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Support Group on Facebook!

We have support group on Facebook for Bereaved spouses that was created approx three years ago. We would like to invite new members to join us if you need to chat on one to one basis or you need some extra support. Stick with Legacy connect because it's a tremendous help but if you need a bit more. Come to us for that. Hugs to all of you!https://www.facebook.com/groups/Bereaved.Spouses/

Added by Hurting on July 25, 2013 at 9:50pm — No Comments

Fourteen Months...........................

They say there is a reason, They say that time will heal.

But neither time nor reason Will change the way we feel.

For no one knows the heartache that lies behind our smiles.

No one knows how many times we have…

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Added by Hurting on February 23, 2011 at 7:40pm — No Comments

Message from Hari

Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free

I'm following the path God laid for me.

I took His hand when I heard him call;

I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day,

To laugh, to love, to work or play.

Tasks left undone must stay that way;

I found that place at the close of the day.

If my parting has left a void,

Then fill it with remembered joy.

A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss;

Ah yes, these things, I too will miss.

Be not… Continue

Added by Hurting on February 23, 2011 at 9:00am — No Comments

Where Are You?

Has anybody wondered what happens after death. I am hindu so in my religion there is reincarnation and if you have paid & collected all the debts then you go to the final stage where there is no more life cycle processes anymore. Now my questions are:

If this is just one cycle and his soul has left this life. Would my being miserable and sad keep on pulling him back?

Am I doing the right thing by pulling him back instead of letting him move forward?

The relationship… Continue

Added by Hurting on January 10, 2011 at 12:14am — No Comments

Forty Five Weeks!

Stop hurting O My Heart!

I'm Gone now,…

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Added by Hurting on October 27, 2010 at 3:33pm — 2 Comments

Thirty Nine Weeks!

Seems like just yesterday when we talked on the phone.…

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Added by Hurting on September 15, 2010 at 4:30pm — No Comments

Thirty Seven Weeks Have Made Me Realize That There Is No Me Or You, All There Is US.

At the rising of the sun and at its going down I will remember you.…

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Added by Hurting on September 1, 2010 at 8:00pm — No Comments

I Am Still Here!

I am not gone, while you cry with me

I am not gone, while you smile with me

I am not gone, while you remember with me

I will come, when you call my name

I am in your pain and tears today

I am in your memories and joy today

I am in the sunrise and sunset today

I am everywhere around you today

I will come, when I feel your pain

I will come, on your final day

It could never be, that we would never be

We shall always be together…

Added by Hurting on July 3, 2010 at 11:45am — No Comments

Twenty Seven Weeks!

It's Twenty Seven Weeks

To realize that time spend with you was so dear. When you are no longer here. I cling to memories, that bring you near. If only I could touch you again, without bringing back the pain. Feeling your presence that you are not really that far away. One day would us bring back the aura and magic of being again together. I know you are just a whisper away, just wish could see and feel you.

Added by Hurting on June 30, 2010 at 3:39pm — No Comments

My Journey Has Just Begun!

Don't think of me as gone away-

My journey's just begun,

life holds so many facets-

this earth is only one. . .

Just think of me as resting

from the sorrows and the tears

in a place of warmth and comfort

where there are no days and years.

Think how I must be wishing

that we could know today

how nothing but our sadness

can really pass away.

And think of me as living

in the hearts of those I touched. . .

for nothing loved is… Continue

Added by Hurting on June 23, 2010 at 9:04am — No Comments

When I’m Gone! ........................From Hari

When I come to the end of my journey

and I travel my last weary mile.

Just forget if you can that I ever frowned

and remember only the smile.

Forget unkind words I have spoken;

remember some good I have done.

Forget that I ever had heartache

and remember I've had loads of fun.

Forget that I've stumbled and blundered

and sometimes fell by the way.

Remember that I have fought some hard battles,

and won, ere the close of the… Continue

Added by Hurting on June 23, 2010 at 8:56am — No Comments

My Heart Is Hurting!

Today evening it is going to be six months. I am up since 4 a.m. wondering if there is anything I can do to turn the clock six months back. I would just stay home with you not leaving you alone for a moment. I would do everything in my power to keep you. Today I won't hold you back because you have a path to follow. You follow your destiny and I will hurt because that is mine destiny. Families are useless because when you really need them they are never there. Neither one of your brother or… Continue

Added by Hurting on June 23, 2010 at 7:50am — 1 Comment

Some Poems

If I should die and leave you here a while,
be not like others sore undone,
who keep long vigil by the silent dust.
For my sake turn again to life and smile,
nerving thy heart and trembling hand to do
something to comfort other hearts than thine.
Complete these dear unfinished tasks of mine
and I perchance may therein comfort you.

Added by Hurting on June 16, 2010 at 10:00pm — No Comments

From: Hari

Time for me to go now, I won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, way up in the sky.
In the morning sunrise when all the world is new,
Just look for me and love me, as you know I loved you.
Time for me to leave you, I won't say goodbye;
Look for me in rainbows, high up in the sky.
In the evening sunset, when all the world is through,
Just look for me and love me, and I'll be close to you.

Added by Hurting on June 16, 2010 at 10:00pm — No Comments

MISSING YOU! (24 Weeks)

Time does not bring relief; they all have lied who told me time would ease me of my pain! I miss you in the weeping of the rain; I want you at the shrinking of the tide; The old snows melt from every mountain-side,and last year's leaves are smoke in every lane; But last year's bitter loving must remain heaped on my heart, and my old thoughts abide. There are a hundred places where I fear to go - because your memory haunts me at every turn. I enter with relief some quiet place where you never… Continue

Added by Hurting on June 9, 2010 at 8:00pm — No Comments

Twenty Three Weeks Today!

Honey, If tears could build a stairway znd memories were a lane, I would walk right up to heaven to bring you home again. No farewell words were spoken. No time to say good-bye. You were gone before we knew it,and only God knows why. My heart still aches in sadness and secret tears still flow. What it meant to lose you,No one will ever know. Missing you now and forever.

Added by Hurting on June 2, 2010 at 7:11pm — No Comments

Some Poems That Fit Right Now!

I know I have to let you go.

How I will, I do not know.

I know that it's your time to die.

What I don't know is how to say goodbye.

I'll miss you so much

I don't know what to do.

I guess I'll just end this poem

with a goodbye and an I love you.

I thought of you with love today

but that is nothing new

I thought about you yesterday

and days before that too,

I think of you in silence

I often speak your name

All I… Continue

Added by Hurting on May 26, 2010 at 7:23pm — No Comments

Why Did You Go?

Today it is 22 weeks. If I could get a chance to talk to you, I would like to ask following questions:

1. Why did you go so suddenly?

2. Did you hurt as bad leaving us as I am hurting since that day being deserted by you?

3. Why did you make those marriage vows of taking care of me in sickness and health if you were going to leave anyways?

4. Do you have even a tiny idea how bad all of us are affected by your sudden departure?

5. Are You Okay?

6. When will my… Continue

Added by Hurting on May 26, 2010 at 1:43pm — No Comments

Remembering You

Today it is 20 weeks! Why did you go? Why?

Your time on earth seemed all too brief

because I wanted you in my life forever.

And although I really miss you,

in my heart I know that you are at peace.

Still, countless times throughout the day

I find myself remembering you.

Although I cannot see or hear you,

I know that you are with me.

I'll feel you in the warmth of the summer sun.

I'll see you in the brilliance of autumn… Continue

Added by Hurting on May 12, 2010 at 7:30pm — No Comments

God Heals

Remember when you heard the words -

and your mind went blank - you were in another world

God heals

Remember in your darkest hours -

when all that surrounds you is pain and sorrow

God heals

Remember friends' prayers - your family's encouragement

- glimmers of hope from everyday angels

God heals

Quiet...you can hear Him now -

always there - yet never this close

God heals

It's just another day -

yet everything has changed - and you… Continue

Added by Hurting on May 12, 2010 at 12:30pm — No Comments