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Today's your Birthday

Another minute and your Birthday is over. Missing YOU FOREVER. WISHING you were here. WISHING you were here to celebrate you.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN MY BROTHER....

Added by elyse on June 13, 2019 at 10:04pm — No Comments

Ghost

After 7 years and what still feels like a long road my dad dropped new information on me today about my brothers death. He let me know that he had his eyes roll back to white while conscious 2 days before he had his seizure . 2 days later he died from seizure. He didn't take him to the hospital the first time. He is now telling me this 7 years later. Neither of my parents told me about this . I could have maybe helped. While I know there is no turning back I feel so many strong emotions…

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Added by Jennifer on June 11, 2019 at 10:55pm — No Comments

5 year anniversary

May 28, the day is over. It was your 5 yr anniversary  I'm missing you . It was a solemn day. Two things I did , went to the cemetery, put some flowers down and stones, cried and talked to you.Did you hear me ? I hope so, I was telling you how much I love you and miss you.Dad is probably wondering and asking, son, why are you here? But your…

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Added by elyse on May 29, 2019 at 12:39am — No Comments

5 year anniversary

May 28, the day is over. It was your 5 yr anniversary  I'm missing you . It was a solemn day. Two things I did , went to the cemetery, put some flowers down and stones, cried and talked to you.Did you hear me ? I hope so, I was telling you how much I love you and miss you.Dad is probably wondering and asking, son, why are you here? But your…

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Added by elyse on May 29, 2019 at 12:39am — 1 Comment

Descriptive Essay: 7 Emotional States After Parting or How to Force Yourself to Live on

How to live after breaking up with your loved one? Difficult, sad, lonely. You as if something is missing. First of all - air. Tears overwhelm, heart smiles, emotions are bred. But you need to live on. Sometimes it is very difficult, but it is necessary.…

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Added by Linda S. Davis on May 22, 2019 at 3:00am — No Comments

Note to self 2

Frankie, you should be used to making coffee in the morning.  It is a minor thing and he did it so well.  He would laugh today and remind you to not forget to put the grounds in.  He knew you had brain fog in the mornings.  He is hugging you from heaven with a twinkle in his eyes.

Added by Frances C Younger on May 20, 2019 at 7:06am — No Comments

Note to self

Dear Frankie, Remember to put on your muscle rub cream  before you cry in the morning.  Wash your hands before you drop those tears and touch your eyes.  Well, it did refocus your thoughts.  

Added by Frances C Younger on May 8, 2019 at 8:49am — 2 Comments

Huggy Bear

My husband's health notably got worse after a stroke about a year ago.  Although his life was spared for a while, it was obvious to both of us - although not discussed much - that he probably would not out-live me.  I had dealt with being a widow before.  He had been a widow and one day we came up with the idea of Huggy.  Near Valentine's day he bought me a huge stuffed Monkey and we named it Huggy.  Frequently he or I would hug the monkey.  The monkey was to…

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Added by Frances C Younger on May 6, 2019 at 11:09am — No Comments

Doing It My Way

     Second time around, just as painful, but maybe more hopefull.  I have past the third month and have not quite shelved my grief, tears come frequently and I still find it hard to talk much about him.  Went to a local festival yesterday and missed holding his hand.

     I have kept busy.  Over the  spring break I actually read and enjoyed a book, The Dutch Wife.   …

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Added by Frances C Younger on May 5, 2019 at 9:52am — No Comments

His last days

My husband is Mario. He died at our local hospital in October 2018. He had cancer. He fought the battle against cancer for 8 years. Before cancer, he had a rare autoimmune disease. The medicine the doctors used to control it contributed to his…

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Added by Mark Carter on April 5, 2019 at 12:27pm — 2 Comments

Helpful Tips When A Love One Dies .

1) Allow time to grieve. 

2) Feel free to share thoughts and feelings

3) Accept Help

4) Draw Closer to God 

5) Remember that you will see your love one in paradise. - Acts 24:15

Added by T.C. Goodwin on March 30, 2019 at 3:00pm — No Comments

Tips For Finding The Best Child Care Center For Your Kids

Child - this is the most expensive thing an adult has. And if you have your own child, it is very important that he grows up not only healthy.

As an essay writer, I was always interested in the question - how a small miracle can grow and turn into a boor and, in a word, not a very good person.

It's all…

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Added by Hunter Renard on January 22, 2019 at 9:00am — No Comments

Journal after losing a loves one

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Added by Darren edgell on December 25, 2018 at 4:06am — No Comments

Christmas time is the worst

6th Christmas without Mike.all mo the every December I'm just on a rollercoaster of emotions.my brother has been visiting my 2 year old daughter. It's incredible and heart warming. Always miss Mike.

Added by Jennifer on December 22, 2018 at 10:05pm — No Comments

a gay widow that has a grieving heart.

Hello, I am a gay male widow who lost my husband of 18 years this past march to Duodental perforated ulcer situations. I loved him so very much,and he loved me. I feel guilty everyday about things I said,and things I didn't do,but people tell me i need to stop punishing myself. Life is hard when your love is taken away. I was 51,and he was 72 when he died. I feel guilty because i didn't take him certain places,and at times i yelled at him. There have been people that tell me that being a…

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Added by Gage Hampton Snow on December 3, 2018 at 11:03am — 1 Comment

Grieving

Wow,  I did not at all think that anyone would care to read, let alone respond to,  my post.  I don't have anyone (other than the Lord) I can talk to to help me get through this experience. I truly cannot tell you how much your responses mean to me.  I know that God will never leave my side, but knowing that there are people who I've never met that cared enough to respond to my brokenness gives me additional hope.   The range and intensity of emotions I continue to feel since my father's…

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Added by Sara McNamara on December 2, 2018 at 1:03am — 1 Comment

Grieving

Grieving

1- accept help from family and friends ( Ecclesiastes 4: 9 , 10 )

2- watch diet and make time to exercise ( lessen negative emotions) ( Ephesians 5:29)

3- get plenty of rest ( Ecc 4:6)

4- be flexible because every one grieves differently (Proverbs 14:10)

5- avoid self destructive habits ( 2 Cor 7:1)

6- Be balance with your time ( Ecc 3:1,4)

7- keep a routine ( Ecc 5:20)

8- avoid making big decisions too soon ( Prov 21:5)

9- remember your love…

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Added by T.C. Goodwin on November 22, 2018 at 7:33am — No Comments

Four Months

It has been four months since my husband's accidental death. A month of numbness, holding it together and pretending to be strong when allowing myself to feel would have instantly shattered that illusion. The second month was one trying to climb what I perceived to be an infinite wall of getting the finances together and filling out countless forms. It didn't help that the stupid doctor filled out the death certificate incorrectly. And if the funeral home knew the depths of the pain I…

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Added by Jeanette McSherry on September 21, 2018 at 9:01am — 1 Comment

Help for those who grieve

Follow this link to find comfort for those who are grieving the loss of a loved one.

https://www.jw.org/en/publications/magazines/awake-no3-2018-nov-dec/

Added by Margaret Lopez on September 18, 2018 at 3:11pm — 1 Comment

Memorial etiquette

When you get memorial donations and all funeral expenses have been paid, donations have been made and there is money left. What is the proper thing to do with money that remains? Divide among family?

Added by Jenelle Nelson on August 14, 2018 at 8:13pm — 2 Comments

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