When that vessel that holds our divine spark shatters after experiencing loss, everything kind of goes haywire. Our emotions run rampant, our memory becomes swiss cheese, and often times we don't say what we mean. The last one isn't intentional, it just happens. I think it's a combination of the first two that causes our basic communication skills to basically shut down. In our heads we're thinking one thing; out of our mouths comes something either incomprehensible or sugar coated so we…Continue
Added by Christopher Ruggles on November 29, 2012 at 4:49pm — No Comments
Grief does very strange things to us, both physically and mentally. Our emotions change in a fraction of a second, often making us feel like we're either going completely mad or we're schizophrenic. Physically, after the initial loss, we have that sensation of having a large empty space in our chest.
One of the things that are the most difficult to get through, are the physical habits we had. Specifically, having another person next to us in bed. That physical act affects…Continue
Added by Christopher Ruggles on November 19, 2012 at 2:07pm — No Comments