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At 5:14pm on September 25, 2011, Amelia R Chavez said…
Hi Janice nice to hear from you hope your doing okay..as for me i just started a new grief group with our church it was some what a relief talking to others but the whole group of women where alot older and had lost there husbands,they were all in tears hearing me talk about the lost of my son and they said they could not imagine losing one of there kids.So they are looking to find a group for me in regards to this but would like me if i wish to keep attending there group as well so i agreed to continue.My son also loved to plan is birthday bbq but christmas was his favorite we had to be the first ones on the block to get the lights on the house so my kids have continued to do so but i still can not do the holidays yet and my kids understand.My family dont speak about him nor my husband and they dont understand that i would like to have them to they feel that this would upset me. They dont get it that it hurts more when they dont do you have that problem?maybe for your sons you could release balloons with your special message? just a thought thats what i did. anyway i am also here for you my friend lots of hugs and prayers.
At 11:17pm on September 16, 2011, Amelia R Chavez said…
Hi Janice i am so sorry that it took me so long to responed. sometimes you find yourself in a cloud and just dont care to do anything..and now that we moved the interent here is forever to load.They say time will heal it been 2 years for me and my healing process has failed me. it will never be the same for us that lost one of our kids.My emotions are just like the day i lostn my son. I hope to keep in touch with all of you beacause this is the only healing i get is from those that have been through our terrible nightmare..hugs and prayers to you and your family.
At 10:08pm on August 8, 2011, Rowett said…
Hi thank you I have been feeling somewhat better emotionaly Phisicly  i,m a mess and getting worse  but i,m doing the best I can I allways say to myself if I die today I will be with my family  I only have two sisters left everyone else is gone so I know i will have alot of family and friends to welcome me to the other side i,m just not ready to go just yet though and I have done what you said I yelled screamed even drove like a nut blowing away two cops in two towns  only to have to pay the tickets and lawyers of 1800 bucks but it was worth it I just needed to release the anger in me and acting like a fool  for a short time did help me to release alot of the anger pain and loss in my odd own way  I still talk to adam each day just like i talk with godI hope to be able to see him soon and my prayers are with you and your loss as well we walk a special path that most can never understand
At 1:21pm on June 26, 2011, ELOY CONRAD DURAN II said…
     Thank you for the kindness, you are one of a kind, you are an angel Janice...I have not been to good lately, seems like time does nothing to help in my healing process...time matters to those who actually have a life....I am trying to get past this, but seem to only settle down with...and get back in touch with my negative emotions...enough negativism....God Bless You....take care....
At 1:21pm on June 26, 2011, ELOY CONRAD DURAN II said…
     Thank you for the kindness, you are one of a kind, you are an angel Janice...I have not been to good lately, seems like time does nothing to help in my healing process...time matters to those who actually have a life....I am trying to get past this, but seem to only settle down with...and get back in touch with my negative emotions...enough negativism....God Bless You....take care....
At 8:20pm on May 11, 2011, Pam Brooks said…

I think working helps.  I have to work.  Even though I look at a computer all day, my mind is always on my child....asking the same questions everybody else does. 

I really appreciate you taking the time to send a comment to me.  I have no one to talk to around here.  My grandchildren live with the husband and his grandmother.  I work a weird shift during the week, making it impossible for me to see them.  I get to see them on weekends as long as they don't have plans or they are going to the husband's mother home.   Gee, does that make sense?  I feel so left out at times.  My daughter is gone.  Her birthday was on Sat. May7th  and the grandchildren was not here.  I wonder if I have any rights, guess I'll check into that. 

I'm so sorry for rambling like this.  I'm sending loving thoughts, hugs, and prayers to you Janice.  Stay strong!!!!

At 7:21am on April 30, 2011, Carrie L said…
Hi Janice I am sorry we have to go through this and the rest of our lives with ths pain and loss and unfair loneliness of not having the vibrant young men who shared such a pece of our heart sould and totality.. love to you and hope maybe together we can nurture each other and acknowledge eachothers pain. love to you carrie
At 10:28pm on April 19, 2011, Pam Brooks said…

Hi JANICE,

Just wanted to thank you for your comment regarding Easter baskets for my grandchildren. You are right; I will be making my own to give to them. 

At 8:58pm on March 22, 2011, geri said…

HI JANICE,HOPE YOU ARE DOING OK ,TODAY.YES THE DAYS ARE HARD.TOMORROW IS THREE YEARS FOR ME .MY SON PASSED ON EASTER SUNDAY 3-23-08.A CAR ACCIDENT TOOK HIS LIFE.HE WAS A PASSENGER IN THE CAR OF HIS FRIEND.PAUL WAS 23.I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR SON,MARK.IT IS SO DEVASTATING TO HAVE TO ENDURE THESE TRAGETIES.GOD BLESS YOU,GERI

 

 

 

At 4:59pm on March 22, 2011, valerie moore said…

dear janice.  i am back now/... i was cleaning apartments,, i just lost my job working as a 411 operator, looking up phone numbers/  but///  cleaning apartments and what they were paying me,,, wasnt working/.

anyway,  i go on this site every day/./.  i love talking to all of you...  thinking of you janice/.   love, valerie

At 10:23am on March 22, 2011, Shari Soklow said…

Dear Janice,

How are you doing my friend?  If only time could heal our broken hearts!

When it comes to our children, they are our babies forever!

I wish I could not only help myself to find a little comfort, but all of us!

None of us deserve this cruel fate, this bereavement club, so to speak!

Your friend, Shari

At 1:40pm on March 4, 2011, valerie moore said…
janice,  we are all family hear- we understand how you feel. my beloved only child, dusty passed away 1 yr  6 mos ago. every anniversary, holiday and birthday is so hard.  just know, i will be praying for you janice.  you are not alone here.  sending hugs and prayers to you,  your friend, valerie
At 1:40pm on March 4, 2011, valerie moore said…
janice,  we are all family hear- we understand how you feel. my beloved only child, dusty passed away 1 yr  6 mos ago. every anniversary, holiday and birthday is so hard.  just know, i will be praying for you janice.  you are not alone here.  sending hugs and prayers to you,  your friend, valerie
At 8:51pm on January 6, 2011, Mary Christine Lancaster said…
Thank you so much. I am so blessed to have had you respond to my heart song.  I pray you too will feel God's arms around your heart when it hurts so bad.  You are an encourager and I thank you again for your precious reaching out to me.  Hugz
At 10:02am on January 2, 2011, Debbie said…
Hi Janice,

I want to send you an invite for Mom of an Angel. Can you please send me your email address? Mine is dpolidora55@hotmail.com. I can't find it on this Legacy site. Hugs,

Debbie
At 10:18am on January 1, 2011, Kathy Mook said…
Janice, I'm so sorry for your loss and how it happened. One day, some how, you may not live to see it, but justice will prevail! I'm a firm believer in the scripture that says, you reap what you sow. If not in world, it will be dealt with in the end. It was my oldest son who died. I also lost my 3rd oldest son when he was 7wks old to SIDS. My oldest was 37 when he died. My youngest is 10 yrs younger. I have trusted God through all of my losses but still fear that He will make me have to bury more of my children before I die. It's just a feeling but nothing would surprise me anymore. I pray health to you and your other sons. Peace to your heart and justice to be done.
At 10:40pm on December 25, 2010, ELOY CONRAD DURAN II said…

     You and I are as one when it comes to the atrocity put upon us by these demons...I know who took my sons life, Jovani Muniz...the non punishment he received is atrocious, the investigation, the Da, the on-and-on was soo trying...but we do not know who else jumped him, but god does...I have faith they will be dealt with by god...

     That does not help us in dealing with the loss of our sons...only bringing them back from heaven, would...but, then, who would want to come back to this rock we call earth, from heaven, no...

please stay in touch, it is late Christmas Night...and it is tearing me up inside...

At 9:29am on December 20, 2010, Carrie L said…

Hi Janice thanks for the virtual hug. My son was the oldest of my three opposite of yours. Murder was a possiblilty in his death but I don't think so I will have no way of knowing.I know I miss him and love him and constantly think of him. and how my life is changed by his abscence. I was kind of hard core wtih them growing up not getting involved in the fun trying to make it through life. I thought I had forever with him. I never thought about death. well I shouldn't say never. but never thought truly it would be... I constantly think about death now. I am having a hard time making sense of this.. there is no sense. no answers no getting better only the hard truth of what it is. I will never be the same person. I will never be content as I was. It is a contentment when they are all alright. well I am in a more writing mood this morning. got a good nights sleep but went right here to share the constant sadness that i know you feel also. carrie L

At 9:19am on December 19, 2010, Carrie L said…

Hi Janice you  are not alone in your feelings of lonliness and sadness and loss. we are all here because a very important part of our lives was shattered taken away from us and very quickly without preperation or warning. I can't imagine my life without him yet i am living it so it is very sad and can't hardly get up in the morning without complete sadness because this is the first thing on my mind and if the truth be known i probably thought about it all night in my subconscience. thinking of you and all of us and wishing somehow we could meet and hug and cry.. carrie L

At 8:16am on December 12, 2010, myra delgado said…

am very sad Janice very sad I miss my son is getting harder to breath everyday am so sad 

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