THE CLOSER THE HOLIDAYS THE MORE MY HEART ACHES

CHRISTMAS IS COMING AND I HATE IT,MY BELOVED HUSBAND WAS BURIED ON CHRISTMAS EVE AND I AM SO SICK MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY THINKING ABOUT GETTING THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS AGAIN,PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME THROUGH THIS WITH WORDS OF WISDOM,COURAGE AND HOW THEY MADE IT ,I REALLY DONT THINK I CAN DO IT THIS YEAR IT IS HARDER THAN EVER NOT SEEING HIM OR TALKING TO HIM ,COFFEE IN THE EARLY MORNING WAITING FOR THE CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN TO COME ,NOW THEY DONT LIKE TO COME HERE BECAUSE THEIR DAD AND GRANDPOP IS NOT HERE AND THEY GET UPSET AND THAT UPSETS ME MORE,WHAT ABOUT ME?

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Comment by Jane Velarde on February 1, 2010 at 8:00pm
I lost the love of my life (18 years together) on Jan. 25 from pancreatic cancer. The grief is unbearable. I can't stop crying. I went back to work today (probably too soon) and it was so lonely to know he wouldn't call and that I would be driving home to an empty condo. I miss him so much and I don't understand how anyone can sustain this intense level of emotional pain. Someone, please help me.
Comment by ROBERTA SALYER on December 18, 2009 at 11:00pm
hello,
iam so sorry u r going thru all of this i lost my fiancee on dec 19th and buried him on dec 23rd its very hard and i know exactly what ur going thru iam a wreck and it feels like it was just yesterday he was with me i try to b strong but it dosent work and i dislike christmas now if u want to talk im here and would love to talk with someone that is going thru what iam.......
Comment by Pastor Barbara McGuckin on December 15, 2009 at 7:07am
Please take one day at a time. Yes, each day brings a new and different feeling that is real and ok to feel. With the Christmas season approaching soon . . . here is some food for thought. Sometimes it can be nice to have a "Christmas Ornament Rememberance Day" for the ones we miss and love! All can bring an ornament to the house & those that wish can say what they feel and remember; releaving the heaviness their hearts and minds to hopefully enjoy what they have sitting right in front of them. It's ok for moments of tears, silence, & possibly a little laughter. Every moment is all apart of the healing process. Then, you often can choose or not choose to say to each person how blessed you are to have them at an arms reach length with a hug exchange.

Blessings to you & your loved ones! You will be in my prayers!

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