I hope this sight relieves some of your anxiety and sadness. I've been here since right after my just turned 30 yr old daughter left on 4/9/2010. They have three little girls, 8, 7 and 2 y.rs old. The oldest just made me a Great-grandma but my only child will never see her Grandkids!!!!! Life is not fair!!! I truly hope this sight helps you. David posts the majority and he's an intelligent man.