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At 7:38am on December 7, 2010, Carrie L said…
Hi marie, I also am in your shoes with the loss of my child my son. I like to write because then i get a response and it makes me feel so not alone. my friend says does that help you? well right now it does or i would not be doing it.. that is weird. we do what makes us feel better. and getting involved with other mothers who are feeliing this horrible and having all these thoughts is healthy and nice we have the interenet to help us. i want you to know we are together bonded by this horrific tragedy. each different and if we were close enouph to meet eachother we truly would. because it seems no one else is mourning... carrie L
At 8:36am on August 23, 2010, Mary Ellen said…
hi marie, i also tried sending a request for friend ..WHATS WITH THIS SITE I'm so new at it must be doing something wrong. this has been a rough week our annv. was aug 18th and i have been really down haven't left the house since then but made a promise to my love & my son to start mall walking again mon. wed. fri. so i'm off to walk thanks for getting back to me ..hugs and have a blessed day..m.e.
At 8:36am on August 23, 2010, Mary Ellen said…
hi marie, i also tried sending a request for friend ..WHATS WITH THIS SITE I'm so new at it must be doing something wrong. this has been a rough week our annv. was aug 18th and i have been really down haven't left the house since then but made a promise to my love & my son to start mall walking again mon. wed. fri. so i'm off to walk thanks for getting back to me ..hugs and have a blessed day..m.e.
At 3:59pm on August 4, 2010, abel washington said…
thanks for adding me here as friends
At 4:45am on July 31, 2010, TAMMY said…
MARIE THK YOU SO VERY MUCH AND I AM GRATEFUL THAT I HAVE MY BABY GIRL ITS ME AND HER TO FACE THE WORLD ALONE AND IM ALSO SO VERY SAD TO HEAR OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY LOST AS WELL ALL WE CAN DO NOW IS PRAY THAT GOD GIVE US THE FAITH AND WISDOM TO TRY AND LIVE LIFE THE BEST WE CAN AND TO KEEP BEING STRONG FOR THE BABIES WE HAVE ATLEAST YOU NO HE IS NOT SUFFERING ANYMORE AND THAT HE IS WITH HIM ALL MIGHTY I LOOK FORWARD TO HERA FROM YOU AGAIN KEEP ME POSTED ON HOW YOU ARE AND WANTED TO LET YOU NO THAT IM HERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU NEED AN EAR GOD BLESS AND BYE FOR NOW.
At 8:21pm on July 30, 2010, Marie Polak said…
Thank you Maria and I am so sorry to hear about your son. And that he had to suffer so much at the end. My son suffered with life. He felt he was a failure and wasn't good enough. He'd break my heart everytime he'd say something to me like that. But I've been told from my sister and a good friend of his that my son has came to him in a dream and he said to tell me he felt no pain the night he died.
I know that feeling of having to fight to breathe all to well. And I agree with you. That emptiness in our hearts will always be there for the rest of our lifes. My prayers are with you!!
At 1:57pm on July 23, 2010, Bridgette said…
Maria, I am so sorry for the loss of your son> I lost my only son 5 years ago (July 30th). He had non-hodgkins lymphoma stage 4. He suffered horrendously, toward the end was completely paralyzed and blind.
Pleasse know I feel you pain! I heard all the same comments, move on, you need to accept it, it will get better etc, etc. NO it does not, all I feel is an empty heavy weight in my chest, where my heart is suppose to be. An emptyness that is so overwhelming it seems almost impossible to breathe. Like you, I would give anything to hear his voice, get a hug or hear Mom I love you!
God bless you ***Bridgette
At 3:39pm on July 19, 2010, abel washington said…
thanks marie.a great opportunity to share true life experience. would love always having people around.
God bless
At 7:07am on July 19, 2010, Mary Ellen said…
my heart breaks for you, I also lost a son jan 14 2009
at 39 from a massive heart attack,a healthy ( we thought) not over weight non smoker active young man .we just never know I talked to John at lunch time he was fine and by 6 he was gone.My husband and I were still grieving for our son when he got sick april 2nd and passed away april 30 2010 my life as i knew it will never be the same , Ihurt so bad my chest feels like it's caving in.marie your pain must be so overwhelming i can't even imagian what your pain is like ,but i wish for you a peacefull day,people tell me take one day @ a time..so i hope you can also
god bless . mary ellen
At 12:27pm on July 16, 2010, abel washington said…
sorry for the loss. will be willing to pray along with you any time. God bless
At 9:39pm on July 15, 2010, Kathy Mook said…
Maria, I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. I have 4 sons, 2 of which are now my deposits in heaven and 3 of them have suffered with depression and/or bipolar disorder. Jon, pictured, had compications at birth resulting in Cerebral Palsy. He died June 29,09 from a choking accident. My other son that died, Noah, died when he was 7wks old, 29 yrs ago from SIDS. This group has really helped me. Even though I work a lot and don't get online as often as I'd like, I'm always drawn here to know that others really can relate to what I'm feeling. I also count my blessings when I'm here. There are always so many people that have been through even more than I have. Reaching out to others has been really helpful to me. I'm sorry for why your here but glad you found us. Hugs of Hope, Kathy

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