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At 8:37pm on February 8, 2010, Tammy said…
Dear Mrs Moore,
I lost my daughter to drugs on July 15th. She had a little girl of her own turned 3 in September. My granddaughter is in the Dyfs system and I can barely see her which makes it seem like I am mourning two people. I tried over and over to help my daughter but with the system against her she gave up. I go crazy thinking about the what ifs for about 4 months. My daughter has a twin brother and they would have celebrated their 28th on Feb 15th my son is a retired injured Marine and lots of times we just walk around functioning unconsciously. I don't know when it will get better but for my little granddaughter of whom I m hoping to see alot more of soon. My son and I have to keep my daughters memory alive for her cause she needs to know that her mommy did love her and so does our family and we need to continue to keep that bond that she and we need strong
Good Luck and just keep talking to your son he wont answer but sometimes I feel some type of presence sometimes now
At 5:47pm on February 6, 2010, valerie moore said…
LISA, YES I AM AFRAID THE FACE THE FUTURE WITHOUT MY SON. I COULD NOT MISS HIM MORE, HIS BEAUTIFUL SMILE, OUT OF THE WORLD PERSONALITY AND HIS WARM HUG. YES, HE HAD A DRUG ISSUE, BUT I SAW BEYOND THAT AND SAW MY REAL SON AND CONTINUED TO LOVE HIM UNCONDITIONALLY. WE WERE TRULY CLOSE BECAUSE HIS DAD WS NEVER THERE FOR HIM, SO IT WAS ALWAYS JUST HE AND I/ I SPENT YEARS TRYING TO HELP WITH HIS DRUG ADDICTION. PRAYED EVERY DAY AND NIGHT OVER HIM AND THEN WAS ANGRY AT GOD FOR TAKING HIM AWAY. I AM IN A SEVERE DEPRESSION NOW. ALL I DO IS WORK -PART TIME, SLEEP, WAKE UP, EAT SOME DINNER, THEN BACK TO BED. THANK YOU FOR WRITING. VALERIE
At 9:20am on February 6, 2010, Lisa Hobrook said…
Valerie, it is okay to be scared. I have said those same words to my husband. I am not afraid of dying anymore though because I KNOW I will see my precious son, Chad on that day. I think the loss of our beloved children shake our foundation to the core and that includes our religious beliefs. I believe in God truly and find that even with the wide range of emotions I feel when I need help I turn to both my son Chad and to God. They both know me so well. God Bless. Many here will be pulling for you and thinking of you. Lisa
At 8:42am on February 6, 2010, Chelle said…
Dear Miss Valerie, I'am truly sorry to here the loss of your son, at such a young age. I hope i can give to you some comfort. During this hard time you are undergoing do draw close to God in prayer, the bible promises that "he himself will sustain you."- Pslam 55:22. I believe whole heartedly in the ressurection hope, as states in Revelation 21:4-"God will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore.The former things have passed away." You can have faith in this bible truth, just think of all the bible prophecies that have already been fulfilled! Such as Matthew 24 which speaks about the signs of the last days,which Jesus told his disciples to look out for, it says there in verse 7 "For nation will rise against nation and kingdom against kingdom, and there will be food shortages and earthqaukes in one place after another." Wouldn't you agree this is the condition of the world you and i live in? Atleast we can take hope in the prophecies soon to be fulfilled! You are in my prayers Miss Valerie. "Draw close to Jehovah and he will draw close to you" :)
At 7:46am on February 6, 2010, valerie moore said…
thank you tammy. you are a very warm person with alot to give. i appreciate your words of hope even though you are struggling with your own battle. i am glad i started writing here, because i have nsupport around me/ i feel so alone in battle, that i am truly scared this will be how i feel forever... i still cannot believe by baby (age 25) is really gone. thank you again.//// valerie
At 6:49pm on February 5, 2010, Tammy Egberts said…
valerie, i sent you a message, but put it on my site by mistake, go to my site tammy egberts, sorry i guess i was in the clouds...
At 3:01pm on February 5, 2010, Rev.James Durden said…
Hi Valerie,youre not alone in this fight there are so many hearts that are torn here on legacy that are ready just to talk with you and help you thru your time of despair.Believe me the days will get better and your heart will feel better but at no cost do you attempt suicide or do you think of it .Your life consists of more than the problems that confront you,we can rise above our problems if we stick together there is strength in numbers so don't stay away from those of us who wished to hear and help you with heartaches you feel at this present time.There is someone on this site all the time day & night because many of us can't sleep so we roam the legacy site and there is always someone here,there are many who have the same heaartache you do some have lost sons,daughters,father & mother's but those who have lost their child agonize in a special way they hurt day in day out month after month the pain never ceases so join the club as we try to ease the pain of each other .So lean on us as much as you like we're here.
At 11:15pm on February 4, 2010, Rev.James Durden said…
Hi Valerie,I know it seems dark now but if you put your trust in the Lord you will see better days,I'm not saying you don't trust in the Lord but your mind will wonder whe you've lost the love of your life.It does not happen overnight but the days get better as its been 3 yrs.for me now as I lost my daughter at 23 yrs old,a blood vessel burst in her head and that was it as she had told me on that thursday how much she loves me and then she's in a vegetative state brain dead.So sudden death became a reality too me as it did you and you have my prayers as I know that it get's better.So don't lose hope there are so many people here that are ready too reach out and stand with you. Be Blessed!! Hope to hear from you soon.Rev.Durden
At 6:54pm on February 4, 2010, Tammy Egberts said…
VALERIE, I LOST MY SON ROBBY LAST AUGUST 19TH, 2009 TO A REACTION TO THE DRUG METHADONE. IT IS A TERRIBLE DRUG THAT HAS KILLED SO MANY YOUNG PEOPLE NATIONWIDE..HE WAS OVER PRESCRIBED MEDS, AND NOT CHECKED OUT BEFORE THEY WERE PRESCRIBED..IT HAS BEEN A NIGHTMARE, AND I DO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. I AM TOTALLY LOST, AND IN SO MUCH PAIN IT IS SOMETHING WE CAN'T EVEN DESCRIBE...I AM SO SAD FOR YOUR LOSS OF YOUR SON. WE WILL SEE OUR BOYS AGAIN, AND GIVE THEM HUGS, AND KISSES...I HAVE STARTED TALKING TO ROBBY EVERY DAY, AND TELLING HIM HOW MUCH I MISS HIM, AND LOVE HIM...HIS LITTLE BOY JUST TURNED 5 ON FEB 2ND, AND EVERY TIME I HUG HIM I AM HUGGING HIS DADDY, AND IT BRINGS JOY TO MY BROKEN HEART... PLEASE KNOW WE ARE HERE FOR YOU, AND WE ALL CARE ABOUT THE SADNESS YOU ARE FEELING. DON'T EVER STOP TALKING ABOUT HIM, YOU HAVE TO KEEP HIM ALIVE IN YOUR HEART, AND YOUR MIND FOREVER...TAKE CARE, GOD BLESS YOU TAMMY E
At 8:24pm on December 4, 2009, Richard Macary said…
Valerie, We are with you in prayer. Our son overdosed last week. We are now searching for answers in faith and healing of broken hearts. This is now our journey. God bless you!
At 12:39pm on November 30, 2009, valerie moore said…
valerie moore, only child lost on 8/28- my life will never be the same, i see the world in different eyes, i dont know who i am anymore and i feel crazy.
At 1:06pm on November 11, 2009, valerie moore said…
my name is valerie moore. i lost my only child, dustin at age25 due to a drug overdose on 8/28/09

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