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At 12:12pm on January 7, 2011, Terri Kuta said…

Mary:

 

You have to have the picture saved to your computer this isn't the one i wanted up there i wanted his senior picture but this is a picture my dughter

had saved to my computer for my fathers furneral in august so i used that one im not computer savy at all try leaving a post on the main page and i bet someone could walk you thru it sorry im no help

 

Terri

At 10:00am on January 7, 2011, Debra said…

Oh, Mary, anything you can do to bring comfort and make you feel as close to your Manny is beautiful in my eyes.  I wrote I don't know how many letters to Travis after he passed. It seems there were so many things left unsaid.  But, my oldest son recently told me that when I feel down or depressed I should remember that Travis is looking down on me, that he is watching over me, and that he is with me in spirit.  I feel the same way about Manny and you.  Thinking of you, and praying for you. 

Deb

At 5:02pm on January 6, 2011, Diana Marie Stewart said…
One will never get over our loss...My Dr. recommed a grief group which I've joined...thru the funeral home...it is good to be around others that have lost....friends, family just won't understand unless they have walked a mile in your shoes...God be with you.....
At 4:54pm on January 6, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
I think you IGNORE it unless it's someone you DO NOT want to get their emails. Then you would click it, i think. Maybe it BLOCKS them.Good luck, maybe someone more experienced w/pc's can interject here! 
At 4:54pm on January 6, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
I think you IGNORE it unless it's someone you DO NOT want to get their emails. Then you would click it, i think. Maybe it BLOCKS them.Good luck, maybe someone more experienced w/pc's can interject here! 
At 10:17am on January 6, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Morning Mary....it is a little confusing to get the hang of this website.  I think the simplist way of communicating is on the Main Page if you want to make a comment that everyone reads just click on the box above the last comment and your post will show.  If you want to comment on just the person's post then click on their picture and you will go to their personal page, like I am doing here.

Then to get back to the Main Page just go back to "Loss of a Child" support group on the tabs above....once you get the hang of it, it is easy.  Stay in the group as it is so good for all of us to vent together.

Now on your page here to the left it says "Block Messages"  you can block  this strange fraud of a person named "Nancy" and once you block her she can't get into your personal page again.  No one has figured out what she or Ruth, or Linda is up to but do not respond to them....

Hope this helps a little with the website communication. 

At 9:05am on January 6, 2011, Debra said…

Mary, I am always here for you.  Anytime you need to rant, rave, question, or share, I, and most of the people here, will be honored to here from you.  God bless you through out this New Year.

deb

At 11:51pm on January 1, 2011, S A said…

I'm sorry Mary...for now, just take it 10 minutes at a time..maybe next month you can move on to a day at a time..it is a very hard journey Mary, but for some reason (who knows why) we manage to go on..different yes. Take care, keep close to those you love..

Sandra

At 5:44pm on January 1, 2011, Rachel said…
Mary I think finding a local group is a wonderful idea if that is what you need. This group is a place to vent, write out your feelings, ask questions, and help others that are in the same boat as you are. I am truly sorry for the loss of your son. My daughter was 1 month old when she passed and I didn't think I could continue to breathe. It still feels hard to breathe sometimes but being able to write about it and read/post comments to others seem to shed some type of light to my dark days. My prayers are with you.
At 8:22am on December 25, 2010, Debra said…
Bless you Mary.  Losing a child to a disease like cancer is slow and painful thing.  I am thinking of you and your son this Christmas Day.
At 7:17pm on December 19, 2010, Terri Kuta said…

Hello Mary I was thinking about you my father had copd so i know what you mean about being out of breath, we lost him this past august he was 87 than lost my son november 19th at 17 I hope your day is going better than yesterday, if you need to talk just let me know.

 

Terri Jonathan's mom

At 12:37am on December 19, 2010, Melissa Asher said…

He is very handsome, he is not in pain any more at least, i know you miss so, and that will never go away, but we learn to deal with it, I also have a shrine of Samantha, I have pictures of her every were and i have her finger pint around my neck and her ashes kiss them good night every night, I have never lost a grandchild I have two allmost my grandson fell out of car three weeks after sam died, she must have been watching over him, you are very strong women, and we all have to get thru the holidays for are kids, and celebrate there lives!!!! thanks for sharing have a nice night

At 4:21pm on December 18, 2010, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Oh and regarding that unappropriate email from "linda"....there is another person doing the same thing....I think she signs on as "ruth"....

Like said below, they are sick people intruding on this sight meant for parents who have lost children and are looking for support from each other.

Tami, who created this website has been trying to get them blocked out of our website.  Under no circumstances reply to either one of those people.

At 4:17pm on December 18, 2010, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

As far as the picture on your page, it is totally up to you.....I had mine on in the beginning then changed it to Donny's picture.   Just felt better to me to have his picture.

Sorry about the lost of your son.....my thoughts are with you during this holiday season.  Rough on all of us.

At 3:48pm on December 18, 2010, Linda said…

Hi Mary,

Thank you for your friend request.  I am so very sorry you lost your son to cancer.  It is such a horrible disease in all its forms.  My oldest brother died from pancreatic cancer several years ago.  If you've read all of my posts, then you know that I lost my daughter 15 years ago, when she was only thirteen.  Although we learn to accept and live with our children's passing, we are forever changed and will always be a mother who has lost a child.  The pain eases it's fierce grip on our hearts as time goes by, and we learn to live again, although with a broken heart.  God bless you and if you ever need anyone to talk to, send me a message and I will be there.  You look like such a beautiful person, Mary, and I send love and comfort your way.

Sincerely, Linda

P.S. I AM NOT the person calling themselve 'Linda', who wrote the wierd post to you.  Unfortunately this world is made up of sick, EVIL people who stoop so low as to prey on grieving parents.  All I can say is KARMA!!

At 3:48pm on December 18, 2010, Linda said…

Hi Mary,

Thank you for your friend request.  I am so very sorry you lost your son to cancer.  It is such a horrible disease in all its forms.  My oldest brother died from pancreatic cancer several years ago.  If you've read all of my posts, then you know that I lost my daughter 15 years ago, when she was only thirteen.  Although we learn to accept and live with our children's passing, we are forever changed and will always be a mother who has lost a child.  The pain eases it's fierce grip on our hearts as time goes by, and we learn to live again, although with a broken heart.  God bless you and if you ever need anyone to talk to, send me a message and I will be there.  You look like such a beautiful person, Mary, and I send love and comfort your way.

Sincerely, Linda

P.S. I AM NOT the person calling themselve 'Linda', who wrote the wierd post to you.  Unfortunately this world is made up of sick, EVIL people who stoop so low as to prey on grieving parents.  All I can say is KARMA!!

At 3:19pm on December 18, 2010, Melissa Asher said…

Hello Mary, you can put yours or his it does not matter, I have Samantha's on mine, and sometimes, i put a tear, and angel,, us together i change it.

 

My heart goes out to you, did your son just die? It is very hard we all know your pain, I do not know yours my daughter died i brought her back then she died 3 days later again. I don't know the pain of loosing a child from cancer. I have lost many family members too that awful cancer. Sorry don't cut for me, so like I said my heart goes out to you, if you need to talk leave me a msg, my daughter been gone for three years, it is hard,, but you can write what ever you feel, or just say hi, it helps to talk to people that know that ache in your heart we understand. GOD BLESS you Mary, from Melissa

At 3:13pm on December 18, 2010, shirley zurschmeide said…

Mary, first of all don't reply to Linda all she wants is money from you.  She is a scam.  I am sorry for you and I do know your pain.  My son died suddenly so I wasn't prepared and I know no matter how our sons die we could never be prepare for this awful pain. You just go thru a day at a time.  I posted a picture of my son Scott.

 

Blessings

Shirley

At 3:01pm on December 18, 2010, Terri Kuta said…

Mary:

 

I am so sorry for your loss I am new to this sight but I think most people put a pictur of their lost love one I know I did he was 17 and a senior this year he was killed in a headon collision nov 19th everyone on hear is so sweet and can help you so much just knowing someone else knows what you are going thru can and will help you get thru the days you think you just can't go on anymore. 

 

Terri Jonathan's mom

At 2:29pm on December 18, 2010, Shirley Gutierrez said…

Dearest Mary,

I am so sorry about your son. I too have lost 2 daughters in the past 18 months also with cancer. Life is so difficult especially at holiday time. I wish I could offer you a magic pill or advice that would take away the pain. If I had that power I would feel better too.I try to remember that I had them for a long time & I am so grateful for that. Also, I have no regrets, all the "I love yous" were said & shown while they were still with us. That helps me a lot.

Again Mary, I am so sorry.

Love, Shirley 

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