I just suddenly lost my sister at age 51.  She was living with me and my husband and mother at my house for the past 2 years.  She lived in another state for 30 years before that and became injured after a car accident.  Her life the past 14 years was riddled with pain and depression.  Her marriage ended and she became financially unstable.  She had recently been diagnosed with diabetes earlier this year.  I saw her the night before she died and she looked happy and beautiful and was looking…