I just stumbled (thankfully) across this site, visiting my late husbands obit online. January 2nd, 2010 will be the one year anniversary of his passing. He had survived heart failure after being in a coma for almost 2 months. Then 10 months later, after 18 holes of golf, he died. We had moved from Kansas to Texas to be close to family. We were looking forward to spending time getting aquainted with the area and traveling. He was 62, full of life, full of love.
Now I'm here...enjoying my grandchildren, and trying to pretend my life is great without him. It's not. I'm 55. Year before last he was in a coma when we both had March birthdays. Last year he died 8 weeks before his 63rd B.D.
I have no friends, and my health is failing. I also take care of my 81 year old mother. There are so many that are in worse situations and whose pain is much deeper. I try to remember that...but am not always successful. To all of you out there that share the grief and pain, I pray God's comfort and peace....For all of us.