I JUST LOST MY HUSBAND IN AUG. I JUST RETIRED IN 2008 AND WE MOVED TO BE CLOSER TO MY SON AND OUT OF THE COLD WEATHER. MY HUSBAND COULDN'T TAKE THE WEATHER BACK HOME. HE CAME HERE FIRST AND I AFTER 4 MONTHS. WE WERE VERY HAPPY HERE. THEN IN JAN 2008 HE GOT SICK AND WENT DOWN HILL. IN AND OUT OF HOSPITALS IN MAY 2 DAYS AFTER MOTHERS DAY HE LEFT HOME AND NEVER CAME BACK. I WAS SO HAPPY FOR MOTHER'S DAY HE WANTED TO TAKE ME OUT FOR LUNCH BUFFET AND DO A LITTLE GAMBLE HE WAS SO SICK HE HAD TO DO IT FOR ME. I WILL NEVER THINK HIM FOR THAT PRECIOUS DAY. HE WAS MOVED IN AND OUT 7 TIMES CAUSE HIS INSURANCE SAID HE COULD GET BETTER AT A LOWER INSURANCE PLACE. IF THE INSURANCE CO WOULD OF JUST LEFT HIM AT THE 2ND PLACE HE WOULD BE ALIVE I BELIEVE. HE HAD 3 MORE DAYS OF REHAP BUT INSURANCE SAID NO SENT HIM TO A AWLFUL PLACE THEY DIDN'T TAKE GOOD CARE OF HIM HE ENDED UP IN A TERRIBLE HOSPITAL THAT DIDN'T DO THEIR JOB HE DIDN'T GET THERAPY OR DIALYSIS LIKE HE WAS TO BE GETTING AND FED HIM STUFF HE WASN'T TO EAT, MY SON AND I AND DAUGHTER IN LAW FOUGHT AND GOT HIM OUT WHEN HE WENT BACK TO THE ORIGINAL HOSPITAL THEY WERE SHOCK TO SEE HIM IN THE CONDITION HE WAS IN. THEY WORKED WITH HIM AND JUST STARTED TO GET HIM BETTER. HE WAS MOVED TO A REHAP HOSPITAL AT THE END WAS DOING GREAT WAS TO BE MOVED TO A REHAP FACILUTY GOT 2 INFECTIONS AT ONCE. HE WAS SO SO SICK HE QUIT EATING COULDN'T TURN WITHOUT HELP ETC. HE BEGGED TO DIE HE SAID HE COULDN'T LIVE THAT WAY. HE GOT REAL SICK AND WENT INTO A SEMI COMA I WENT IN THAT MORNING AND I KNEW HE WAS DYING I REGRET I DIDN'T GET TO SAY I LOVE YOU HE WENT INTO CARDIAC ARRECT THEY CALLED CODE BLUE AND PUSH ME OUT OF THE ROOM THEY CALLED 911 TO TRANSPORT HIM TO A BIG HOSPITAL BUT HE REALLY WAS DEAD. BEFORE THAT HE WOKE UP SCREAMING HELP ME HELP ME I DON'T KNOW WHAT THAT WAS ABOUT OR EVERY WILL.

I MISS HIM SO MUCH IT WOULD OF BEEN 41 YRS 1 WEEK AFTER HE DIED. I WAS WITH HIM ALL THE WAY. I JOIN A SUPPORT GROUP IT HELPS BUT I AM HERE ALONE AND MY SON LOST HIS JOB DON'T KNOW WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN I WILL EITHER FOLLOW MY SON IF HE GETS A JOB OUTSIDE THE STATE OR MOVE BACK WHERE I CAME FROM,

MY HUSBAND PICK THIS CONDO OUT I LOVE IT BUT I FEEL 2 PEOPLE DIED FROM THIS PLACE AND MY HUSBAND WAS 3 I HATE BEING ALONE. AND I JUST CAN'T GET OVER THE GRIEF THEY SAY IT TAKES TIME BUT I DON'T KNOW. MY SON BEEN WITH ME ALL THE WAY BUT HE CAN'T SHOW HIS GRIEF AND I CAN'T TALK ABOUT HIS DAD TO HIM. I DON'T KNOW WHAT WAY TO TURN.

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