I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm here if you ever want to vent

Liz,

I haven't seen you online in a while.  I'm kinda' worried about you.  Hope you come back, and things are okay..well, as okay as can be expected anyway.

With love, and big hugs,

~PHYLLIS~

so sorry for your loss Liz. its great we have pictures to look at over & over again. i look at pics of my brother & I all the time..kinda keeps him in my life...

hi liz...how are you...thanks for the hug:):):) made me feel better...hope you have a good day today...tomorrow's my flight...i'll keep in touch. I cant wait to see my baby sister...

Elvis..oh yes..we just took a trip to Graceland, and I am an Elvis nut!  It's so good to have the memories isn't it?

Great to hear from you again.  You hang in there too okay?  We have to do it for them, and the ones left.  Boy..am I trying!

You are right about the people at Church..they all did look at me rather strangely, which made me uncomfortable, but I dealt with it as best I could. 

They offer their words of kindness..they try..but it still doesn't help me one bit!  Nothing helps me right now.  Except smelling his shirt still...and holding our picture.  GOD..why?  Some say don't ever ask why, but how can we help it?

Love to you,

Phyllis

hi liz...how are you coping with your siblings' death?i lost my lil sister with her lil angel in her womb last saturday and feel so devastated,depressed and heartbroken...i dont know if i can go on with life...ilove her so much...i joined this group because i felt i needed somebody who can understand what i feel...please help me..

i hope your doing okay i know its hard its for me to would you be interested in swopping numbers to help each other thru this ? and hopefully become friends

Oh my goodness...so many small children, and yes,  that has to be so much harder for all of you to handle.

Did you find a quilt yet?  I am also looking at them. 

 I have wondered why I didn't see you on here for a couple of days, but I guess it may have been we were on at different times.  I AM thinking of you. 

We managed to get up and go to Church this morning.  I mustered up the energy..don't know how, but I did it.  It also helps that my husband is a Minister. 

Of course, there were more tears, and I left with mascara running down my face and feeling worn out again.  Chad would have said the mascara looked like "gravy"  under my eyes.  That was just his sense of humor. :)

Please, lets keep stay in touch.   Really feel a connection with you.

((HUGS))

~Phyllis~ 

Liz,

I just read your post about your dear brother.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I know how it hurts, and I know we are all hurting here.  You are one heck of a sister..I DO know that, and I am here for you. 

Liz, he had children right?  That makes it even sadder.  Again, I'm sorry.  God be with us all.

Your friend,

~PHYLLIS..Chads' Mom~