Hello and welcome, Deborah. I am Mary Jane, and have been a member for a bit over a year. You,ve come to a good place...it might seem a bit slow here right now..which is unusual...if you have the time, I would encourage you to read the prior posts..so you can see what a great supportive group we are. If you decide you want to,post, it might seem tricky, but it is so easy...you just have to post in a line, on the latest page, even if you might be responding to something you might have read a few pages back. If you just want to vent...you can post anything u feel or u wish...and you will get so many responses from people who understand what you are feeling. Nice to meet you...this place basically saved my life..and all of agree it the same for them, too. Just talking about it feels cathartic...I promise.