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At 5:38pm on July 9, 2011, Jeff Justus said…: Hi Niecy ! Just read your life insurance story and I have a nightmare also. My son was engaged to get married to a young women in Sept. '07. Less than 48 hrs before the wedding, she called it off because she met another guy at her pre wedding day party.

To make a long story short, He some how messed up on his beneficiary and she got all his life insurance. I'm not sure how much but he had two, one with the Air National Guard and one with Best Buy Corp.

It really would not have bothered me if it was only her benefitting but she's marrying the guy that came between my son and her. That creep benefits monetarily through the death of my son. Take care!

At 5:38pm on July 9, 2011, Jeff Justus said…: Hi Niecy ! Just read your life insurance story and I have a nightmare also. My son was engaged to get married to a young women in Sept. '07. Less than 48 hrs before the wedding, she called it off because she met another guy at her pre wedding day party.

To make a long story short, He some how messed up on his beneficiary and she got all his life insurance. I'm not sure how much but he had two, one with the Air National Guard and one with Best Buy Corp.

It really would not have bothered me if it was only her benefitting but she's marrying the guy that came between my son and her. That creep benefits monetarily through the death of my son. Take care!

At 8:48am on July 9, 2011, Carrie L said…: Hi Niecy love to you and all of us on here where our lives are different than they were. love to you carrie l

At 8:48am on July 9, 2011, Carrie L said…: Hi Niecy love to you and all of us on here where our lives are different than they were. love to you carrie l

At 2:59am on January 11, 2011, Rev.James Durden said…: HI Neicy,its love that keeps you here and it keeps me here and all of those who are here express their love in some manner whether its the pain they feel or the love of others and the pain they feel its all combined as we strengthen each other,so I pray that I can help someone along the way as my days are great sometimes and other days I just read what others post and hope to gain insight.

At 12:26am on January 2, 2011, Rev.James Durden said…: Hi Neicy, I haven't heard from you in a while don't shy away I know that this is hard and somedays down right unbearable,I hope you and your family are doing well and may this year find you progressing in every aspect of life.The Preacher!!!!

At 10:51am on December 30, 2010, Wendy M. said…: Hi Neicy,

Thank you for asking me to be added to your friend list. As you can see, I haven't been here for a while and I am pretty inconsistant. I have been so scatterbrained lately. Starting in January I am going to bereavement groups (1 per week for 8 weeks). I need to make myself go. I have read all of your comments and I know that you have lost a child who was ill. I do not know when or how. I do know or think that must be the hardest thing a mother could ever go through. I am in so much pain over the loss of my mother I could not imagine the pain I would feel if I lost my daughter. When I was very young my mom lost a daughter when she was 13 days old, my sister. She never talked about it. How sad is that? I think what we all are doing here, by sharing and reading each other's stories is the right thing to be doing. I have heard that holding in pain can make you ill. My mom died very young. Who knows? I miss her so much as you miss your baby. Thank you. I hope you are getting around better. I tend to stay home alone which is why I am choosing group through Hospice. have you done anything like this? Wendy

At 5:31am on December 25, 2010, Shirley Creed said…: Thank you for your support and prayers. Today I will just get try and get through. No plans or expectations - just keep going. God bless.

At 6:52pm on December 11, 2010, TAMMY said…: HI NEISEY SORRY TO JUST NOW BE GETTING BACK 2 U HOPE U R DOING BETTER AND I WILL KEEP U N MY PRAYERS HUN HOPE 2 HEAR BACK FROM U SOON.HUGS

At 9:43am on December 2, 2010, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: I had written on my day planner that today was the one year angel birthday of your son Gregory. I will be lighting a candle for him in his honor today.
I read your main post and am very sorry that you are not finding love and strength through your family. This is the time you need them most and they have failed you. I am glad you have your faith that seems to have been your savior in this tragedy.
Hugs coming to you today ......Happy Angel Birthday Gregory!!!

At 7:01pm on November 3, 2010, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: Good to hear from you. Glad you are well.
Last night I went to a Memorial Mass at my church for all the people that left us in 2009. I really didn't want to go but I did, how could I not go for Donny.
It turned out good, I haven't been attending church for a long time. I had lots of anger and could not find it in my heart to listen to priets anymore....just didn't mean anything anymore. I can feel the anger ever so slightly going away, I know it isn't good for anyone and doesn't do any good either. I wish I had the faith that you do, but at the moment I do not.
When November started in the back of my mind is "now all the holidays are coming".....gonna be hard for everyone of us on this website. Thank goodness we have each other to give some encouragement through the coming two months.
Donny will be gone one year on Christmas day....hows that for a hard one to do? Luckily the family will all be together and I will be busy. I decided to do a balloon release the week after, better for everyone.
Hugs to you and thanks again for checking on me. Peace be with you.

At 7:01pm on November 3, 2010, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: Good to hear from you. Glad you are well.
Last night I went to a Memorial Mass at my church for all the people that left us in 2009. I really didn't want to go but I did, how could I not go for Donny.
It turned out good, I haven't been attending church for a long time. I had lots of anger and could not find it in my heart to listen to priets anymore....just didn't mean anything anymore. I can feel the anger ever so slightly going away, I know it isn't good for anyone and doesn't do any good either. I wish I had the faith that you do, but at the moment I do not.
When November started in the back of my mind is "now all the holidays are coming".....gonna be hard for everyone of us on this website. Thank goodness we have each other to give some encouragement through the coming two months.
Donny will be gone one year on Christmas day....hows that for a hard one to do? Luckily the family will all be together and I will be busy. I decided to do a balloon release the week after, better for everyone.
Hugs to you and thanks again for checking on me. Peace be with you.

At 12:34pm on October 28, 2010, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: All of us who lost sons/daughters in December of 2009 will have to give strength to each other in the coming months....
Hope they all found each other wherever they all are.....all of them have big wonderful smiles....could be best of buddies up there.
Hugs to you.

At 8:23pm on October 23, 2010, Pat Russell said…: Thank you Neicy. God be with you,with all of us!

At 1:46am on October 15, 2010, TAMMY said…: OOOO NEICY SORRY 2 HEAR THAT BUT IM ALSO ON F/B UNDER TAMEKA COPELAND HOPE 2 HEAR FROM U HUN GOODLUCK

At 1:46am on October 15, 2010, TAMMY said…: OOOO NEICY SORRY 2 HEAR THAT BUT IM ALSO ON F/B UNDER TAMEKA COPELAND HOPE 2 HEAR FROM U HUN GOODLUCK

At 2:36pm on September 7, 2010, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: Sorry you are having a bad week, I too have been having a rough week. We both are at the 9 mo time of loss of our sons. Mine was Xmas morning 2009.
I know the feeling about looking at the last pictures of our family together. On my page it has one of the last times we all celebrated a birthday and took pictures of our group. I treasure that picture for sure. Also know about trying to celebrate anything anymore....nothing has the joy in the day. We just get through it.
One thing that MAKES me try and be happy is our little 4 yr old grandson who knew a time when his big family was always happy and celebrating things. He so wants us all to be that way again. We keep trying always for him. In fact I thought to myself, "how will I ever celebrate Xmas again?" but he deserves a Christmas and all that goes along with it. He loved his "Unk" and talks about him a lot.
I feel all of your sorrow and pain and hope this week goes as smoothly as it possible can for you.
Vitual hug coming from me....!!! sorry.....

At 2:36pm on September 7, 2010, Susan - Donny's Mom said…: Sorry you are having a bad week, I too have been having a rough week. We both are at the 9 mo time of loss of our sons. Mine was Xmas morning 2009.
I know the feeling about looking at the last pictures of our family together. On my page it has one of the last times we all celebrated a birthday and took pictures of our group. I treasure that picture for sure. Also know about trying to celebrate anything anymore....nothing has the joy in the day. We just get through it.
One thing that MAKES me try and be happy is our little 4 yr old grandson who knew a time when his big family was always happy and celebrating things. He so wants us all to be that way again. We keep trying always for him. In fact I thought to myself, "how will I ever celebrate Xmas again?" but he deserves a Christmas and all that goes along with it. He loved his "Unk" and talks about him a lot.
I feel all of your sorrow and pain and hope this week goes as smoothly as it possible can for you.
Vitual hug coming from me....!!! sorry.....

At 1:35pm on September 7, 2010, valerie moore said…: neicy, beautiful photos of your beloved son. my name is valerie. i lost dusty 1 yr ago on aug 28- worst day of my life. i know, life will never be really good for me, just get by day by day. to get thru dustys birthday, ( i too loved to celebrate birthdays) i just had a small cake with dustys name on it, with butterflys, i lit a candle and said a prayer, all i could muster up to to. on his 1 yr anniv, i had a balloon release that included a big butterfly balloon. real bad day. i was off work for the entire month of aug so distraught of that date. keeping you in my prayers. val

At 1:05pm on July 25, 2010, Marylee said…: Thank you for your kind words. I have taken my eyes off the Lord and he is such a wonderful sorce of comfort. I will have to once again take this pain to him and let him carry it for me. I miss my sons so bad. My step son just had his 1st son 2 weeks ago & maybe that is some of this new pain.
Both of my sons were molested as children, by a "friend" and 1 never did have any relationships with a women. My younger son did but it always ended because of his unrealized smothering the girls he was with. Once again Thank You "Little Red"