in the future...Revelation 21:3,4

 

Added by T.C. Goodwin on July 31, 2016 at 8:23am — No Comments

Monthly Archives

2016

2015

2014

2013

2012

2011

2010

2009

2008

2007

1999

1970

Community Guidelines

Please be respectful of others. For more information, read our Community Guidelines.

Badge

Loading…

Follow Legacy

Follow Legacy.com on PinterestFollow @LegacyConnect on TwitterCircle us on Google+

© 2016   Created by Legacy.com.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service