Cody was my 21 year old Mommas boy. He had a heart of gold, he would have done anything for anyone. On the anniversay of his older brothers death Feb 13, 2011 Cody spent the day with me because he knew I always needed cheering up on that day.We had a wonderful day . We talked and he had a snowball fight with his little sister.We were going to the cemetary to put flowers on Matts grave and stopped to buy flowers. We were at a small Dollar Store and there was a line of people and one cashier. cody is standing in line and starts belting out Splish splash I was taking a bath and the cashier looked at him smiled and sand along about a saturday night! then the gentleman behind us sang the next line and Jessice and I were hiding our faces and laughing.When it was our turn the cashier told him it was refreshing to have someone like that in the store! We wet to the cemetary and walked around and talked some more. then on the way home he asked if I could take him to his friends house because it was his friends 21st birthday, since we had just had such an awsome day I said sure and I will pick you up in the morning. But that never happened. I dropped him off at 7pm and at 10:30 pm I recieved a call from Codys cell phone, when I answered it was a woman asking if I knew my son had been in an accident. I asked her a car accident and she said no a fall I will put the doctor on. The doctor very bluntly said he was goofing around and climbed to the top of a 30 foot tree and the branch broke with him. He fell 30 feet to the ground landing on his back.The kids he was with did CPR till the life squad arrived but the lifesquad lost his pulse and we couldnt get it back. I just remember screamin into the phone no dont say that No No No. He then put the nurse back on the phone to give me directions to the hospital. I did ask what time he fell and he said around 10 pm. Our electric went out at 10 pm and the electric company coudnt find anything wrong and it came back on at 11:30.I remember arriving at the hospital and seeing my baby just laying there lifeless. I hugged you and stroked your face like I was waiting for you to open your eyes. they finally had to ask me to leave because I didnt want to go and leave you behind.Cody was so full of life and always wanted to make people laugh. he was the jokester, the life of the party. He loved his family and friends with everything he had. I will miss that smile, I will miss that hug and I love you Mommy. So I lost both of my sons on Feb.13 twenty three years apart and both experiences have been so different. I know I made it through the first one but I had 3 little ones to cling to. I know my other children need me now even if they are older and I will go on for them but I have lost a big piece of my heart that I will never get back! I love you Cody and Matt!