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At 6:30pm on September 11, 2012, Cheryl said…

Dear Sunni

Your little boy was very handsome.... No doubt even though time has passed, you still need endurance and comfort. I just lost my dad in death in Aug and it has been hard to deal with, but the link below has brought me much comfort, and I wanted to share it with you.

http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/what-hope-for-dead-loved-ones/1101987030/

At 12:27am on February 22, 2011, Rebecca said…
Thank you
At 4:16pm on February 5, 2011, Terri - Autumn's Mom said…
Karl and Sunni,
Thank you so much for your response and prayers. It means so much to me.
Your little guy looks so happy and loved. He is just adorable.
You said it's been just over a year since you lost him. I'm at the beginning of this tragic journey and it gives me a sense of peace to have others like yourselves to talk to about this horrible pain I'm going through. I'm hoping as time goes on, it gets a little lighter for all of us. I'm thinking of your family this weekend and keeping you in my prayers. Thanks again for your response.
At 9:22am on February 4, 2011, Terri - Autumn's Mom said…

Sunni and Karl,

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby boy.

I hope everything went well in the dedication at his school.

I'm sending hugs your way.

 

At 9:28am on January 19, 2011, Susan - Donny's Mom said…

Sunni and Karl....reading your post on the main page today touched my heart that you are a little better.  My son was much older when he left and I see that sweet smile of your little son and think it isn't fair either to take such young children.  All of us on here feel your pain but wish slowly you can learn to go on for your family that is here.

What Tami wrote below is good advice.  Everyone on this site has a little bit to offer to go on another day.  Keep reading, keep posting....everyone is here for you.  And maybe seeing a Dr. would help or joining a group together is a good idea.

None of us are "strong" we are going through each day for the family that is with us here. 

Please hang in there....good thoughts coming your way.

At 12:42am on January 19, 2011, Tami said…
Karl, I am not one to tell you what to do, I too have those nights and days. I am now on antidepressents and they help so much, Yes I am still heart broken and sad, I still feel his absence from my life but it doesnt consume me and if I keep busy that helps too so that I am not falling to pieces all day long. I really wish you would call your Dr if you arent on anything, I promise it will help, even if just a little bit. I look at Christians picture and see a very happy go lucky child, just know that you gave him so much love and were the best Dad to him and you are still a father, you have a daughter that needs you too, I try to think of that for my son, My son lived with an abusive dad for years until I got him back, and then I loved him so much and spoiled the crap out of him, I can think back on how happy he was to be with me and it makes me happy I could be there and give him the life he deserved, YES I wish it was forever, but it isnt, all I can do now is know that I did my very best as a mother for him, I miss him every second of every day, I know that one day I will be with him, I know that I have to wait for that day, I did go to a psychic right after my Son passed, it was unbelieveable!!! I really didnt trust her but It was paid for so I went, it helped me to deal with a lot of things, some people dont believe in them but I have to tell you,this lady said things that only I would know and things that were in the accident report that nobody knew until weeks later when I got the report...so YES I believe in the after life. Please just know that there is always someone here when you get to that place, we will always talk to you and never judge you, say what you want, thats what this site is for. Many Many hugs and prayers for you.
At 12:42am on January 19, 2011, Tami said…
Karl, I am not one to tell you what to do, I too have those nights and days. I am now on antidepressents and they help so much, Yes I am still heart broken and sad, I still feel his absence from my life but it doesnt consume me and if I keep busy that helps too so that I am not falling to pieces all day long. I really wish you would call your Dr if you arent on anything, I promise it will help, even if just a little bit. I look at Christians picture and see a very happy go lucky child, just know that you gave him so much love and were the best Dad to him and you are still a father, you have a daughter that needs you too, I try to think of that for my son, My son lived with an abusive dad for years until I got him back, and then I loved him so much and spoiled the crap out of him, I can think back on how happy he was to be with me and it makes me happy I could be there and give him the life he deserved, YES I wish it was forever, but it isnt, all I can do now is know that I did my very best as a mother for him, I miss him every second of every day, I know that one day I will be with him, I know that I have to wait for that day, I did go to a psychic right after my Son passed, it was unbelieveable!!! I really didnt trust her but It was paid for so I went, it helped me to deal with a lot of things, some people dont believe in them but I have to tell you,this lady said things that only I would know and things that were in the accident report that nobody knew until weeks later when I got the report...so YES I believe in the after life. Please just know that there is always someone here when you get to that place, we will always talk to you and never judge you, say what you want, thats what this site is for. Many Many hugs and prayers for you.
At 10:20pm on January 18, 2011, Colleen Pasay said…
Sunni.............
We don't move on from the pain we envelop it. We still feel our children each step of the way.Some of us have dreams and others have "feelings" and yes in a heart beat we would exchange places with our lost children. Hang in there. There are allot of wonderful,informative people on this site.
Hugs
Colleen
At 11:15pm on January 16, 2011, Tami said…
I just read your post and my heart breaks for you and all of us, but I feel your raw pain, I know it seems like it will never end, but I have been told to just hang in there and time will lessen the pain.... It will be two years for me in June... I miss my 18 year old son more and more, but I know that i have to be the best I can be so that he can be proud of me when we finally meet again. I have told you before that Christian reminds me of my son when he was his age... Love to him and PLEASE hang in there for Christian.
At 8:35pm on January 16, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
There aren't any words. My pain is so deep also. I just read a post from your husband.
At 8:35pm on January 16, 2011, Melinda Ellen Guinn said…
There aren't any words. My pain is so deep also. I just read a post from your husband.
At 12:11pm on January 10, 2011, Terri Kuta said…

you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers today,, your son had such a beauiful smile. it's hasn't even been 2 months yet for me so i don't know what a year will bring i will be praying for some kind of comfort for you and your wife today may Christian send his angel arms and circle them around both of you to get you thru this day.

 

Terri   Jonathan's mom

At 12:11pm on January 10, 2011, Terri Kuta said…

you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers today,, your son had such a beauiful smile. it's hasn't even been 2 months yet for me so i don't know what a year will bring i will be praying for some kind of comfort for you and your wife today may Christian send his angel arms and circle them around both of you to get you thru this day.

 

Terri   Jonathan's mom

At 10:24am on January 10, 2011, Linda said…
You and your family are in my thoughts today and every day for all of us. I just had to go through the 3rd year mark on New Years Eve, some tell me it gets easier but I haven't seen it yet. I miss my daughter, my best friend, my co worker and half of my heart. I got "through" it, i don't know how especially since this was the first Christmas and New Years I was alone. A lot of crying, alot of anger. You have such a beautiful son, he just makes me smile to see his picture.  Hugs to you, Linda, Jennifer's mom
At 2:20am on January 10, 2011, Tami said…

Christian, You have touched so many, May you bring peace to your parents hearts. I am very attached to you sweet boy. I will light a candle for you, it is midnight, you are in my prayers.

Hugs to you and you Mom and Dad.

At 1:51pm on January 9, 2011, Lisa Halsey said…

Sunnie iam with you there just a few weeks ago i was in the store and i see this child around 2 yrs old and had no shoes or socks on i was just fumming i told my friend look at that can you believe that women i wanted to stand there to see maybe the child took off their shoes and socks  because i know kids do that sometimes, but at least cover them my friend said come on i don't want you to freak out and bail you out of jail she said i will meet you in the back so she stood there so she said something the lady said there in the car my friend was pisst so when she met up with me she said everything is fine but she didn't tell me right there in then because she said i probably would of found her out side. I probably would i just don't understand Y parents think that is ok, and there are people out there that can't have children that would be good parents i would like to have another one but i can't me and my husband have tryed for 19yrs Daniel and my other son Micheal are from a preveious relationship same father like my husband always said these are my boys but i know in my heart he would of liked one of his own, but anyway i do agree with you that is really sad we loved our child so much and we couldn't prevent what happend we always want to protect them and nothing to hurt them like i wish i could of protected Daniel i know he was 21 and away in college he use to tell me mom i know that you love me and i love you but you have to let me be man i remember him telling me that the last day i saw him his birthday weekend and i told him some day you will become a father and you know what iam saying so i backed off and looked what happend he died i should of drove 3 hrs away and took him back to school and he would be still here today i guess i will have to live with that for the rest of my life. Well God Bless i guess iam just havong one of those days Lisa Daniel's mom

 

At 5:35pm on January 4, 2011, Terri Kuta said…

Have you ever thought of making his clothes into a blanket that you can have with you all the time that is what we are doing im making a twin size blanket to put on his bed and then throws if we have enough clothes so when we watch tv we can have it by or around us and feel theim near us.  I haven;t washed any of his clothes i just can't because like you when i get real down i go into his room and just smell them he was 17 and never picked up his clothes or washed them until he was almost out of anything to wear I know in time his scent will leave the room that is why we keep it closed to keep it in there as long as possible.  Your in my prayers

 

Terri

At 11:25pm on January 3, 2011, Tami said…

Like I have said before, I am drawn to Christian, The picture you have on the left he looks like my son when he was little. Love him <3 And the picture I put up here for you reminds me of what Heaven looks like....

At 9:22pm on January 3, 2011, jennifer said…
my 2yr old son was murdered in 2009,when it 1st happened i did the same thing as you,i slept with his clothes to have his smell near me,i would grab his jacket and smell it,the worse thing to happen to us is to lose 1 of our kids b4 it is there time..your son is very beautiful..may i ask what happened to him? they say time heals but to me it gets harder..the holidays are the worse..after he died i did a candle lite vigil every month til it got too cold..
At 11:03pm on December 30, 2010, Tami said…
Thinking of sweet Christian again, Sending loving prayers...

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