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At 11:30am on July 4, 2011, MarthaIZ said…
Thanks valerie, im so sorry for ur dusty, but what can we do....nothing. My girl crystal was my only one at the time, my best friend, I didnt want more children my love was for her only, yet fate took a turn, and here I am, had 2 kids since just to have a reason to live. I love my babies now, but I hate myself for not dieing on that boat as she did. I still cannot swallow it, its been 5 yrs, I cannot swallow it.
Im sure u feel same, god bless u too. I just hope, itts really true that we will re unite with them again, I used to be very faithful, but since my loss ive lost faith. I try to believe, its hard though, .
Thank u for reachin out.
At 8:16am on July 3, 2011, Christine Worthy said…

Dear Valerie,

Thanks for your email.  I find that writing it out...with a good cry, of course, really helps me.  I don't ever want to forget that day, and I want to forget it too.....does that make sense?  I'm sad, I'm angry, and I just want my little guy back.  At least I got to hold him for hours that day.  But it was the hardest thing I ever had to do to leave him there.  Many hugs to you.....

At 4:15am on July 2, 2011, Forever Bobby's Mom...Deb said…

Hi Valerie.. I really wish I understood how this page works? it is so wierd I never know when people respond to me or where to go.  I am so sorry for your loss of Dusty. 

 I like you am very angry, we are taught to do the right things treat people with respect be a good person and in turn god will take care of you. To say I am disappointed in God is an understatement. 

 I am an RN in an emergency room whenever we have a child that comes in and passes I always made sure the child had warm blankets around him/her so the mom could rock her ichild without her feeling the coldness of death.  Always broke the rules so the momma could be at the bedside I tried to be there for them and put myself out there.  When it came to my son's death no one was there for me, no one to step up and help me hold him ....went to the morgue and they wouldnt let us see him..no matter how much I begged..literally falling to my knees and begging the woman to let me see him...so yes I am pissed at the world it seems...

 I just can't believe God has taken my son and I am so tired of people telling me that he is in a better place....  Ok Valerie now I am rambling!!  Sorry everyone it just hasn't been a good night, I can't even seem to put thoughts together in a sentance that even makes sense.....Thinking of you ALL and especially you Valerie....

At 11:45pm on June 30, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

thanks Valerie for your kind words.....this week has been rough for me but like everyone else it comes and goes.....

I am loving my grand daughters here with me....not looking forward to the day they have to return to Idaho....

Hugs to you, keep in touch

Susan

At 7:58pm on June 30, 2011, Forever Bobby's Mom...Deb said…

Hi Valerie... I used to say we were so blessed, 3 kids all healthy, no one in jail, no unwanted pregnancies all doing well...now I have one kid dead and I can't function let alone thank god for the curse he has bestoyed upon me.  Yes I am angry at God, I can't catch my breath and I can't live anymore he has destroyed my life when he took my son.....  

I am glad you found peace I don't know that I ever will...

Huggs right back to you....Deb

At 7:58pm on June 30, 2011, Forever Bobby's Mom...Deb said…

Hi Valerie... I used to say we were so blessed, 3 kids all healthy, no one in jail, no unwanted pregnancies all doing well...now I have one kid dead and I can't function let alone thank god for the curse he has bestoyed upon me.  Yes I am angry at God, I can't catch my breath and I can't live anymore he has destroyed my life when he took my son.....  

I am glad you found peace I don't know that I ever will...

Huggs right back to you....Deb

At 11:04pm on June 29, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

I was sending a message to Deborah and read your post on her page.  I am so glad you have found someone caring and understanding to talk to.!!!  I hope you continue to find some comfort and peace at this new church and with that pastor.... I am so glad for you.

Susan

At 8:30pm on June 28, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
There's a REASON why we were put on this earth. Maybe it has something to do with this site. Our kids didn't get to rise to their full potential. That makes me believe in reincarnation. I believe you get so many tries (reincarnation or whatever) to get to the highest level a human can go to. Then the person is at his destiny for eternity.  I think, for me anyway, is to "do unto other's as you would have them do unto you." I firmly believe Candace wil be here again. Maybe she'll be her daughter's child in the future. I've got to rationalize it in my brain some way or else I'd lose it.
At 6:48pm on June 28, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
Candace is my only child also. I only wanted one so I could dote on her. I loved her SOO much when she was born I thought if I had another child, I would be spending so much time w/Candace I would be neglecting the other child. And now my Baby-girl's gone. I KNOW her spirit's alive though, because she came to me. I don't fear death, but I know there's a reason we're here. I just wish I knew what it was so I could do it and get outta here! I'm thinking it has to do w/her girls, my Granddaughter's. I'm good to go w/that!
At 6:38pm on June 28, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
I lived for Candace. I don't want the measly money i have now. I want Candace back! They always were short of funds. I told Candace, "you don't have to pay me back". I don't have any pressing bills. If only I could make time go back.  I prayed to make time go back and take ME and let Candace live!  There is a God and Devil 'cause the Devil took my Baby. I also think, on the other hand, maybe God took her to SAVE her from something awful that might happen. I'm  getting better, I think. 
At 3:28pm on June 28, 2011, Alicia Rodriguez said…
VALERIE YOU'RE IN MY PRAYERS. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO DUSTY. YOU'RE IN MY THOUGHTS. TODAY AND EVERY DAY THROUGH THIS JOURNEY OF OURS.DUSTY AND JESSE OUR BELOVED ANGELES. MISSING YOU ALWAYS. ALICIA JESSE'S MOM.HUGS TO YOU.
At 11:46am on June 28, 2011, Kathy Martibello - Stieff said…
Hi Valerie, I don't post very often but I read the messages often. I know today is a very difficult day for you, the birthday of your precious son Dusty. I too lost my only child on Valentine's day '09, my sweet Kate. She was 19 and died in an auto accident.  The pain is overwhelming and I'm so tired of it also. Sending you hugs, Kathy
At 11:46am on June 28, 2011, Kathy Martibello - Stieff said…
Hi Valerie, I don't post very often but I read the messages often. I know today is a very difficult day for you, the birthday of your precious son Dusty. I too lost my only child on Valentine's day '09, my sweet Kate. She was 19 and died in an auto accident.  The pain is overwhelming and I'm so tired of it also. Sending you hugs, Kathy
At 10:36am on June 28, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

We all are with you today Valerie....Happy 27th Birthday Dusty....hopefully yo are with all of our children together in peace and comfort.

Susan    Donny's Mom

At 6:19pm on June 27, 2011, Alicia Rodriguez said…
VALERIE YOU'RE IN MY PRAYERS THINKING OF YOU AND YOU'RE BELOVED SON.I'LL BE THINKING OF YOU TOMORROW. PRAY YOU'LL BE FINE.I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I MISS MY BELOVED JESSE SO MUCH IT HURTS SO BAD HE'LL BE GONE TWO YEARS ON 7/12/11 .I'M PRAYING FOR YOU.HUGS TO YOU.GOD BLESS YOU
At 9:38am on June 27, 2011, Ann said…

Happy birthday to Dusty tomorrow Valerie.  He and Michael shared this birthday and he would have been 23.

Love,  Ann  Michael's mother

At 2:30pm on June 22, 2011, Nichole Lynn Lester said…
I am sorry for your loss....I now know that losing a child is an ache and emtiness that could never be put in words or nothing anyone would understand unless they have been there...I seem to hurt more each day and I knew I had to join this web-site that my friend told me about..Thank you for messeging me,I hate that you have been there too and the stories we have to share ends in tragedy,but Im glad there is a place we can support each other...,Niki
At 7:52pm on June 19, 2011, Jeff Justus said…
Valerie .... I had always been a believer in Christiananity but with the death of my son I've become desperate to see him again. I was never a bad person but I'm really trying to be a Christ like person ...or as close as I can be. I really think that when you, Valerie, leave this earth ... the second that you leave, you'll know a happiness like no other. You are a good person and you really deserve that happiness. Like the message states :  Know God ..... Know Peace. No God... No Peace!
At 10:38am on June 10, 2011, Brett's mom said…
thanks valerie....i know and i am learning about the addiction trying to help myself understand a lil bit...i will never be able to fully understand as i never had an addiction to drugs..i do good to finish prescripts when given by doctor...only meds i ever take is ibprofin for headaches...but i do smoke and that is my addiction...so i can relate to an extent but thats all...again thank you and i am sorry for your loss...
At 12:41pm on June 9, 2011, Tami said…
Hi Valerie. I think she is legit, I have talked to her a few times and she seems to be one of us... I think she is just reaching out. Love to you. Will be thinking of You and Dusty on the 28th, I will say a special prayer for his Heavenly Birthday, I know this is a terrible time, I had a BBQ for Joeys Birthday the first year after he left me. It was good to have his friends near. Much Love to you

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