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Should You Respond to Inappropriate Comments?

The bereaved report that they are frequently subjected to insensitive comments following a death. It’s not as if someone deliberately wants to hurt the bereaved; inappropriate statements appear to stem from a discomfort with the concept of death and individuals who genuinely are at a loss for words.…

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Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on August 11, 2017 at 6:30am — 1 Comment

Living Life With No Regrets

It’s not uncommon for those bereaved to feel regret. While anyone bereaved can feel regret, children and young adults can be particularly vulnerable. They have less experience with life and death and have yet to understand how fragile life can be. Regret is a deep sadness over what we perceive as missed opportunity and it’s the last thing we want to feel when a loved one…

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Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on August 3, 2017 at 11:30am — No Comments

The Precious Value Of Life!

Sometimes, in life, we come to learn the value of life only through the loss of one.  Life is a beautiful gift from our Heavenly Father  (Psalms 36:9).    The source of life breathe life - the many marvelous creations bring so much joy to those of us who are still able to embrace life.   

When we lose a loved one to death the memories continue.  Our love for them continues in our Heart.   It reminds us of the value of those we love now and those we have loved in the past.  

Added by Diamond on July 28, 2017 at 8:32am — No Comments

It was my darling Clive's funeral today.

I am so glad I found a site like this where I can chat with people who has or are going through grief.

My journey started on the 14th February 2014 when my partner Clive suffered a server stroke which left him with many health complications. I cared for him for the last 3 years and on the 7th July 2017 he suddenly passed away. His funeral was today the 20th July 2017.

I am broken and don't know how I am going to go on. The silence and the empty house is driving me mad. How do I…

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Added by Ashley Payne on July 20, 2017 at 4:54pm — 2 Comments

When a Bereaved Spouse Remarries

Have you heard that Patton Oswalt is engaged? Widowed fifteen months, he has found love again and plans to remarry. The media is aflutter with a bevy of congratulations and support along with criticism that he did not grieve long enough. How do you judge, or should you even judge, how long a bereaved spouse should grieve? Is one year satisfactory? Eighteen months? Or will only…

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Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on July 20, 2017 at 5:00am — 4 Comments

Dealing with loss

Four years ago my husband had an accident and broke his spine in four places. He wasn't supposed to walk or use his hands, but with incredible courage and hard work did both. He did have some disabilities, but never gave up trying to rehabilitate.

Almost a year ago he wasn't feeling well and after nagging him to go to the doctor for days he finally went. That night he said he felt better, ate a little something and went to bed. I found him deceased in the morning. I was his caretaker…

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Added by Michele on July 16, 2017 at 7:55am — 2 Comments

Life After You - Will Your Loved Ones Be Prepared?

My mother was a wise woman and a wonderful teacher. While we shared a lifetime of learning, it was not until her death that I realized she forgot one important lesson: She never told me how to live without her.

I’m not alone. Even though the death of a parent is the natural order of things, everyone I know has struggled with the death of a parent. Whether…

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Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on July 10, 2017 at 6:00pm — No Comments

Celebrate Life Now!!

We will all receive sooner or later an invitation to attend a Memorial followed by a "Celebration Of Life" for the loss of a loved one.   Why not celebrate life as the beautiful gift that it is as given to us by our Heavenly Father. (Romans 12:6)



Life is the most beautiful gift - given to us by our Heavenly Father - Revelation 4:11.  Just take a look at all of the beautiful creation around us.....the trees, flowers, birds, lakes, and oceans.  Know that while we are in the…

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Added by Diamond on June 30, 2017 at 4:56pm — No Comments

Learn from the lost of our love one!

What can we learn from the lost of our love one?  What insight does the lost of our love one gives us?  What about living in the NOW.  What about praising in the NOW.  What about saying those things that when one falls deep into a sleep can no longer hear you.  (Eccl 9:5).  What about the hugs and kisses and beautiful thoughts of that person being express to them now while they can hear it.  

How often do we hear - "just one more day" or "just one more hour" or "just one more hug."…

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Added by Diamond on June 29, 2017 at 12:47pm — No Comments

Why do we die?

As a little girl - I often wondered about a few things in life - but one thing I wondered about - was why do we die?   Why can't we live forever now? It took a long while before I became knowledgeable about why we die. Through our first parents Adam and Eve disobedience to our Heavenly Father and the command they were given in regards to the forbidden fruit. (Genesis 2:16,17) Due to them disobeying our Creator mankind has been inflicted with pain, suffering, and death. (Romans…

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Added by Diamond on June 29, 2017 at 8:17am — No Comments

Where is My Motther and My Father? Why did they have to go?

I lost both of my parents to death, and I just have this deep void.  A sense of being without a parent.  It is so hard to explain the void and how I yearn to be in their company again.  Realistically, I know they have fallen asleep in death (Eccl 9:5).  But in my heart, I yearn to hear their voice.  

I know and am aware of the condition of the dead - but my heart sometimes does not want to register the reality of the situation.  I want to feel as if I would see them in this life…

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Added by Diamond on June 27, 2017 at 7:26pm — No Comments

Condition of the Dead.

So often we hear the doubts and speculation in respects to the dead.  I knew from the very beginning I wanted to know - where is my love one headed.  I did not want a guess or a maybe for an answer.  I wanted to know where can I find the true answer as to the dead condition.  For I have several loved ones that have fallen asleep in death. 

I have received so much comfort from that book that is the one most circulated book in the world and that book is the Bible.  It gives us so much…

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Added by Diamond on June 26, 2017 at 11:08pm — No Comments

Death and Revelation 21:3.4.

So many times we hear the pain associated with the loss of a loved one to be filled with so much dread and anxiety in respects to why, how, and where are their loved one headed after death.  However, I find so much peace and comfort from the scriptures as it allows us to peer into the truth in respects to the condition of the dead.  Our love one is as in a deep sleep - away from any more pain and sorrow; they are not burning in agony or suffering in so far remote no-where.  (Eccl…

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Added by Diamond on June 26, 2017 at 9:18pm — No Comments

The Challenge of Coping With Death

Death is and always will be the enemy of mankind.  It was not our Heavenly Father original purpose for mankind to live, grow old and then die.  The pain associated with the loss of one's love one is so deep and unending that it is indescribable if one tries to describe the level and intensity of the pain.  Just knowing that you will not see your love one tomorrow or to even be able to speak with them - leaves a high-level of disbelief to the situation.  You pulled their last voice mail - you…

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Added by Diamond on June 26, 2017 at 8:44pm — No Comments

When the Bereaved Wish To Be Left Alone

Most of us who have lost a loved one seek comfort from our friends, family, and community. So, it might come as a surprise to learn that some bereaved are not seeking solace and prefer to be left alone. I learned this when my friend’s mother-in-law died. I offered her my condolences and asked where I could send a donation in memory of the deceased. My friend shared that her…

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Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on June 26, 2017 at 1:00pm — No Comments

Lessons From My Dad

I see my mother everywhere. Though I never looked like her, I can now see a physical resemblance and so many of my qualities remind me of her. Not so for my dad. When I was young, everyone said I looked like him, but I no longer see the resemblance. I never had the good fortune to get to know my father and he wasn’t part of my life long enough for me to emulate him in any way.

My dad…

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Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on June 16, 2017 at 6:00am — No Comments

Uber Murder

I express my sincere sympathy to the Medina- Chevez  Family.

I look forward to the day when wickedness will be gone forever

Proverbs 2:22

Added by T.C. Goodwin on May 29, 2017 at 4:07pm — No Comments

A family of one

Hello, I just joined the group. I am having a really BAD day, can't stop crying.

My darling husband of 29 years died unexpectedly in August last year. I was overseas at the time. We have no children and no extended family where we live and very few friends. I had to ask the neighbour to check why he was not answering his phone and it took for EVER. I wanted him to break the door down but he was saying I am over reacting. Eventually my neighbour was able to open a small window and see…

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Added by Sandfly on May 23, 2017 at 2:09pm — 2 Comments

Loss another one to Suicide

 Looking at the news and hear of a famous singer just hung themselves. Mental illness is on the rise and I want to raise awareness. Please don't be ashamed to speak out and help our family members and friends before the enemy death takes them away.... I am looking forward to the time when the enemy death will be gone away forever - 1 Corinthians 15:26

Added by T.C. Goodwin on May 22, 2017 at 9:23am — 2 Comments

Grief's Imprint - Missing the Old Me

The death of a loved one brings significant change. We are no longer a spouse, parent, sibling, child, or friend. Life is completely thrown off course and every aspect of it is altered, including our social order, financial circumstances, and relationships. We view the world through a different lens and as we mourn our loved one, our perspective shifts.

Grieving a loss is…

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Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on May 18, 2017 at 1:30pm — 1 Comment

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