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At 11:54am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Well youre Doing just fine " thats what everyone says" isnt that funny just try to kepp those thoughts at bay because it can be torture  sometimes Deep Down inside we try to make sense of it all but the truth is it will never make sense the first 48 tv show made me realize that sad but true give youreself a break and you will soon find a little peace at a time but embrace every little bit and maybe things will seem ok  Im no expert but it works sometimes hope it helps love YA

At 11:54am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Well youre Doing just fine " thats what everyone says" isnt that funny just try to kepp those thoughts at bay because it can be torture  sometimes Deep Down inside we try to make sense of it all but the truth is it will never make sense the first 48 tv show made me realize that sad but true give youreself a break and you will soon find a little peace at a time but embrace every little bit and maybe things will seem ok  Im no expert but it works sometimes hope it helps love YA

At 11:54am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Well youre Doing just fine " thats what everyone says" isnt that funny just try to kepp those thoughts at bay because it can be torture  sometimes Deep Down inside we try to make sense of it all but the truth is it will never make sense the first 48 tv show made me realize that sad but true give youreself a break and you will soon find a little peace at a time but embrace every little bit and maybe things will seem ok  Im no expert but it works sometimes hope it helps love YA

At 11:53am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Well youre Doing just fine " thats what everyone says" isnt that funny just try to kepp those thoughts at bay because it can be torture  sometimes Deep Down inside we try to make sense of it all but the truth is it will never make sense the first 48 tv show made me realize that sad but true give youreself a break and you will soon find a little peace at a time but embrace every little bit and maybe things will seem ok  Im no expert but it works sometimes hope it helps love YA

At 11:53am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Well youre Doing just fine " thats what everyone says" isnt that funny just try to kepp those thoughts at bay because it can be torture  sometimes Deep Down inside we try to make sense of it all but the truth is it will never make sense the first 48 tv show made me realize that sad but true give youreself a break and you will soon find a little peace at a time but embrace every little bit and maybe things will seem ok  Im no expert but it works sometimes hope it helps love YA

At 11:52am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Well youre Doing just fine " thats what everyone says" isnt that funny just try to kepp those thoughts at bay because it can be torture  sometimes Deep Down inside we try to make sense of it all but the truth is it will never make sense the first 48 tv show made me realize that sad but true give youreself a break and you will soon find a little peace at a time but embrace every little bit and maybe things will seem ok  Im no expert but it works sometimes hope it helps love YA

At 11:51am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Well youre Doing just fine " thats what everyone says" isnt that funny just try to kepp those thoughts at bay because it can be torture  sometimes Deep Down inside we try to make sense of it all but the truth is it will never make sense the first 48 tv show made me realize that sad but true give youreself a break and you will soon find a little peace at a time but embrace every little bit and maybe things will seem ok  Im no expert but it works sometimes hope it helps love YA

At 11:50am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Well youre Doing just fine " thats what everyone says" isnt that funny just try to kepp those thoughts at bay because it can be torture  sometimes Deep Down inside we try to make sense of it all but the truth is it will never make sense the first 48 tv show made me realize that sad but true give youreself a break and you will soon find a little peace at a time but embrace every little bit and maybe things will seem ok  Im no expert but it works sometimes hope it helps love YA

At 11:50am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Well youre Doing just fine " thats what everyone says" isnt that funny just try to kepp those thoughts at bay because it can be torture  sometimes Deep Down inside we try to make sense of it all but the truth is it will never make sense the first 48 tv show made me realize that sad but true give youreself a break and you will soon find a little peace at a time but embrace every little bit and maybe things will seem ok  Im no expert but it works sometimeshope it helps

At 10:39am on February 3, 2012, sylvester brown said…

Hello Tina havent been here for a while glad it was today I read youre comment Andi thought i was the only one who had those dreams they are mostly sad and scary to me but once i tell my self that there  is nothing i could have done to change things i try to accept it and know that i must move forward Im not going to lie its hard as hell but i am slowly moving forward after ive gained a bunch of damn weight" LOL" so stay positive and try not to look at the ugly of it just know he's alright now and you will get a good nights sleep soon

At 8:19am on September 16, 2011, sylvester brown said…
Hey Tina thinking about you and how youre doing i dont know how youre feeling today but youre feeling and thats a good thing things are still rough for me to but hold on somedays i can think of my sister and smile somedays i want to cry like a baby but i keep looking forward and know theres light at the end of the tunnel and that light is my sister for you it will be youre brother by the way i did lose a brother to in 96 Im just saying Baby it will be ok
At 8:19am on September 16, 2011, sylvester brown said…
Hey Tina thinking about you and how youre doing i dont know how youre feeling today but youre feeling and thats a good thing things are still rough for me to but hold on somedays i can think of my sister and smile somedays i want to cry like a baby but i keep looking forward and know theres light at the end of the tunnel and that light is my sister for you it will be youre brother by the way i did lose a brother to in 96 Im just saying Baby it will be ok
At 2:15pm on June 12, 2011, sewemily said…

Hello Tina;  I am so sorry for yourloss.  My sis ter was murdered in 2008.  I still have moments  of grief and horror at what happened.  She was found strangled and beaten quite badly on her head.  The trip to the morgue to identify her body was traumatic to me.  They have the man in custody and is held in Chicago, Cook county jail in maximum security.  The trial hasn't come up yet.  I hope to have it start in the Fall.  Then the forensic pictures will bring back all the traumma again. 

 

The only way I can cope is with my spiritual beliefs.  I know she is in heaven.  Her faith was so strong.  I am trying to be grateful for all the years of closeness we had together.  I live in Minneapolis, MN, and she lived in Elk Grove Village, ILL.  We would buy phone cards so we could talk frequently.  I loved her so much.  I am her little sis and she taught me so much.  She took me under her wing and brought much support and love to me.  I will always be grateful for that. 

We must perservere.  It's not easy.  It will never go away, but I will be distracted with other things in life to keep me going.  Not every day is bad.  But coping with this tragedy is a slow process for me.  How are you coping and getting through this.  You might help me. 

At 10:48am on May 17, 2011, Chelle said…
Miss Tina, I see you are a fellow "Georgian." Loosing someone to death is hard enough, let alone to murder. I send you my condolences all the way from Braselton.  If it is not to personal, may I ask did your family receive any justice?
At 10:47am on May 17, 2011, Glenda Speelman said…
Thanks. It was very hard to write. I am trying to write one to staple to the cross I am putting at the river on Memorial Day. So far, I'm not having a lot of luck. It will be a year but it seems like just yesterday.
At 12:23am on May 17, 2011, misty mathis said…
hey Tina just wanted to see how you are doing. Im trying to get it together and it just dont seem to be working. I just cant grasp the fact that my bro is gone. I dont know how to do this,hes always been here for mein times like these and now its him thats gone. I hope you are doinng better than I am. your friend,Misty
At 12:23am on May 17, 2011, misty mathis said…
hey Tina just wanted to see how you are doing. Im trying to get it together and it just dont seem to be working. I just cant grasp the fact that my bro is gone. I dont know how to do this,hes always been here for mein times like these and now its him thats gone. I hope you are doinng better than I am. your friend,Misty
At 7:35am on April 28, 2011, Glenda Speelman said…
Thanks Tina. It is one of the hardest things I ever wrote but it helped me get through last weekend talking to him. I stayed home this past Monday on our birthday. I told everyone I did not want to celebrate so they respected it and left me to myself. It was just me and his spirit that shared the day. Being a twin, it's like 1/2 of you is missing. You just don't feel whole anymore.  I will  say a prayer for you. I know Sunday will be a hard day for you. God Bless you.....Glenda
At 7:38am on April 14, 2011, sylvester brown said…
where you at my buddy long time no hear from thanks
At 9:04pm on March 17, 2011, klynn said…
Tina- reminding myself that my loved ones suffering was "just once" with each moment fading into the next helps me. I also remind myself that things like shock would make them somewhat unaware of what was happening and lessen the pain. These things help with my pain in looking back on what it must have been like for them. This helps me to cope. Its all that I can do now for them and for me. The thoughts you are describing come from your being an empathetic person. We do "feel" for other people's suffering. This can bring us pain-but it is a big part of being human that we do not want to lose-not ever- no matter what horrible things another person did or said to our loved ones. May they never take that from us. I hope my sister (and my daughter and all those I have lost in my lifetime) are now at peace and in a better place where there is no more pain and suffering. No more cruelty- no ugliness. That they are wrapped in a loving light and eternal bliss. I hope you have the strength to get through all that you have to go through and keep you empathy and compassion. Do now what you need to do- no more and no less -to help you get through this this. Blessings.

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