Hello Ruben, I hope this site brings you some measure of peace. I know it has for me. Seems that everyone before me has moved on. David, Bernie's Dad, came right after me. I lost my only child, Candace, she had JUST turned 30 yrs old two months previously. I was awoke at 6:00 A.M. on April 9, 2010 with a phone call from the police. I suppose their girls Dad was too upset. to notify me.