Melinda, I lost my only daughter 01/04/2009 said turn 30 years old, well prepare with her masters degree to start our life, when I lost her it was the worse day of my life, nothing could and can compare to that news and the way I felt. We have lost our love child, but God as put angles and special friend with family that give their support. Ultimately when I get week they help to make me strong. I cherish those beautiful memories of her from birth to her pasting. They're memories is for ever. Be comforted and encourage yourself each day and trust in God He promise we will see our love child when He God put in his appearance. Be encourage and enjoy her memories forever. MedoraKAy.
malinda guinn. thankyou for sending the letter. I don't know very much about computers I am disabled and my mom would help me everyday just talking .malinda I just don't know how to go on without my mother. It sure hurts everyday and night. I don't have a life anymore.thankyou for the letter I hope you get this as I said I don't know the computer verywell
Melinda, sounds like you all enjoyed your time together.
I'd say that it pains you when you see your grands because you think of your daughter Candace. There are two sides to every coin. My opinion is (you can use it or not) if you turn the coin when you see your grand daughters and concentrate on being with them 110% and enjoy each moment you are with them you will be able to feel happiness. An 8 year old girl next door came over to climb our tree. The last time I saw her I gave a a few sun visors. She was going on vacation and I haven't seen her in a few weeks. Unfortunate for me she is always at her grams or inside the house. I can say it helped me a lot as I concentrated on the moment and time I was being with this bright 8 year old girl. I didn't want to type this on the main page to answer because people get an e-mail notice every time someone posts on the main wall.
Hi Melinda. How are you? I haven't been on here for some time now.I read your last comment to me.I loved it and thank you for it. It means a lot your statement regarding my son...I haven't been feeling well. Last month I had a mini stroke and spent 3 days I the hospital.I am ok now.I miss my son tremendously and as all I do mostly is read the bible. Reading the bible has helped me a lot to deal with my lol Joe.I tell GOD that I want him back. But God said no. So I told GOD to take me home he said no. It is not your tome yet. Please note this is not audible but spiritually.I don't want people to think I am nuts....but With God I would've been in the my place. God gives me comfort and strength.he has collected all my tears that I shed everyday in a bucket...so not to bored you...I hope you are doing ok.aida lil Joe's mom
How funny I just found your friend request and of course accepted. But your photo is on my wall before clicking.
I only went on the main wall once recently. If there is a new person I sometimes go on their wall and post a message to them after reading about their loss. Then I check back to see if they have left me a message. I told one person to click on my name and send me a post. I guess that some people are not ready to post. I didn't come on here right away.
Right-click on the picture, then click on Save as Picture or Desktop ... so it is saved to your computer. Then when you write your next comment, click on the second icon above (which says Image), choose your pic, approve, and it will be there!
Melinda, Sometimes we all feel alone. Even people who have never have children and sometimes people that have children. I guess it's just a part of life.
I just wrote 2 letters to my son Joe on his page on FB. On Christmas 2011 my husband brought food to my mother. But I didn't go because it was too cold for me to go out. They had a good rapport and would laugh together just as he and I do. But they didn't have arguments. That day I felt a little lonely but went on the computer. I was so proud of myself that I actually registered and got on. I know one guy friend who said he tried but gave up trying to get on. Anyway after I got on my son's FB page. It was with help that it happened. One of his friend's wondered how that was able to happen. Then she knew.
Anyway I am feeling better. I've had sinus issues but have an arsenal. In fact with the way my body had been feeling I'm wondering if I actually had the flu. Who know who care I feel better. Hope I can cover my hair and look forward to getting it cut as soon as this crazy weather in NJ warms up.
When I write to Joey I can feel his presence and I feel love. Of course the tears came out but it's good to communicate. It doesn't matter if we talk with someone, type on here or write it out on paper. It's a connection and it helps to ease things for us. Try it if you aren't doing it.
Yes Melinda it would be to your benefit and to many others benefit as well for you to contact Dr.Phil. It will be a new experience for you and all of us here on this site. You would be helping so many people. Because you have so much love, passion and are so caring about the life of your grand daughters. I feel that they will contact you and consider your letter as a show. You will be acknowledged and admired for all the courage that you have. If you go on Dr.Phil's computer site you can probably see where they ask if anyone has anything to contribute and has story for one of their future shows. I haven't been on Dr.Phil's site in awhile but look and check it out. As my father's mother Angelina Gondola once said to me "I wish-a-you-luck!"
Those were the only words in English I ever heard my Sicilian grandmother say.