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At 11:23pm on June 15, 2011, Janie said…

Hi Alicia, Thankyou for befriending me.  How did you know I needed a friend

tonight?  I too miss my son.  His name is Rich or do we say was Rich.  I lost

Rich 3-1/2 yrs. ago. I can still see his face when he passed to the bright lights

in heaven to be with God.  Tell me about your son.

At 11:23pm on June 15, 2011, Janie said…

Hi Alicia, Thankyou for befriending me.  How did you know I needed a friend

tonight?  I too miss my son.  His name is Rich or do we say was Rich.  I lost

Rich 3-1/2 yrs. ago. I can still see his face when he passed to the bright lights

in heaven to be with God.  Tell me about your son.

At 8:56pm on June 14, 2011, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Alicia Jesses Mom missing you my beloved Son you're Brothers and Sisters miss you p Pray to see you soon. Love you
At 7:29pm on June 14, 2011, Cathy said…

Alicia, I'm very sorry that you've had to join this site, but I'm glad you found it for it has been very helpful to me and I hope it will for you too. I pray for all of us here, but at times someone may be having a very bad day or somebody new joins and I know they need to feel God's arms around them so I pray, calling them by name and I know others do the same. As bad as this is, I know my son would want me to use my experience to help others so I lift up my chin and try to encourage others, which in turn encourages me. You can learn a lot about who my son was by visiting his website at http://www.333technologies.com.  The video was his work on a mission trip to Ecuador last July. He left us only a month later. The video was shown at the end of his funeral and some of his blog was used in his program. It has been shown at churches and spiritual retreats and has been viewed by people all over the world. I continue to share it so his legacy and witness can continue on. Please tell me more about your son - I would love to hear from you and I'm glad we're friends but I'm sorry either of us need this site.

Cathy ~ Charlie's Mom   

http://www.333technologies.com

At 8:17pm on June 11, 2011, myra delgado said…

Alicia so sorry 4 the loss of ur baby...I could only wish that today is better than yesterday...

 

At 9:50pm on June 8, 2011, Devastated woman said…
Thank you so much,and thank you for your prayers, I'm trying really hard to get through this. I will pray for you as well.
At 11:54am on June 7, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Alicia....be patient with yourself....you are just beginning this journey of grief.  Get plenty of rest if you can, maybe take little walks to get out each day.  The first few months will be like in a "fog"....nothing you can do about it....in this beginning it is minute by minute, then hour by hour...then day by day.  All baby steps.  Keep posting and we will try and walk you through the day....

Oh and I read the email from this vivian....DO NOT respond to that person just ignore it.....only post on this site....there may come a time where you form a bond with another mom/dad and want to communicate other than this site but you must feel safe with that person before you give them your peronal information.!!!  Just trust your instincts.

We are all here for you!!!

Hugs!!!    Susan.....Donny's Mom

 

 

At 5:27am on June 7, 2011, Jeff Justus said…

Hi Alicia,

 I look at my son's pictures of his early childhood and I'm so glad that I at least got to see him grow. Too bad we just did not get to witness them growing a lot more. My son passed about 6 1/2 mos ago and there are still times that I have to ask myself  " is this real "?  I used to have a difficult time looking at pictures of him at any age but as an adult. I guess I just coudn't bear to look at that little guy in the pictures and know he's no longer with us. As parents you are just programed to protect your children at any price. My son lived on his own. I could not tell him what to do anymore but tried to offer sound advice. He actually became a very good friend ...and I really miss him.

Thanks for your thoughts...... Jeff 

At 2:10pm on June 5, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Thinking of you today....my two grand daughters just came in last night from Idaho...my life will be busy for 2 months.  I am so happy.  Just wish my son could be here with his daughters....

Hugs to you today

Susan

At 11:17pm on June 2, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

I too am honored to by your friend.   You have my deepest sympathy that not only losing one son but to lose two is unbelieveable. 

I have a daughter who was 18 mos older than Donny.  She has one son, my only grandson who is 5.  My son has 3 daughters 19, 17 and 15 that I am very close too since birth. 

If you click on my picture here of Donny, you will go to my personal page and see my families pictures I have posted.

It is pretty easy to download a picture on this site if you have them on your computer.  Right above here do you see the "Link" box...well the one next to it if you click on it, it will say "image" and you can download a picture from your computer to your page.

The lady who originated this site can really explain it well if you have any problems.  Her name is Tami and she can walk you through the steps easier than me.  She is very helpful.

We are all in this together....good people here.  In fact, Tami is already one of your "friends", I see Joey's picture below.  Just contact her and she will walk you thru the steps to get his picture on here.

Hugs to you and your double angels.

Susan    Donny's Mom

At 6:37pm on June 2, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Hello Alicia....I too lost a son in 2009.  On Christmas morning....so sad.  He was a bit older (39) but we miss him just the same.   Glad you found this website.  It has been a Godsend to me for sure.  When I signed on it was only in the 300's and now it is nearing 900 members.  Everyone here is so kind and comforting.  Sometimes one person is having a good day and can help the ones that are having a bad day and then it reverses.... we all wish we didn't have to be here but at least we have found friends that know all the sadness, and loss we feel when losing a child.

So I did request you to be my friend so we can comment back and forth.  Maybe post a picture of your son here on your page, all the moms like seeing each others angel children.

Take care and hugs to you today.

Susan    Donny's Mom

At 1:42pm on May 31, 2011, JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 said…

Hi Alecia,

I love that name and my daughter actually had a friend with that name now that I recall. I dont know where she is now but I was told her and her mom got into drugs. that was years ago and I hope they are better today and not invovled in that life style.

I would like to say, thanks for the friend invite. I am also so sorry for your loss of your son. Know that we all know what you are going thru and with his Angel date coming up, its going to be hard. I got thru the weekend by keeping busy and then when I went to bed, all I did was cry. Visions kept going thru my  head of her and what a different day it wuold have been if she were here. I read stories on fb of her friends and mine too and everyone was so happy, camping, fishing, bbq'ing and it just got to me. Her last bbq was at my sons and I have a pic of her with a big smile on her face holding a drink, not sure alcohol, but its ironic, cause that is what caused her to fall from a window and end up in icu for 5 days.

I dont know how we get thru this, but coming here sure does help, because no one else understands the pain or the hole in our hearts.

Tell us more about your son. I coudnt find much else. You can put a picture of him as your profile pic and add others to your page as you feel comfortable. A face of our angels makes it so much more to connect when chatting back and forth.

I think your sons angel date is coming up, let us know so we can be there for you. Going it alone is not easy.

well, hugs and bless you

At 1:42pm on May 31, 2011, JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 said…

Hi Alecia,

I love that name and my daughter actually had a friend with that name now that I recall. I dont know where she is now but I was told her and her mom got into drugs. that was years ago and I hope they are better today and not invovled in that life style.

I would like to say, thanks for the friend invite. I am also so sorry for your loss of your son. Know that we all know what you are going thru and with his Angel date coming up, its going to be hard. I got thru the weekend by keeping busy and then when I went to bed, all I did was cry. Visions kept going thru my  head of her and what a different day it wuold have been if she were here. I read stories on fb of her friends and mine too and everyone was so happy, camping, fishing, bbq'ing and it just got to me. Her last bbq was at my sons and I have a pic of her with a big smile on her face holding a drink, not sure alcohol, but its ironic, cause that is what caused her to fall from a window and end up in icu for 5 days.

I dont know how we get thru this, but coming here sure does help, because no one else understands the pain or the hole in our hearts.

Tell us more about your son. I coudnt find much else. You can put a picture of him as your profile pic and add others to your page as you feel comfortable. A face of our angels makes it so much more to connect when chatting back and forth.

I think your sons angel date is coming up, let us know so we can be there for you. Going it alone is not easy.

well, hugs and bless you

At 7:04pm on May 29, 2011, Oralia Sandoval said…
Thank you Alicia I have been crying alot lately, everyone use to say I have pretty eyes now they are swollen from all the crying and lack of sleep, what do I do, my e-mail is oralia2005@yahoo.com....
At 7:04pm on May 29, 2011, Oralia Sandoval said…
Thank you Alicia I have been crying alot lately, everyone use to say I have pretty eyes now they are swollen from all the crying and lack of sleep, what do I do, my e-mail is oralia2005@yahoo.com....
At 12:50pm on May 25, 2011, Tami said…
Alicia, I am so sorry for the loss of your handsome son... I hold you in my heart, these are going to be very difficult days as I am sure you know, Please know that you are not alone, come here and talk, it really helps, no one will judge you for your thoughts, you can be angry, sad, happy, yell, scream, whatever helps you through the day. You are in my prayers.
At 5:43pm on May 21, 2011, Oralia Sandoval said…
yes my son was 28 yrs old awell, and I miss him so much, he was my son my friend my every thing.....

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