Can you tell me a little about what happened? My just turned 30 yr old daughter, her heart stopped. Due to a combination of beer and hydracodone. Neither ALONE would've killed my Baby, but the combination was fatal. My only child that I lived for!!! She left me three little girls. They're big now as it'll be the beginning of TEN unbelievable years. She left on 4/09/10!!! Her Spirit came to me twice!! The day after she left, she was behind me and rubbed my arms up and down twice! The last time was 2/14/11, when, again, she was behind me, and poked me on my shoulder! I KNOW the Spirit leaves the body when it can no longer sustain the Spirit. Please know that your child is NOT gone and you'll be reunited. I believe in God, I don't think it's a he or she, it's a Spirit mad of LOVE.