February 2011 Blog Posts (39)

Death and social media

For many millions of us, Facebook has become a key way of keeping in touch with friends and family. Many share news of important life events like births, birthdays, anniversaries. And many also have begun to use Facebook to share news of an important end-of-life event – the death of a loved one. As Legacy.com explores and develops…


Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on February 28, 2011 at 10:00am — 2 Comments

Learning to Move Forward by Letting Go

Let’s face it: we all have negative or bad experiences in the past that we just cannot seem to get past. There are just certain things, that when remembered, always cause anxiety and anger to build up inside us. The lost of someone you love is not easy to forget. And we have to admit that sometimes we just don’t want to let go of these negative emotions and memories. Why? Do we want to feel like we’re the victim? Do we need to even the score before we let go?


The truth is,…


Added by Carl Mathis on February 26, 2011 at 4:00pm — No Comments

How long is the grieving process?


The challenges we face when moving forward.

I believe it will help you to know that moving forward when an unfortunate station happens is a process; in fact, it’s a long journey of acceptance and healing, and there is not a specific time period.  But I know you can get through it, and return back to a happy and productive life. I know it is hard for you to believe what I am saying right now, but you must hold onto hope, keep the faith. Keep reminding yourself that things will…


Added by Carl Mathis on February 26, 2011 at 3:30pm — No Comments

What Makes a Mother Poem

I thought of you and closed my eyes, 

And prayed to God today. 

I asked what makes a Mother, 

And I know I heard him say: 

A mother has a baby, 

This we know is true. 

But, God, can you be a mother, 

When your baby's not with you? 

Yes, you can he replied, 

With confidence in his voice. 

I give many women babies, 

When they leave is not thier choice. 

Some I send for a lifetime, 

And others for a day. 

And some I send to feel your…


Added by Monique Alejandrez on February 26, 2011 at 11:41am — No Comments

Electronic Bill Pay

How will your loved ones track those “invisible” bill-pay charges?

Over time, I have set up automatic payment for several of my bills:

• My monthly mortgage bill is paid by a recurring, automatic charge (direct debit) to my checking account. Two insurance premiums are paid the same way.

• Other bills are automatically charged to my major credit card:…


Added by Melanie Cullen on February 25, 2011 at 4:00pm — 1 Comment

one year

well its been a year tomorrow sense i lost my husband and its been a struggle i will never forget.. i go from blaming myself to blaming my husband for leaveing  me here to deal with all this pain.. my kids judge me they dont listen they think i should be ok an just forget it.. you cant be with someone 30 yrs and just  forget it all .. his family wont talk to me they act like its my fault ..he died of heart failure they would never see him in the hospital it was me and my daughter there by… Continue

Added by Debbie MCcracken on February 25, 2011 at 2:24pm — 1 Comment

Fourteen Months...........................

They say there is a reason, They say that time will heal. 

But neither time nor reason Will change the way we feel.

For no one knows the heartache that lies behind our smiles.

No one knows how many times we have…


Added by Hurting on February 23, 2011 at 7:40pm — No Comments

Message from Hari

Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free

I'm following the path God laid for me.

I took His hand when I heard him call;

I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day,

To laugh, to love, to work or play.

Tasks left undone must stay that way;

I found that place at the close of the day.

If my parting has left a void,

Then fill it with remembered joy.

A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss;

Ah yes, these things, I too will miss.

Be not… Continue

Added by Hurting on February 23, 2011 at 9:00am — No Comments

A Year Ago Today...

It has been one year since I became an orphan.  My mom left this world a year ago today and here I am without a parent.  I thought age would make losing her less painful.  I didn't think my heart could ache again, but it does.  I couldn't cry today, because my daughters were crying through their memories of her.  I had to be strong.  I wore one of her Maxine pins all day as a way to keep her with me.  I  hope she knows I haven't forgotten what a wonderful mother she was...I haven't stopped… Continue

Added by Nannette Sherman on February 23, 2011 at 12:54am — No Comments

Beautiful Song

My niece was in a singing competition, she had to preform the day after my sons death.  This song is beautiful and the meaning, well it is so true.  YOUTUBE.Com  Check out Lindsey Stolze Temporary Home

Added by Karen Kloo on February 22, 2011 at 4:29pm — No Comments

Prayers For The Loss Of A Parent

Hello My Friends;

My Mom who was my best friend, my confidant, my hero passed away on November 3, 2009. I miss her more and more everyday! to aid in my pain I came across these three prayers, that I would like to share with you all:…


Added by Henry Sawicki Jr on February 22, 2011 at 3:06am — 1 Comment

Life Goes On

On January 19th, 2011 I lost my sister in a very sudden death.  It was completely unexpected.  I find that I still have so much trouble sleeping at night.  Any moments not spent working I think about the horrible things she must have endured right before she died.  I try to spend as much time with my parents as I can because they are dying inside.  I have siblings that are also grieving so very much.  I find that I don't talk to them as much because I know they have enough to deal with.  I look… Continue

Added by Laura Weatherholt on February 21, 2011 at 7:05pm — 3 Comments

where is Joshua heaven an angel stuck? life after death?

Ok I have a diffucult time spelling, so I won;t post much but I was reading some blogs about the visits we all seem to have in commen.

Added by Laurie on February 20, 2011 at 10:45pm — 2 Comments

To Grieve or Not to Grieve, That Is the Question!

If you were given the choice between diving into the darkest depths of the ocean, fully equipped with all of the gear needed to handle whatever you might encounter, OR being slowly dragged down by an 80-pound anchor while you flailed frantically to keep your head above water, which would you choose?…

Added by Gabrielle Michel on February 20, 2011 at 10:08am — No Comments

The little girl in the picture.

They say, writing is the best way to sort your feelings out, I do not know if thats true, but it's worth a try.

I have lost so many loved ones in my life, some of the most important people I lost at a young age.

My Uncle by marriage has always sent me pictures of the past, he does it mostly to keep in touch I think.

I received two pictures the other day and they have been haunting me. Pictures have never bothered me until this recent set came along.

This child,…


Added by Debi Springer on February 19, 2011 at 9:31pm — No Comments


  I'm not sure this is the right place to do this but I think it is. It will be 22 months the 29 th of this month since I lost my husband. Today I can say I am once again able to smile,laugh and be happy. I have been very fortunate and blessed to have found someone to share my life with again. We met on this site and he lost his wife 13 days before I lost my husband. Neither one of us were looking for anyone else,we were grieving for our spouses simple as that. Throughout this process we began… Continue

Added by Virginia on February 19, 2011 at 7:30am — No Comments

In Memory of Jennifer Johnston from a special friend



A special friend of Jennie's made this...and I love it showing both of my daughters and some of Jennie's friends with her...turn up your sound to hear the song that she chose to go with it.    Just something I thought I would share.

Added by Linda on February 18, 2011 at 11:34pm — No Comments

Anger - my old nemesis

Well, I've read that anger is a part of grief, and it's been around since not long after Steve died.  But it reached new heights this week after one of the men in my grief group asked about "fault" in Steve's accident.  I could have ducked the question, said I haven't seen the full police report yet (which is true).  But I didn't; I answered.  I know that whatever the driver of the car did wrong, Steve went through a stop sign, so he shares the responsibility for his death.  I'm having a lot…


Added by Susan Mayer on February 18, 2011 at 10:21pm — No Comments

my crystal, 7/16/99 - 7/3/06   I miss my girl so much, everyday...

my crystal, 7/16/99 - 7/3/06


I miss my girl so much, everyday...


Added by MarthaIZ on February 18, 2011 at 7:38pm — No Comments


Expecting your first born should be the most joyful time in your life, you never expect for the worse. I went for a regular check up and they couldn't find my sons heart beat they took us to do an ultra sound and my baby wasn't moving, my boyfriend & I just sat there crying, holding each other trying to grasp everything. We went home gathered some phone numbers, and clothes. I called my mom to meet us at the hospital, as we got to the the hospital they… Continue

Added by Monique Alejandrez on February 18, 2011 at 6:42pm — No Comments

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