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At 5:21pm on February 27, 2011, Patricia Hill said…

omg Cynthia what a story. I am so so sorry for your huge loss. I too lost my husband to a heart attack, never knew it was coming. He is my best friend, my rock I lean on and my entire world. It has been so hard learning how to move thru life without him. He passed on August 4th 2010. Seems so long since I held him kissed him loved him but the pain is like yesterday. Look foward to hearing from you on this site. Take care of yourself, we have too

Patty Hill

At 4:33am on February 27, 2011, Gail R said…
I am so sorry for your loss Cynthia. I lost my husband suddenly in his sleep Jan 14 2011. I feel exactly the same as you. I hope we can help each other.
At 9:08am on February 26, 2011, Tina Walker said…
My heart and prayers go out to you hun...I lost my hubby Jan 23rd of this year..I understand when you say that ur missing a part of you..it's our soulmates true love heart bestfriend...all wraped up into one..I just want you to know u can allways email me anytime if u want to talk vent anything okay celticgemwlf@gmail.com Lots of Hugs Tina
At 12:19am on February 24, 2011, Marilyn Hannah said…

I live in close to Pell City, Al.

Not too far from West Blockton.

At 12:18am on February 24, 2011, Marilyn Hannah said…

My heart goes out to you.

My husband died Oct 29, 2010 and my Mom Dec 12,2010.

I am trying to get thru each day.

Please try to take care of yourself.

My email is clhannah@centurytel.net if you ever need to talk.

I don't sleep very well so I check my messages several time a night.

Marilyn

At 7:35am on February 14, 2011, Christy said…

Cynthia,

 Sorry you are having a rough time. I hope you can get some rest today. I know it's hard. I feel like I haven't really SLEPT since Larry passed. Try to avoid the ads & hoopla over Valentine's today & tomorrow won't be so bad hopefully. I know it sucks but look for things to be thankful over & you'll be o.k. For me, I think sometimes that at least Larry didn't suffer through some long, painful illness and then die. It doesn't help much, but it is something to be thankful for.

Best wishes,

Christy

At 1:12am on February 13, 2011, Barbara Roth said…
Cynthia, I hope you had a somewhat peaceful day yesterday. My thoughts and prayers are with you. What did you do? Jim's birthday is coming up soon (March 15). How have you been? I'm having a rough nite, can't seem to be able to sleep,even though I'm tired. Stupid nerves again and missing Jim. Take care of yourself.
At 1:12am on February 13, 2011, Barbara Roth said…
Cynthia, I hope you had a somewhat peaceful day yesterday. My thoughts and prayers are with you. What did you do? Jim's birthday is coming up soon (March 15). How have you been? I'm having a rough nite, can't seem to be able to sleep,even though I'm tired. Stupid nerves again and missing Jim. Take care of yourself.
At 11:39am on February 11, 2011, Debbie Treadway said…
Cynthia, I will have you in my prayers tomorrow. My husband's birthday will be Feb. 21 and it will also be my first without him. I hope you can think of a special birthday memory that you have of him and that you can smile about it. I m going to try to be thankful for all the birthdays that I got to share with my husband and try to remember some of the happiness we shared although I know it will be mixed with tears. May peace be with you tomorrow and every day.
At 7:27am on February 11, 2011, Christy said…

Cynthia,

I am praying for you to have peace over this. That's what I want. My husband was 38 yrs old also when he was killed in an accident at work on August 27th. It's been 5 months & I still can't believe it's real. It's such a shock. I saw him getting ready & leaving for work, but we didn't speak because he was trying to let me get alittle more rest before I had to get up for work.

They were so young. It's so wrong for them not to be here. Healthy young men ... Please know I understand  and if you ever need an ear, I'm here.

God bless us & keep us.

Christy

At 12:44pm on January 28, 2011, kathy obiedzinski said…
cynthia: first and most of all i am sorry for your loss. what a horrible thing for you to go thru. cynthia you do not have to know how to express your feeling this is what this site is for. george passed 22 months ago his birthday is today he would have been 62 i go on this site and say whatever i have to say sometime it does not make any sense but the people here do not and never did judge me i vent out my feeling instead of keeping them inside me i think that is the worst thing i could do. again please vent out and again no one will judge you they are here to listen to you you are in my prayers take care and again stay here and vent when you have to say what ever you feel 
At 9:22am on January 28, 2011, Debbie Treadway said…

Cynthia, thanks for your encouraging words and for your prayers.

At 7:15am on January 28, 2011, Debbie Treadway said…
Cynthia, I am so sorry for your loss. It has been 5 months for me and i can say that some of the days are getting a little better. This is a wonderful place to be and to share your feelings with people who really understand what you are going through. Always feel free to share anything that you want with us we are all here to listen and try to help. You will be in my prayers along with all my other friends here.
At 11:38pm on January 25, 2011, Barbara Roth said…
Hi Cynthia, I am so sorry for your loss. Both our lives were shattered on Oct 21. I can't imagine going through what you have. I hope you stay here with us and I hope you find some comfort like I have. This is the hardest part of life I've ever had to face. Before Jim died, he told me that I had to be strong. I'm trying, but it hurts so much. Hopefully we will get through, one day at a time (some times one minute at a time!). Hugs to you.
At 11:45am on January 23, 2011, Dianne said…
Hang on Cynthia with all you have and all you know how.  Yes, it hurts so, so bad right now; and we don't have the answer as to when it will stop hurting, but it will one day.  That's why we have to hold on to God's unchanging hand.  He will comfort us and guide us.  I lost my mother over ten years ago, and I lost sight of His comfort and guidance.  YES, I loved God with all my heart and I prayed constantly, but so many others things got in my way; my emotions, my anger, my hurt, my guilt, etc.  I let people talk negative to me and I accepted criticism to my heart.  I tried to do good and yet I kept digging a hole for myself.  It wasn't until I totally turned my emotions, anger, hurt and guilt to God and said "I let go."  Hang in there and you take one day at a time.  Do what you can for that day and let tomorrow and God take care of the rest.

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