On August !st 2016, my son Staff Sgt Scott Harmeyer committed suicide. He served 2 tours in Afghanistan. He received the metal of valor and 2 purple hearts. Scott served his country with bravery, honor and valor. He was a dedicated soldier who would of given his own life for any soldier on the battlefield. When Scott got home from the first tour, He called me to say Hi. As we were talking I kept hearing Thanks Harmeyer . I asked my son who was talking to him. Scott said " My platoon's…Continue
Added by jeanette harmeyer on December 28, 2016 at 9:52pm — No Comments
Greetings my fellow Christian brothers and sisters,
I love to speak the truth and I have very serious questions that I think many believers would like to know the answer to. Can you tell me please why does God's word promise so much and yet fulfils so very little to nothing in the lives of many devout Christians, in terms of, for example: long life, health, peace, joy and happiness, etc? Instead, I've seen many atheists who live very healthy,…
Added by Rachel Henderson on December 20, 2016 at 9:39pm — No Comments
A word spoken at a right time
How comforting to hear!
We hear these words of consolation
From friends so faithful and so dear
We seek to strengthen one another
And help each on his burden bear...
-Hebrews 10:24, 25
Added by T.C. Goodwin on December 17, 2016 at 10:30am — No Comments
Working in the medical field, I see many things. The depression is on the rise and it's related to stress, post trauma or just a chemical imbalance.. It's sad because when not treated they end up completing suicide. I read about it the local news. We all read about it. It is happening to our friends and our families.
Even Jesus said " It you are sick go to a physician." (Matthew 9:12) Many folks do not do something until its too late. Recognize depression and confide in someone.…Continue
Added by T.C. Goodwin on December 16, 2016 at 12:22pm — No Comments
How she could come to that conclusion following my father’s death was puzzling. My mom was only 46 when she was widowed with four children. She raised us and sent us to college during an era when women did not work outside the home, and…Continue
Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on December 14, 2016 at 8:00am — No Comments
My name is Veronica Droser and I am from Boston, Massachusetts. In January 2011 my dad passed away very suddenly. He had a heart attack in our basement on the morning I was due to start work at my new job. My family has a motto which is “there are no problems, only solutions,” and therefore I have used my experience with my dad’s death as a…Continue
Added by Veronica Droser on December 7, 2016 at 8:41am — No Comments
What’s not to like about the holidays? The vibrant colors, favorite foods, visits with loved ones, opportunities to reminisce, and wonderful smells of the season. Holidays are full of tradition, packed with memories, and bring so much pleasure. For all these reasons, holidays can be a minefield for the bereaved, leaving them feeling sad, left out, and lonely.
Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on December 1, 2016 at 6:00am — No Comments
Yesterday, I attended a memorial service at my cousins funeral. It was pictures of him during happy times....From his marriage....great trips ....children etc... It was a great idea of remembering someone during the happy times. They also showed pictures during the repass...-Revelation 21:3,4
Added by T.C. Goodwin on November 20, 2016 at 8:15am — No Comments
Usually, animals are indeed consigned to pet cemeteries, where their owners have long…Continue
Added by Florence Isaacs on November 17, 2016 at 12:00pm — No Comments
For whatever reason, you never wrote a sympathy note. Is it OK to write one now, three, six, or 12 months late?
My perspective on belated condolences shifted when a bereaved spouse shared, “The bereaved never ‘get over’ missing their loved ones, and they…Continue
Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on November 15, 2016 at 2:00pm — No Comments
A team of contractors was shocked to learn that the team’s government manager was injured in a car accident. The news was grim, and the contractors did nothing at first, not knowing whether he would survive his spinal cord injuries. One of the team members asked, “What if we send his wife a card and he dies? Will we be making the…Continue
Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on November 7, 2016 at 12:00pm — No Comments
Most funerals I have been to have been very dignified. Why? This is because everything was laid out as the deceased desired.
I remember when I was younger folks fought over who should take what flowers... I felt awkward.
It's wisdom it putting things in writing. That way the family will not fight over things... House? Car? Bills?....
- Proverbs 22:3
Added by T.C. Goodwin on October 28, 2016 at 6:50pm — No Comments
I had a good friend that I noticed that she was losing a lot of weight. She would say my stomach hurt....She would go to the doctor and never really tell us what was going on.....She died..
I am more determined now to get involved in my good friends lives...A few months ago I accompanied one of my other friends to the emergency room... The staff were throwing out all types of medical terms. I told the doctor to speak clearly and explain in simpler terms what was going on (Not sure she…Continue
Added by T.C. Goodwin on October 24, 2016 at 8:37am — No Comments
Read something interesting about Hospice
1) Keep bed sheets clean
2) Change position frequently to prevent bed sores
3) Change undergarment or diapers if needed
4) Keep the mouth moist with wet swabs or ice chips/lip balm
5) Hold our love ones hand and remember the last thing to go is their hearing
- Awake 2015
Added by T.C. Goodwin on October 23, 2016 at 2:00pm — No Comments
A friend in her early 30s was deeply affected by the recent death of former Israeli President Shimon Peres. She was unfamiliar with Peres until she read his obituary and learned his life story. She shared that she was unaware that Peres had tried to broker peace in the Middle East.…Continue
Added by Robbie Miller Kaplan on October 21, 2016 at 9:30am — No Comments
My family engaged in a group text regarding remembering those that month that died in our family... I believe it was actually the anniversary of 2 love ones.... So the texts started off depressing.. Then my sister turned it around and said ...."let's also remember the wonderful life that came in the world today"... Let's celebrate them and the birth of a new baby in our family....Let's remember precious memories of the dead and alive.... I thank my sis for making us…Continue
Added by T.C. Goodwin on October 18, 2016 at 2:05pm — No Comments
Although many of us have different belief systems, we have one thing in common- death. It is our enemy. I love to have comfort from friends and family but I get the greatest comfort from the wonderful promises in God's word the Bible. I can't wait to the time when God will do away with death and pain. In addition to all the suffering and injustice....No politician( or any other human being) can do away with death but God can and he will....
Added by T.C. Goodwin on October 17, 2016 at 9:45am — No Comments