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At 12:09am on June 25, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…: Hi Ricky I'm so sorry for you're loss ..I lost my son on 7/12/09 going on 3 year.you made a very nice video of your lovely son liked it alot we are all here for the same losing a child no matter what age. Hugs to you. Alicia Jesse's Mom. Missing My Son

At 4:46pm on June 24, 2012, Colleen Pasay said…: OMGosh I am so very sorry Rick. Even tho you live so far away( I am in Alberta Canada) I remember hearing about your son in the news. The video was beautiful such a beautiful child. Hugs from across the miles.~Colleen~

At 3:14pm on June 24, 2011, donna smith said…: Rick I am so sorry for your loss, I will say a prayer for you and your family, I no this is very tough for all of us here, tomorrow it will be a year that I lost my daughter. Hugs to you and your family, we all have to get through this together. Donna Deanna Mom

At 2:45pm on June 24, 2011, Tami said…: Rick, Thinking of you and Zac, Wishing you peace and sending prayers. Many hugs today...

At 12:32pm on June 24, 2011, valerie moore said…: dear rick. just want you to know, my prayers are with you and your family today. valerie

At 12:21pm on June 24, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: My thoughts are with you and your family today on Zac's angel birthday. I am so sorry for the loss of your young son. I am right there with you missing our beloved sons....

I will light a candle tonight all night in his memory. Hugs to you today ....

Susan Donny's Mom

At 11:00pm on February 1, 2011, Pam Brooks said…: I'm not sure if you saw my comment, so I wanted to let you know I signed the petition. You have my deepest sympathy.

Pam Brooks

At 8:39am on February 1, 2011, valerie moore said…: dear rick. i have signed the petition in honor of your beautiful son. i am so sorry for your loss. many prayers and love coming your way. hugs to you and your family. valerie moore

At 6:49am on February 1, 2011, Janet - Todd's Mom said…: I just signed the petition too. The police should not be allowed to commit murder, which they did, to an innocent young man who happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. How devastating! They must be held accountable. As another bereaved parent, I grieve for your son too.

At 8:55pm on January 21, 2011, Garry said…: Rick, So sorry about Zach. We are all here for you and Happy Birthday Zach.

Blessings to you and your family, Garry.

At 6:53pm on January 21, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: I will light a candle in honor of Zach's birthday today. My thoughts are with your family.

Susan Donny's Mom

At 4:56pm on January 21, 2011, Cathy said…: Rick, I know this day has been hard for you. I dread that first birthday of my son, but I do want us to celebrate the life he lived and the time we had him with us. I hope you find some comfort in your memories of your son, Zack. My prayers are with you and your family.

Cathy, Charlie's mom

At 7:11pm on January 4, 2011, Kelly ~ Caitlin's mom said…: Rick I too have a hard time with the simultaneous joy and pain. My oldest son is 25 and my other living child is my 10 year old daughter. She is truly what keeps me going. As she gets older she looks more and more like my Caitlin and it is wondeful and tears at me at the same time. The holidays were much of the same. The joy at watching our daughter on Christmas morning then going to the cemetery. Emotional overload for sure.

As for birthdays. Caitlin l;oved Go-Carting. From the time she was 10 she went go-carting with friends on her birthday. Even when she turned 16. No big party, just dinner and go-carting with the usual suspects. She died 4 months before her 17th birthday and for that and each birthday after, we went go-carting with her friends then out to eat. It does my kids spirits good and her friends feel good too. My daughter and I write messages to her on balloons and let them go up to heaven. It is always a good day and I know Cait gets quite a kick out of seeing her mom on a go-cart. This has torn a hole in my soul that will never heal until I can hold her again. Until then I have a job to do with 2 other children who no matter their age need me to show them the beauty and wonder of life. No easy task for sure.

Whatever you choose to do for your sons birthday, he will love it and it will be the right thing for all of you. Take care.

At 5:44pm on January 4, 2011, Terri Kuta said…: Rick:

My sons 18th birthday will be feb 9th since he only just passed away this past november i am going to have a memorial for him i wil have cake and ask family and friendds to come over and i will have baloons we can all let go of and say happy birthday some people say this is only going to make it worse but every child 18th and 21st birthday should be celebrated but im sure i will do something every year if its just me going to the cemetary with a baloon and eating a piece of his favorite cake at his grave.

At 6:47pm on January 3, 2011, Lisa Halsey said…: Rick aim sorry for your loss i too lost my son Daniel who was 21 in a car accident he was my first born my best friend it was 2yrs Nov 16th i never thought that this would of happend to me and i also use to think that God doesn't put anything in front of you can't bear he was so wrong on that but i have to keep sane for my other son Micheal that is what is keeping me going Daniel was the apple of my eye he was so perfect he had a heart of gold. He was a football player in college on a scholorship he worked 2 jobs he loved helping others and he was the life of the party i know my son touched so many lives. There was over 450 people that showed up at his funeral and they had 2 memorial serveces at his high school that he graduated from and his college he was very popular in the state of ILL he was well known as a football star he was going to make it to the NFL but now he can't for fill those dreams. Answer to your question for what you should do for your sons birthday make a cake for him his favorite and get the family together and send some balloons off we did i did it in gold and purple those were his school colors he loved school he was dedicated to his school he was so full of life. He was born in Upland Ca that is where we are from but we left 12 yrs ago so i can give my kids a better life my family still live there. My heart goes out to you Lisa Daniel's mom

At 6:47pm on January 3, 2011, Lisa Halsey said…: Rick aim sorry for your loss i too lost my son Daniel who was 21 in a car accident he was my first born my best friend it was 2yrs Nov 16th i never thought that this would of happend to me and i also use to think that God doesn't put anything in front of you can't bear he was so wrong on that but i have to keep sane for my other son Micheal that is what is keeping me going Daniel was the apple of my eye he was so perfect he had a heart of gold. He was a football player in college on a scholorship he worked 2 jobs he loved helping others and he was the life of the party i know my son touched so many lives. There was over 450 people that showed up at his funeral and they had 2 memorial serveces at his high school that he graduated from and his college he was very popular in the state of ILL he was well known as a football star he was going to make it to the NFL but now he can't for fill those dreams. Answer to your question for what you should do for your sons birthday make a cake for him his favorite and get the family together and send some balloons off we did i did it in gold and purple those were his school colors he loved school he was dedicated to his school he was so full of life. He was born in Upland Ca that is where we are from but we left 12 yrs ago so i can give my kids a better life my family still live there. My heart goes out to you Lisa Daniel's mom

At 6:19pm on January 3, 2011, valerie moore said…: dear rick. on my sons birthday -1st one after his passing, i purchased a cake, with his name on it, with butterflys made on the cake. we had cake, and i had a candle lit. that..was a very hard day. other folks here, have done balloon releases which i have done on other occassions. blessings, valerie

At 2:24pm on December 7, 2010, Ann said…: Handsome young man.....just going about his life content in the realization that his world was fine. Such a SHAME!! I do so hope someone does have to pay if only admitting wrong to you and your family. He needs to be prosecuted.

At 12:36pm on December 7, 2010, Ann said…: Hey Rick I have a good one for you. My son, who supposedly completed suicide, was most likely caught in the middle of a DEA or State investigation and got shot in the head. The locals are covering it up by saying he committed suicide. Too many things they have covered up that I have learned since point to murder, but they won't even admit that. For exam;le, the gun found at the scene was not even the same brand that my son was known to have.....and the fact that the clip was separate from the gun. So they are saying that my son shot himself in the head, released the clip, and tossed away the pistol before he hit the ground dead. I don't know in whose world that might be true, but not in mine! Blessings to you and I pray you find out who is really at fault and get some closure from this.....because that is all we will ever have. It will not return our boys.
Ann......Michael's mother

At 2:19pm on December 5, 2010, Terri Kuta said…: Rick:

I can somehow relate in what you are saying although my son was shot by the police it was a head on collision and since my son died its his fault like he committed suicide like we told the police this was the happiest day of his young life he was 17 and just got his first girlfriend and was on his way back from getting firewood from his friends house he was literally 25 feet from his turn lane to go to our street why would he just decide at the last minute to go into another lane we are asking if amother car might have ran him off the road or something wrong with the vehicle but noone stoped or gave statements we live on a very busy street but their was no witnesses, like you im so frustrated that its my childs fault basically because he isn't here to defend himself