My father in law passed on 12/22/09, I believe that my husband was more shocked than anything, he went to TN to visit around a month ago; however, Im not really sure how to address his "grieving process" because he still presents as one that does not show emotions and would prefer to change the subject, opposed to talking about his "true" feelings. I will continue to pray and be supportive as much as he allows. Lord, please dont call anymore of your children home at least for the rest of the year. Im not sure if I can deal with much more. I would really like to remember the positive attributes of a person. (I wish others felt the same). Stay in constant prayer for everyone.