why are they so rude? why dont they ever realize they are hurting your feelings and pushing you away? i dont get it? after so many years jus when i think things r gettin better they jus get worse then they were before? i feel as if we dnt talk it out heart to heart we could end our relationship which i kinda think that is wat we need right about now. talkin to your spouse(men) is like talkin to a wall. your words echo but nuthyn talks back jus a clear silence, ino yu prolli sayin well silince is good but not realli its kinda worse, your suppose to be able to talk to your spouse witout fighting?