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At 8:00pm on April 11, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
That's how I feel also. Death is ugly for everyone concerned. Heaven is beautiful! I can't wait for Candace and my Granma to come and get me. I miss Candace so much! I'm looking for signs from her; I have no idea what they might be, but I'm looking!
At 7:33am on April 11, 2011, shannon churchill said…

 

Thank you for the post Valerie.  I feel we are all just hanging by a thread at any moment.  God must be in control or we would all loose it.  How this could happen to any of them or us is just incomprehensible.  Life will never be the same... I am going to try and I mean try to get by until the day comes we understand this pain and it is no more. 

At 8:26pm on April 10, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
Valerie, There's always a battle, good/evil, right/wrong, God/Devil. My Dad and Grandma saw we went to church on Sundays, not every Sunday though. They put me in Bethany Baptist elementary school from K-2. My parents were divorced then and couldn't afford it. So I've always believed in God. When i got older, Candace's Dad was an alcoholic. He says he'll always be an alcoholic even though he quit drinking almost 20 yrs ago. My daughter, Candace had the same tendencys. Sadly she's gone now because of it.  Where are you from originally? I blame the Devil. He won the battle against God when it came to our kids. God is a loving God, but gave us free will. That's when the Devil stepped in!! Punk-ass Bitch!! I HATE HIM FOR DOING THIS TO MY DAUGHTER!!
At 3:10pm on April 10, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
Valerie, I feel like we're friends. I don't go anywhere. I'm disabled. I'm on the pc or watch TV in the evenings. I have a room-mate so I'm not alone. Please know that Dusty is a ok. He's a spirit AGAIN. We're all spirits who have a "human experience" then go back to the sprit world. I believe this!! I KNOW this because Candace came to me. Please have faith that we'll be reunited w/them. I just asked Candace to help your son let you know somehow he's with you at times. Look in your phone book and look under Social Services or/and in the beginning of the phone book there are government agencies that should be helpful. Maybe they can refer you to the corrct party. Good Luck!
At 1:45pm on April 6, 2011, Tami said…

Hi Valerie, Do you have a perticular picture you want me to use, Its hard to make Angel boys but I can do something, When I see his picture I will find something, I love to make them, If you have a picture, please send it to my Email address

Atonsgirl@aol.com

Would love to do it for you and Dusty.

At 6:39pm on April 5, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
I feel so bad for you Valerie. The same will be happening to me now that Candace is gone. My son-in-law and I never saw eye to eye. So without my daughter here it will be difficult. I asked if i could come over to be w/my Grandaughter's on her 1st anniversary, he'll be at his Granma's funeral though. I hope this isn't the begining of him shining me on. He's let me come over since she passed. Maybe he was in shock. Hopefully we can be friends & get along for Candace's sake and her girls! 
At 8:15pm on April 4, 2011, Tim's Mom, Vickie said…
Thank you Valerie.  Tomorrow is Tim's Anniversary. I'm torn between taking the day off of work or going to work to take my mind off of the day. If I stay home, I'll just sit and stare at his bedroom door. Tim's 28th birthday would've been September 26th.  I visited his tree yesterday, it's grown so much over the past year, it was barely a twig when we got it. I hope it grows big and strong like Tim. You know what the worst part is, there won't be anyone to "be there" for me.  I miss him so much.  We always went to the shore for Easter, we'd play some games on the boardwalk, go on a few rides, it's a tradition my parents started when I was a baby. The traditions I started and continued with my kids don't seem as special anymore. Thanks for listening to me ramble.
At 8:15pm on April 4, 2011, Tim's Mom, Vickie said…
Thank you Valerie.  Tomorrow is Tim's Anniversary. I'm torn between taking the day off of work or going to work to take my mind off of the day. If I stay home, I'll just sit and stare at his bedroom door. Tim's 28th birthday would've been September 26th.  I visited his tree yesterday, it's grown so much over the past year, it was barely a twig when we got it. I hope it grows big and strong like Tim. You know what the worst part is, there won't be anyone to "be there" for me.  I miss him so much.  We always went to the shore for Easter, we'd play some games on the boardwalk, go on a few rides, it's a tradition my parents started when I was a baby. The traditions I started and continued with my kids don't seem as special anymore. Thanks for listening to me ramble.
At 1:23am on April 4, 2011, Terri Kuta said…
Thank you so much for your prayers, i still believe that prayers work, with the help of doctors who truly understand i have finally been on some medicine that helps me to want to live and not kill myself, i have 3 other kids who need me along with my husband, I prayed for some help and he gave me the peace I needed.
At 1:23am on April 4, 2011, Terri Kuta said…
Thank you so much for your prayers, i still believe that prayers work, with the help of doctors who truly understand i have finally been on some medicine that helps me to want to live and not kill myself, i have 3 other kids who need me along with my husband, I prayed for some help and he gave me the peace I needed.
At 8:02pm on April 3, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
Thank u very much. If you go to www.sheriperl.com/the-prayer-registry you can see pictures of Candace. There is one when she first met Mike, her girl's father. 
At 8:02pm on April 3, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
Thank u very much. If you go to www.sheriperl.com/the-prayer-registry you can see pictures of Candace. There is one when she first met Mike, her girl's father. 
At 6:38pm on April 3, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Hi Valerie, I too am proud of Melinda.  She really has shown growth and healing since she started to post.  Luckily she has 3 grand children to be with and watch grow up, others do not have that prividege.

I know it must be very hard to have an only child and have the loss of that child.  I have a daughter (42) and her son that live very close to me and they keep my busy and distracted from thinking of our loss every minute.

Yes, thank goodness we all have each other to cling to when we are having a tough time.  At least spring is coming and everyone can get out of houses and leave the cold winter behind.

Hugs to you today.  Keep in touch

Susan

At 7:02pm on April 1, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
I'm so glad you were able to see Candace! I miss my little girl SO much! She's all I have. My only child!
At 12:52pm on April 1, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…
Did you get them all now?   Just checkn'
At 11:00pm on March 30, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Hi Valerie.....just sent 4 pictures that Melinda sent to my email address.

Hope you enjoy them.

Susan   Donny's Mom

At 5:55pm on March 30, 2011, Tim's Mom, Vickie said…

Hi Valerie, At times I think it's the lack of will to live that's dragging me down, but I don't know how to pull myself out of it.  I've seen more doctors in the past year than I have in my whole adulthood. Yet, ironically, I haven't gone to counseling.   I want to feel good again, to laugh and smile and not have it be forced.

Thanks for listening.

At 11:35am on March 30, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Morning Valerie.....I never could get into her pictures, either website she suggested.  I gave her my personal email address and she sent them in an attachment.

She can do that for you or I can too....either way.

Are you a member of the PrayerMinistry website too?  Her pictures will come up on that website on April 9th.

Susan

At 5:50pm on March 29, 2011, Anita Chavez-Daveys mom said…
Thanks Valerie, I have that book but have not read it yet.   I will break it out.  I am currently reading  "First you Die" Learn to Live after the death of you child by Marie Levine.  It has been helpful too. I don't like the title but it is a good book. 
At 9:07am on March 23, 2011, shannon churchill said…
Thank you Valerie, that is so special having him near you this way.   I get so out of sorts when I think of Tommy's rotton luck that night and it helps to see that we all have to feel this way.  I had a bad night again of what if's. But Valerie, I scream this inside... THEY ARE THE LUCKY ONES!!!!!!  Remind Remind Remind... 

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