March 2014 Blog Posts (20)

My loss and becoming a published author

I lost two adult children which I cared for them 

my oldest son Jimmy was 30 and died of congestive heart failure 

shortly after his death I lost my father then my daughter,and two sisters.Shortly after my loss I began publishing books one was about my grief journey …


Added by Shirley Denton on March 30, 2014 at 8:36pm — No Comments

You Were There

The day you died Heavens angels carried your soul away

my mind confused lost without direction 

darkness erased  my joy filling my world with endless pain

I couldn't find comfort in family or friends 

know one could understand 

I felt abandoned by all fading in depression 

feeling numb dying slowly as a woman 

praying night and day for release 

your embrace saved me when know one could

now I thank you Lord for now I walk in the…


Added by Shirley Denton on March 30, 2014 at 6:41pm — No Comments

My Grief Journey

Added by Shirley Denton on March 30, 2014 at 5:47pm — 1 Comment

Surprise Death

I just found out that a close friend died a few weeks ago. Did not even know she was sick. I miss her .
I totally missed the funeral because I just found out. I can not wait until death will be a thing of the past (Hebrews 2 :14)

Added by T.C. Goodwin on March 29, 2014 at 7:28am — No Comments

Living with Loss

My mom was widowed twice by the age of 46, and she gave me some sage advice; “Life is a series of changes and you must learn to adapt to change.” At this time in my life my perspective is a bit different; I see life as a series of losses, and it’s essential that you learn to cope with those…


Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on March 24, 2014 at 12:00pm — 1 Comment

Long Winter Gives Way to Bright Spring

Spring is coming. While it might not seem like it with all snow and rain in many states this winter, everything will begin sprouting green soon because of all that moisture.

Usually we all look forward to spring because that means summer and warmth is coming. It means everyone will be outside. But when we…


Added by Michelle Rusk (Linn-Gust) on March 20, 2014 at 10:26am — 1 Comment

Am i doing something wrong

It will be two year's next month since my wife passed away. I see her family living life like nothing happened. I know life goes on but I am having a hard time and I still struggle every day. Am I doing something wrong? Is there something wrong with me? Others have gotten over it and I can't.

Added by Greg Janik on March 19, 2014 at 10:40am — 2 Comments

Lost My Husband of 39 Years

My husband was killed in a tragic car accident last July while we were traveling from Greece back to Bulgaria.  Five days prior to the accident our son had gotten married to a wonderful girl from Bulgaria.  After the wedding we were traveling with the brides parents and my brother and sister in law as well as my best friend.  We planned this trip to Greece to relax by the water.  On the way back to Bulgaria a car decided to pass in a no passing zone causing a collison with a semi which than…


Added by Marie on March 19, 2014 at 9:56am — 2 Comments

Arlington National Cemetery Burial Isn't Limited to Heroes, Government VIPs

Q. I heard that an acquaintance of mine, who just died, is going to be buried in Arlington National Cemetery. Is that possible? He was just an ordinary guy. I thought you had to be a military hero or someone important in the government. Also, how much does it…


Added by Florence Isaacs on March 18, 2014 at 1:30pm — No Comments

Refreshing Your Outlook By Looking To Nature

In your grief, it’s easy to become numb to yourself and to the world. The vibrancy of the world – its colors, noises, smells and tastes – can be too much for you to manage. Add the lack of touching, which you miss so much, and you just want to climb into your hole and ask the world how it can go on when your life has stopped. Consequently, you may revert to not wanting to feel anything and, hence, you make yourself…


Added by Ellen Gerst on March 17, 2014 at 1:00pm — No Comments

Three reasons why Suicide is not a Solution:

1) "Because things change" - 2 Corinthians 4:8

2) "Because there is Help"-  1 Peter 5:7

3) "Because there is Hope" -Psalms 37:11

Based on ( Awake 2014)

Added by T.C. Goodwin on March 17, 2014 at 7:09am — No Comments

my soul mate was murdered

No one here knows me but I cant hold this in any longer 7months ago my longterm boyfriend was murdered I m lost and feel helpless

Added by leah rojas on March 16, 2014 at 9:30pm — No Comments

My feelings

I feel that one of the worst things a person can say is, your loved one is in a better place. I'm sure they mean well and I'm sure heaven is a beautiful place to be, but I can't think of a better place then to be back with the person missing them..

Added by Greg Janik on March 16, 2014 at 6:00am — 1 Comment


Missing my wife so much. Next month it will be two years since she passed away at the age of 40. She had never been to the doctor and was not sick. She had taken my mom shopping and while walking through Meijer she just collapsed and died of a heart attack. I was at work when I got the phone call, I was told she had a seizure and I needed to get to the hospital now. I had a 45 minute drive to get there and my mom didn't want me to know what had happened because I had to drive. On the way there… Continue

Added by Greg Janik on March 13, 2014 at 8:39pm — 1 Comment

My hero gone but not forgotten

I have read many posts and they have touched my heart. I have been grieving for the loss of my dad David Odman, who died at 59 on 01/21/09. I can remember the phone call the night of the 20th, with my step mom Dianne screaming into the phone at 2:00 am saying dad is in ICU, he just had a major cerbrovascular accident. Get to the hosptial now. I just remember blindly running through the house, getting dressed, getting my kids up, making sure my dog went potty. I can remember thinking I was so…


Added by Shawna Dianne Odman on March 13, 2014 at 6:51pm — No Comments

The Jewish Mourning Ritual of Sitting Shiva

Members of the Jewish faith observe Shiva, a seven-day mourning period following the funeral of a family member. The word Shiva literally comes from the Hebrew word for seven. While sitting Shiva, family members do not work and typically stay home.


How will you know if the family is sitting Shiva? There is usually an announcement…


Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on March 13, 2014 at 3:00pm — No Comments

Does it really get any better?

As the days go on, I seem to be getting worse, not a day has gone by without tears, my son gets married exactly 4 months from today & I wish I could feel some happiness because it is not fair to him that I am just going thru the motions, he tells me he also misses his dad & would like nothing more than for his dad to be present at his wedding like he was at his brother's but that he is worried about me because at this point he would not want to lose another parent & he feels my…


Added by Elvira Castellanos on March 12, 2014 at 9:35pm — No Comments

Can't stop crying

Yesterday was a very bad day, it was one month since my love passed away, I still think I am in a nightmare that I will wake up from eventually only to realize it will not happen, being angry, the why's is not going away, I can't stop crying & could not go to work today because I just could not sleep last night at all, so I could not function today, everybody says it will get better with time but I seem to be getting worse, haven't been able to go back to church or the mausoleum, I am…


Added by Elvira Castellanos on March 10, 2014 at 1:53pm — 5 Comments

Ten Online Dating Tips for Widows, Part One

Q. I’m considering online dating for the first time since the death of my husband. I have no idea how or where to start. Can you give me some direction?

First, select a dating website that feels congenial. This isn’t as easy as it…


Added by Florence Isaacs on March 10, 2014 at 9:30am — No Comments

lost my husband and best friend

Hi. Never imagined I'd be doing this. Just 2 months ago I lost my husband, business partner, confidante, and best friend. Got a phone call from my son about 15 minutes before he and my husband would have been done work. The most dreaded sound I ever heard--my son screaming and not able to speak in the phone--trying to tell his mom that his dad was dead!  My husband went to work one day and never came home.  He was 51, in perfect health, extremely happy in life and very hard working.  With…


Added by Terry Kent on March 4, 2014 at 12:57pm — 2 Comments

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