I read your last message to me but can't get the website to allow me in to respond. I don't know if u will read this but I'm trying to answer you but can't. You may have responded to many people in need. I'm the one who lost her brother in oct. his obit is listed in the berkshirew eagle in pittsfield ma on the 26th or 27th of 08. please read and contact me thru that if u can. I went to your sister's webside and was moved beyond tears. What an absolutely beautiful tribute to her, what a wonderful sister u are to her. I hope u recognize who i am from this posting, I don't even know if it's going to show up in the right place on this wesite. My e-mail address is email@example.com if u have the time and would like to answer me there. By the way my brother's name is Bailey Rogers. Thank u so much for ur support. If there is anyone else out there reading this and would like me to hear how they are doing or would like to help me thru my growing not diminishing grief feel free to contact me. I'm not new to grief, it's followed me all my life, my dad died when I was 5 and I've been struggling all my life it seems. I don't want to seem like nothing but a bummer. i might be able to help someone too, at least that's one of my hopes. It's certainly not all about me. we are all on this website to find a connection and some hope and support.