My son Sean age 25 passed away 2 months ago, He went to hang out with a friend, I guess they talked about getting high & they took some pills & my son pasted out & never woke up. My heart is so broken, I feel like a part of me has passed along with him. Every minute of the day, all day long my mind is on Sean. Im still in SHOCK!!! I have read books & lots of pamplets on grieving, I started going to church, Iam looking for a support group that my husband & I can attend. I came across Legacy.com & thought maybe I can chat with someone who has experienced the same lost as me. If anyone that has come across what I have experienced please write to me. Thank you.

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Comment by cynthia Thurman on August 31, 2010 at 9:57pm
Hi Ronda , and also Carrie and also all the rest of US that are going thru the same thing!!!
WE ALL have buried OUR CHILDREN, that is not the way it is suppose to be!
But it has happen!,
Now where do we go from here, How do we stay sane after the worst of the worst has happen!
I don't shut up talking, if I'am not talking on the street , I'am writing in my JOURNAL or I'am on this site!
There is no-way I can shut=up!! I have a daughter that was found in 2002 Sept 1st which will be tomorrow!!! She was found in a hotel at the age of just turn 35 years old leaving 3 kids behind that I had raised for her, she was found after 3 days in this hotel, and now she is in this DRUG COMA laying with a FEEDING TUBE! My Daughter is not really alive except she is breathing, living out of our state!
I have buried 2 grandsons, Nov-2002, My husband, after all of this that has happen he had a stroke and died Aug 2003!
I'am still in shock!!!!
I'am thinking what else is left that can happen, the worst has already happen! All we can do is try to hold each other up that has been thru this!
I always ask parents how did you cope with this!
I need to know if there is anything left that I haven't tried to stay sane!

Just never stop talking,



your child, he is your child and always will be your child!
Talking is therphy! Weather is it to someone or in a Journal! You can't stop talking people!!!!
It will KILL you! That's what happen to by husband, I wasn't allowed to talk, turn on the TV, RADIO, nothing, he grieved his-self to death over his daughter and his 2 grandsons we buried within 3 months apart in 2002!
My email address is cynthiacoxthurman@yahoo.com
Anytime you can email me anytime!!
My 1st question to most people is have you lost a child, if you haven, then how can you tell me how I feel!!
Yes I also have found some very good true stories, I have started to read, but never finish,
All I know we are not alone out here!!! take care everyone!
there is alot of us out here!!!
We are not alone!
Cynthia
Comment by cynthia Thurman on August 31, 2010 at 9:57pm
Hi Ronda , and also Carrie and also all the rest of US that are going thru the same thing!!!
WE ALL have buried OUR CHILDREN, that is not the way it is suppose to be!
But it has happen!,
Now where do we go from here, How do we stay sane after the worst of the worst has happen!
I don't shut up talking, if I'am not talking on the street , I'am writing in my JOURNAL or I'am on this site!
There is no-way I can shut=up!! I have a daughter that was found in 2002 Sept 1st which will be tomorrow!!! She was found in a hotel at the age of just turn 35 years old leaving 3 kids behind that I had raised for her, she was found after 3 days in this hotel, and now she is in this DRUG COMA laying with a FEEDING TUBE! My Daughter is not really alive except she is breathing, living out of our state!
I have buried 2 grandsons, Nov-2002, My husband, after all of this that has happen he had a stroke and died Aug 2003!
I'am still in shock!!!!
I'am thinking what else is left that can happen, the worst has already happen! All we can do is try to hold each other up that has been thru this!
I always ask parents how did you cope with this!
I need to know if there is anything left that I haven't tried to stay sane!

Just never stop talking,



your child, he is your child and always will be your child!
Talking is therphy! Weather is it to someone or in a Journal! You can't stop talking people!!!!
It will KILL you! That's what happen to by husband, I wasn't allowed to talk, turn on the TV, RADIO, nothing, he grieved his-self to death over his daughter and his 2 grandsons we buried within 3 months apart in 2002!
My email address is cynthiacoxthurman@yahoo.com
Anytime you can email me anytime!!
My 1st question to most people is have you lost a child, if you haven, then how can you tell me how I feel!!
Yes I also have found some very good true stories, I have started to read, but never finish,
All I know we are not alone out here!!! take care everyone!
there is alot of us out here!!!
We are not alone!
Cynthia
Comment by Carrie L on August 21, 2010 at 2:19pm
Hi Ronda I too have your loss I am so sorry. there is such a problem with this age group I had made so many mistakes with my son now i have to deal with his death till i am gone. it is not goin to be a simple processs. i hope you will be ok and i hope i will too but making all those mistakes hurts. they need us so much more than they put out.. and i truly thought he would be ok. i thought he was justgiving his family a hard time I will never be able to hug him tell him i love him or help him. gone is a horrible thing. i didn't even think about death but i think people aught to start waking up and realize it is a hard age in these times. Carrie l
Comment by Lauree Lage on August 18, 2010 at 5:28pm
Hi Ronda, I lost my son Cameron 2 months ago on May 28th do a drug overdose also. I am probably exactly at the same spot you are in my grief process. My husband and myself have also started attending church. Two days ago was the worst that I experienced since he passed. I cried all day. Some days are good and some not so good, like a roller coaster. I would love to write you every day and see how you are doing. I believe that the only way for us to survive this horrible loss is to place our faith in God and to remember that our sons would not want us to spend the rest of our lives grieving and unhappy. My son loved me more than anything or any one on this earth, we were very close, so I know that he would want me to be happy. Please, I encourage you to write me. If you get a chance, post a picture of your son. I can tell you more as we chat. Lauree

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