As a little girl - I often wondered about a few things in life - but one thing I wondered about - was why do we die? Why can't we live forever now? It took a long while before I became knowledgeable about why we die. Through our first parents Adam and Eve disobedience to our Heavenly Father and the command they were given in regards to the forbidden fruit. (Genesis 2:16,17) Due to them disobeying our Creator mankind has been inflicted with pain, suffering, and death. (Romans…Continue
Added by Diamond on June 29, 2017 at 8:17am — No Comments
I lost both of my parents to death, and I just have this deep void. A sense of being without a parent. It is so hard to explain the void and how I yearn to be in their company again. Realistically, I know they have fallen asleep in death (Eccl 9:5). But in my heart, I yearn to hear their voice.
I know and am aware of the condition of the dead - but my heart sometimes does not want to register the reality of the situation. I want to feel as if I would see them in this life…Continue
Added by Diamond on June 27, 2017 at 7:26pm — No Comments
So often we hear the doubts and speculation in respects to the dead. I knew from the very beginning I wanted to know - where is my love one headed. I did not want a guess or a maybe for an answer. I wanted to know where can I find the true answer as to the dead condition. For I have several loved ones that have fallen asleep in death.
I have received so much comfort from that book that is the one most circulated book in the world and that book is the Bible. It gives us so much…Continue
Added by Diamond on June 26, 2017 at 11:08pm — No Comments
So many times we hear the pain associated with the loss of a loved one to be filled with so much dread and anxiety in respects to why, how, and where are their loved one headed after death. However, I find so much peace and comfort from the scriptures as it allows us to peer into the truth in respects to the condition of the dead. Our love one is as in a deep sleep - away from any more pain and sorrow; they are not burning in agony or suffering in so far remote no-where. (Eccl…Continue
Added by Diamond on June 26, 2017 at 9:18pm — No Comments
Death is and always will be the enemy of mankind. It was not our Heavenly Father original purpose for mankind to live, grow old and then die. The pain associated with the loss of one's love one is so deep and unending that it is indescribable if one tries to describe the level and intensity of the pain. Just knowing that you will not see your love one tomorrow or to even be able to speak with them - leaves a high-level of disbelief to the situation. You pulled their last voice mail - you…Continue
Added by Diamond on June 26, 2017 at 8:44pm — No Comments
Most of us who have lost a loved one seek comfort from our friends, family, and community. So, it might come as a surprise to learn that some bereaved are not seeking solace and prefer to be left alone. I learned this when my friend’s mother-in-law died. I offered her my condolences and asked where I could send a donation in memory of the deceased. My friend shared that her…Continue
Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on June 26, 2017 at 1:00pm — No Comments
I see my mother everywhere. Though I never looked like her, I can now see a physical resemblance and so many of my qualities remind me of her. Not so for my dad. When I was young, everyone said I looked like him, but I no longer see the resemblance. I never had the good fortune to get to know my father and he wasn’t part of my life long enough for me to emulate him in any way.
Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on June 16, 2017 at 6:00am — No Comments
I express my sincere sympathy to the Medina- Chevez Family.
I look forward to the day when wickedness will be gone forever
Added by T.C. Goodwin on May 29, 2017 at 4:07pm — No Comments
Hello, I just joined the group. I am having a really BAD day, can't stop crying.
My darling husband of 29 years died unexpectedly in August last year. I was overseas at the time. We have no children and no extended family where we live and very few friends. I had to ask the neighbour to check why he was not answering his phone and it took for EVER. I wanted him to break the door down but he was saying I am over reacting. Eventually my neighbour was able to open a small window and see…
Looking at the news and hear of a famous singer just hung themselves. Mental illness is on the rise and I want to raise awareness. Please don't be ashamed to speak out and help our family members and friends before the enemy death takes them away.... I am looking forward to the time when the enemy death will be gone away forever - 1 Corinthians 15:26
The death of a loved one brings significant change. We are no longer a spouse, parent, sibling, child, or friend. Life is completely thrown off course and every aspect of it is altered, including our social order, financial circumstances, and relationships. We view the world through a different lens and as we mourn our loved one, our perspective shifts.
Grieving a loss is…Continue
Holidays that focus on parents are a particularly difficult time when you have lost a child. What does a mother do on Mother’s Day if she is a bereaved mom? Even if she has surviving children, a day devoted to mothers only heightens her sense of isolation and loss.
While it is impossible to know how a bereaved mom will feel, trust that the day will be hard, no…Continue
Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on May 12, 2017 at 9:00am — No Comments
Added by Joyce Gordon on April 28, 2017 at 7:13pm — No Comments
I am struggling with the loss of my relationship due to her mental illness. It seems like a death because the person if used to know no longer exists.
Added by Mike Waliser on April 24, 2017 at 12:34pm — No Comments
When my neighbor’s daughter died following a car accident, the neighborhood pulled together and extended an array of kindnesses. Folks they did not know left bagels on their doorstep; others placed additional obituaries in their mailbox, and many sent cards and flowers. My neighbor wanted to acknowledge the thoughtful deeds but was…Continue
Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on April 23, 2017 at 4:00pm — No Comments
A friend’s father made his final requests abundantly clear. He wanted no obituary, burial, or funeral rituals of any kind. His wife honored his wishes; he was cremated and his remains reside on the top shelf of the master closet. With no memorial or gathering of friends following her husband’s death, the bereaved spouse has been unable to grieve. Her daughter worries she will never mourn or move…Continue
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Added by dream moon on April 9, 2017 at 5:27pm — No Comments
I am on here because about a month ago I lost my beloved 25 year old son Colton to suicide. This has been the most difficult month of my life! I miss my baby boy so much! I feel like my heart has been ripped out and stomped on!
Therapists and counselors who work with bereaved spouses commonly advise: Wait a year or so before finalizing the decision, unless you have no choice for financial or other…Continue
Added by Florence Isaacs on March 21, 2017 at 11:30am — No Comments