December 2015 Blog Posts (16)

Put Those Phones & IPads Away When Visiting Grandma

Today, I came across a picture of a family visiting grandma. Everyone was on their cell phone and I phones. No one was paying attention to Grandma. Then it read put the phones away because you never know when they will be gone......

This is so true.... My grandparents are all dead now and I am glad I did not have any distractions while visiting them.

I think technology has become addicting and at times we need to self analyze ourselves because the most important people will be…


Added by T.C. Goodwin on December 30, 2015 at 2:48pm — No Comments

Personal Blog:...Singing He Will Call

Today, I decided to sing and tape myself singing one of my favorite songs about death...

Life, like a mist, appears for just a day,

Then disappears tomorrow.

All that we are can quickly fade away,

Replaced with tears and sorrow.

If a man should die, can he live again?

Hear the promise God has made:…


Added by T.C. Goodwin on December 29, 2015 at 1:28pm — No Comments

Who Pays for the Funeral? Defining 'Immediate Family'

Q. A friend of mine has been asked to help pay for the funeral of a cousin she was never close to. Somehow it doesn't seem right, especially when the bereaved are not exactly poor. Whatever happened to families taking responsibility for such costs? And how can my friend handle this situation without feeling…


Added by Florence Isaacs on December 29, 2015 at 9:30am — 2 Comments

Mall Shooting In Charlotte- Christmas Eve

So again I turn on the TV and hear of another shooting. Many feared that it was an active shooter but the news made it clear that it was not. It turned out to be a verbal altercation between two different parties. An undercover policeman approached the young man with the gun. The young man ended up dead. So sad...This caused so much chaos...Panic attacks...asthma attacks...Lost children. People running out of the mall like this was the end.... This is very sad. Death does not stop because…


Added by T.C. Goodwin on December 28, 2015 at 6:30am — No Comments

i misss him 2 mush 

i misss him 2 mush 


Added by dream moon on December 23, 2015 at 4:31am — No Comments

Blog: Does Anybody Value Life Anymore? - Miss Universe Pageant

So today I turn on my computer and read about the Miss Universe Pageant and Steve Harvey announcing the wrong name. I know he did not mean to do this. ( I know he feels bad). This caused much chaos... One driver ran into a crowd of people on purpose and killed someone and injured 37 others. How sad... No one values life anymore. It has become an everyday occurrence...Bombings, school shootings, work place violence, parents killing kids and vice versa....Satan has got a grip on this…


Added by T.C. Goodwin on December 21, 2015 at 11:00am — 1 Comment

Our Cherished Objects

My daughter inherited my mother’s strand of pearls. They were housed in a silk case that was very worn and I replaced it with one of mine, more worthy of the cherished heirloom. I was then faced with the dilemma; what to do with the silk case that my mother’s hands touched every time she wore her beloved pearls?

Mourning my mother’s death, I could not part with the…


Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on December 21, 2015 at 10:30am — No Comments

We Can Endure

So yesterday, someone brought up a picture of my late aunt and it brought back memories....I tried to remember the good times and it worked. I was reading today about how it's okay to cry and its nothing to be ashamed of. Even Jesus wept when his friend Lazarus died. They also suggested that we make a album of good memories and when we are feeling down, remember the good time you shared with your love one. Above all we need to pray that we endure these difficult times.

Added by T.C. Goodwin on December 20, 2015 at 7:35am — 1 Comment

sad xmas

i am so sad

i am so sad

i am so sad

i am so sad 

i am so sad…


Added by dream moon on December 18, 2015 at 11:37am — No Comments

Personal Song : He Will Make Us Strong

.....Never doubt he'll give the strenght you need

He won't forget the faith and love you've shown

He will not fail to care for all his own

With Jesus blood he brought you

to God you now belong

So He will make you firm

and he will make you strong

He'll guide you and protect you has he has all along

He will make you firm and he will make you strong


Added by T.C. Goodwin on December 15, 2015 at 5:34pm — No Comments

Flowers- A wonderful gift

As I browse on this website, I see such beautiful pictures of flowers. Flowers can definitely make a sad occassion more pleasant.  Whether its flowers, card or even a small meal, generous acts goes a long way when someone is ill or even when someone dies....Thank God for his wonderful creation....(Acts 9:36-39). It is a pick me up....

Added by T.C. Goodwin on December 14, 2015 at 8:30am — No Comments

Getting Through the Holidays: Tips for Widows

Q. It’s been a few years since my husband died, yet I still dread the December holiday doldrums. I feel like a weight is pulling me down, even though I have an active life. Any words of wisdom?


The month of December, bringing Christmas and the New Year can…


Added by Florence Isaacs on December 8, 2015 at 7:30am — 1 Comment

HashTag Story

All You Have To DO, is (from the other side by the way, hi, Matthew Micheal Brooks/Rozon) Is type in "national geographic filosephy" in google search bar for chrome laptop, or their search enjine, and I'm the first result. Here is my story ...

Added by Matthew Micheal Brooks on December 7, 2015 at 2:34pm — No Comments

Funeral Flowers: What's Too Much ... or Not Enough

Q. My siblings and I are bickering over how much to spend for flowers at our mother's funeral. It's, "What do we need flowers for? They're a waste of money" – all the way to, "Let's fill the chapel." What do other people do?

Which people…


Added by Florence Isaacs on December 3, 2015 at 12:00pm — 1 Comment

When a Sympathy Note Is Belated – and You Never Met the Deceased

Oh dear – the days and weeks have passed, and you never wrote the sympathy note. You meant to do it, but it was too hard. You don’t know the bereaved well, and you never met the deceased; nor do you know anything about the relationship between the bereaved and the deceased. How can you…


Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on December 1, 2015 at 8:00am — No Comments

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