SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF YOUR SON, I MYSELF LOST MY YOUNGEST SON JOHN 36 CAME HOME FROM WORK AT 4 SAID TO HIS WIFE I'M FEELING LITE HEADED WENT NEXT DOOR TO HIS MOTHER INLAWS AND SHE WWENT TO TAKE HIS BLOOD PRESSURE MY JON FEEL OVER AND WAS GONE ,HE WAS OUR BABY THAT HAPPENDED JAN 14TH 2009 AND THE THIS APRIL 30TH MY HUSBAND OF 37YRS PASSED AWAY AT HOME W/ HOSPICE HELPING WE WERE BOTH STILL GRIVING FOR OUR SON AND NOW I'VE LOST THE LOVE OF MY LIFE I HOPE YOUR DAYS GET BETTER FOR YOU I CAN ONLY SAY SOME DAYS FOR ME ARE BETTER THAN OTHER DAYS HUGS TO YOU MARY ELLEN
Dear miss Cindy, i am so very sorry for your loss and the horrible events after that you had to go through, no one should be put through that. I can't imagine the feelings and emotions that you must have right now. Know that Jehovah God is aware of your pain. Death is not a natural occurrence, it is only because of the sin of Adam in Eve "that death was brought into the world" Romans 5:12, but do trust and have faith that you will see your son again just as Jesus resurrected many while he was on Earth there will be a time when "all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice, and come out" John 5:28 and when this happens the bible promises in Revelation 21:3,4 that death will be no more, nor pain nor mourning nor outcry" You and i will see our dead loved ones again! Miss Cindy pray, "for Jehovah is hearer of prayers" Psalm 65:2 ...and i will keep you in my prayers. and i hope that this has comforted you in at least a little.
I know he is the driver of that jeep because his girlfriend is telling everyone it was him behind the wheel.i hate what he putting me thru and i hate how she died.She only lived 2 sec and every bone in her body was crushed.Did he help her no !!! he left her there to died. She was 29 yr old and had 4 kids that she will never see again, because of what ottoway harrison did to my baby girl. That why I know what you are going thru Cindy because i in the same boat that you are in i want justice for your son and for my daughter .
I just want to say for your lost and as well i lost my daughter to a drunk driver she was returning back home from visiting her boyfriend in rehap when a jeep without his headlight off and drunk and on drug hit my daughter killing her and her mother in law and injurting a 13 yr old in her back seat. And to top that he said he was the driver of the jeep that killed my daughter.now its been 5 month and no one charge on this case because they are waiting for dna that was taken from the jeep to see who was the driver. i kn
cindy, what a beautiful young man. my prayers are with you. my son,dusty passed 2 days before your danny. i am agonozing over the 1 yr anniv approaching. i sympothize with all of us loving mothers who have lost their precious sons. val
Cindy, David and I postings were not meant for You. They were directed to the Topic started by Tom. I'm sorry that you thought the remarks that were coming in was directed to you. You posted just in time to hear the backlash from us commenting on Toms posting. Again I am so sorry for your loss. The statements being made are for Tom. Hugs to you. Hugs are good.
Cindy, Just got your email. We had a somewhat similar case near Chicago a couple years back and I want to tell you how that unfolded . Please email me on this site and I can personally send you my personal email or phone number so we can talk about it. My prayers for your peace, Garry.
thank you cindy, sorry it took me so long but now im dealing with my moms breast cancer and shes going to start chemo, so i have been kind of busy. i read your story with your son daniel and it broke my heart that his father was with him and dint see him home, i dont really understand that, becouse i have been thru plenty of all kinds of seens and i have always tryed to take the person home. i juat wanted to thank you for now , your story in a way is similar to mine and i will get back to you , as i said all this month i have been running becouse of my mom. but my daughter also got killed in the highway by two cars and i have manny questions if we can help each other, theres alot i still dont understand, its weird that your son passed away on his beday and my daughter ,the last time i saw her was on her bday augst 22,2009. my hasbands beday is augst30. i miss my daughter so much, i dont ever stop thinking of her but i wish i had some answers.
yes i would love to talk to you as well, i have work today and tomorrow but i will facebook you my phone number and then maybe sunday we can talk i have my aunts and uncles coming for a visit sunday-thursday(but dont know what time sunday) they are the ones Philip was with. I was kind of thinking maybe during the summer you and your daughter ccan come here for a visit jersey shore, my daughter is 4 but they would still have fun. does that seem weird? i just feel a connection with you and thought it would be nice we can take them to boardwalk or just sit in back yard and let them play. Ok well i will send you my number. Hope today is "ok" for you. Alwyas in my thoughts
HI CINDY ; I KNO HOW YOU FEEL & MY HEART ACHES FOR YOU - SO SORRY THAT SO MANY OF US PARENTS MUST ENDURE SUCH PAIN ! YOU ARE WONDERING HOW YOU CAN GET THRU DANNYS BITHHDAY & EVEN YOUR OWN. I'VE ALREADY HAD TO DO BOTH & IT WAS HARD- I AM SO USED TO RYAN SAYING HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM & HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MOM & I CAN STILL HEAR HOW HE SOUNDED SAYING THAT - PLUS MOTHERS DAY IS YET TO COME - BUT WE GOT TO RELISH IN OUR KIDS WE STILL DO HAVE . SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE I MAY BE NEGLECTING THEM WITH RYAN ON MY MIND SO MUCH !! BUT THEY ADMIT TO ME THEY HAVE HIM ON THEIR MIND CONSTANTLY TOO !THIS HAS BEEN SOOO VERY HARD TO GO ON W/OUR LIVES WITHOUT RYAN !HE'LL NEVER KNO HOW MUCH HE WAS LOVED !AND OF COURSE HIS 3 LITTLE BOYS I KNO THINK ABOUT HIM CONSTANTLY TOO - I WONDER HOW THE LITTLE FELLOWS CAN EVEN GO TO SCHOOL & DO OK !!THEIR MOM HAS THEM IN COUNCILING & HOPEFULLY THAT HELPS THEM SOME !!ITS SUCH A NITEMARE BUT IS A LITTLE BIT EASIER AS TIME HEALS SOME !!THE DAY OUR RYANS HEADSTONE WAS SET WAS SOO HARD - AS SOON AS I SAW HIS NAME ON THE STONE & IT STILL ON THE TRUCK I SIMPLY FELL APART & CRIED UNCONTROLLABLY - WE'D TOLD THE MONUMENT CO TO LET US KNO WHEN IT WAS TO BE SET SO WERE THERE WHEN IT ARRIVED !THERE'S NO WAY OTHER PEOPLE CAN KNO HOW TERRIBLE IT REALLY IS UNLESS THEY HAVE TO GO THRU IT THEMSELVES - & YOU WUD NOT WISH THAT ON AN ANNIMAL !MAYBE YOU'D BE BETTER OFF TO HAVE SEVERAL THERE TO UNVIEL YOUR DANNYS STONE BUT YOU ARE STILL GOING TO LOSE IT SOON AS YOU SEE HIS NAME ON A TOMBSTONE- THERES JUST NO EASY WAY- I KEEP TRYING TO PICTURE RYAN IN HEAVEN WITH MY MOM & DAD & MY SISTER & HIS DADS TWIN BROTHER THAT HE LOVED A LOT! WE MUST TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME & LEAN ON THE LORD - HE'LL GET US THRU THIS & SOMEDAY WE WILL SEE THEM AGAIN !GOD BLESS YOU DEAR - & WARM HUGS & PRAYERS !!! YOUR FRIEND DEL..(firstname.lastname@example.org- if you want to email me sometime)