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At 9:13pm on May 7, 2011, Paula G, Jimmy's Mother said…
Hello Vickie,  just wanted to tell you I was thinking about you on this Mother's Day.  love and prayers, Paula
At 6:13am on April 21, 2011, Kelly ~ Caitlin's mom said…
Hi Vickie; I am so sorry for your loss. So hard at any time but a bit harsher when they are so young and full of promise. I wish I had some words of wisdom or ones that would ease your pain but I do not. I have prayers for you and friendship. I will pray for peace for you. It's a bumpy road faith and strength will caryy you and when it won't you will find someone here to get you to the next step. Peace to you today.  
At 6:13am on April 21, 2011, Kelly ~ Caitlin's mom said…
Hi Vickie; I am so sorry for your loss. So hard at any time but a bit harsher when they are so young and full of promise. I wish I had some words of wisdom or ones that would ease your pain but I do not. I have prayers for you and friendship. I will pray for peace for you. It's a bumpy road faith and strength will caryy you and when it won't you will find someone here to get you to the next step. Peace to you today.  
At 11:59pm on April 14, 2011, Linda said…
Hi Vickie, thank you for adding me as your friend. Your son is beautiful! I'm so sorry that you have to experience this harsh grief. Your son will always be with you, even during your toughest moments, so I hope that will help comfort you, and when it is your time to leave this life, he will be there waiting. God bless you and Jarrett! Linda
At 10:03pm on April 13, 2011, Cathy said…

Vickie, just a note to let you know I'm thinking of you and I know your pain. I do have another son, but I believe if you have 25 and lose just one, there is no difference in the pain - it's still the worst!  I don't log in too often because I end up spending hours reading the posts but each time I do I find someone else to pray for so I know it's not time wasted. The posts have helped me cope and realize my blessings.  I hope you're doing well tonight - just know I'm lifting you up in prayer.  May God comfort you as you trust in his promise that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord - Jarrett still lives and is pain free, but I know you still miss him dearly - I miss my Charlie too.
Hugs and prayers,
Cathy - Charlie's mom - http://www.333technologies.com/

At 7:33pm on April 10, 2011, Teresa said…
Vickie, I am so sorry for the loss of your very handsome son Jarrett.  It sucks there's no other way around it. The grief journey is long and hard. I lost my grandaughter Skylie at almost 11months old. It was a very traumautic night. I am so sorry we have to meet like this. I wish I could say things relating to God but I just can't, I have lost all my faith in God, It's just not fair! Love and hugs to you Vickie.
At 7:33pm on April 10, 2011, Teresa said…
Vickie, I am so sorry for the loss of your very handsome son Jarrett.  It sucks there's no other way around it. The grief journey is long and hard. I lost my grandaughter Skylie at almost 11months old. It was a very traumautic night. I am so sorry we have to meet like this. I wish I could say things relating to God but I just can't, I have lost all my faith in God, It's just not fair! Love and hugs to you Vickie.
At 7:15am on April 7, 2011, Julie said…
Hang in there Vickie. We are all here for you. Take good care of yourself. Praying for your comfort, Julie
At 9:30am on April 6, 2011, Nancy McKinney said…

Vickie,

My heart is truly breaking for you in the loss of your son.  I know how hard it was for you to lose him at such a young age as I lost my daughter last year just after she turned 13.  It's just not fair the hand that we have been dealt, but GOD knows the answers to our questions and one day we will all know the answers, cause GOD will sit us down and tell us HIS plan.  Sorry that we all had to meet this way but GOD knew that we needed each other.  Lots of love and hugs.

At 7:49am on April 6, 2011, Janet - Todd's Mom said…

Vickie,

I am so very sorry about the loss of your only son, Jarrett.  I lost my only son, Todd, 22 months ago and I'm still devastated.  He died from pneumonia and acute respiratory distress syndrome only 9 days after he went to his doctor, who told him he "wasn't that sick & didn't have the flu or pneumonia".  She did no diagnostic testing of any kind.  Talking with everyone here helps me because we've all been through this same horrific loss, but the pain, for me, still hurts like a knife in my heart.  Todd was my best friend, smart, funny, loyal, compassionate, loved animals, especially cats.  He set up our whole wireless network for the computers in our house years ago....always so ahead of his time and enthusiastic about life.  I'm sending you hugs and hoping you're feeling a little bit better.   Janet, another bereaved Mom

At 11:46am on April 5, 2011, Julie said…
Vickie: Jarrett looks like a sweet, handsome young man. I am so sorry for your loss. The pain cuts like a knife and takes your breathe away.  They say it will become more tolerable over time. I myself have a terrible feeling in the pit of my stomach all the time. I think about and miss my daughter every day. I cope by trying to distract myself by keeping busy and trying to be strong for the rest of my family. I also take comfort in the lighting 5 candles ceremony - I read about it in one of the posts here in this group. God bless you, Vickie, and I am sending hugs and comfort to you. Your friend, Julie
At 2:15am on March 29, 2011, Laurie said…

I feel your pain!! iam always here for you!!

laurie

 

At 9:43am on March 28, 2011, Linda said…
Vickie..what a lovable, handsome young man you have there....thank you for adding me as your friend, we need all the ones we can get that truly understand how we feel....I'm here if you ever need to  vent, yell, scream or cry or just say nothing, like all of us....we do understand your pain...hugs to you..Linda, Jennifer's mom
At 8:20am on March 14, 2011, JoAnn Brozowski said…

Dear Vickie - your son is so handsome, I am so sorry for your loss.  I lost my only child, Tyler, at age 24 on January 26, 2010.  I can only tell you that my life will never ever be the same.  There are times I think I may be able to make it, but then I sink back into dispair and wonder how I will ever live another day.  We are all here together for one another.  I will keep you in my prayers.

JoAnn

At 7:03pm on March 13, 2011, valerie moore said…
dear vickie thank you for adding me as a friend/  your son, is a beautiful you man. i am here for you... hugs, valerie
At 7:34pm on March 12, 2011, Paula G, Jimmy's Mother said…
Thank you Vickie for your comment.  I can't imagine your grief.  Only 14.  I guess I should thank God for letting me keep him for 43 years.  Thats still not good, losing them at any age is bad.  Not normal.  Parents are not suppose to bury their children.  Please know, my thoughts are with you also.  We can help each other.    Paula
At 10:42pm on March 10, 2011, Cathy said…

Vickie,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your only son, Jarrett - what a handsome young man. I know how precious he had to be to you and I know how your heart breaks. I'm so sorry you have to bear this pain that everyone in this group knows so well. Please know that you're in my prayers tonight - I hope I can be of some support to you.

Hugs,

Cathy, Charlie's Mom (333technologies.com - my son's web site)

 

At 8:27am on March 10, 2011, shannon churchill said…

I try to remove myself from myself..   It is not about me I tell myself.   Non of self and all for Thee...  Let your light shine on your family because they know you are hurting.   You are now to them a pilar of strength simply by living and functioning.   And your heart is beautiful in the eyes of the only one who matters... our Lord and Savior..   Because love is all powerful in a mothers heart.   Let your family love you, and your son in heaven and your Lord..    God Bless You for your pain..'If you truly knew in your heart he was happier there than here with us wouldn't you be happier...   WELL HE IS!!!    Peace be in your heart..   Love,    Shannon

At 7:55am on March 10, 2011, Terri - Autumn's Mom said…

Vickie,

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. 

I have to agree with you, it's been three months since I lost my only daughter, but I will NEVER be the same and don't think I'll ever feel true happiness again.

My mom lost my brother 28 years ago and she said the pain lessens with time.  I keep hearing that and waiting. 

I'm sending hugs your way.

At 9:46am on March 5, 2011, shannon churchill said…
So sorry for the loss of your son.   I as certain that God has a very special place in heaven for these children who have had to suffer on earth.  Oh how his heart has been given the gift of compassion which is what comes from long suffering.  When we lose our children we are broken and torn apart.... but I tell you now your son is whole. He is not hurting, he is not worrying, he is free of all the pain and waiting for you to join him while he is surrounded by love and joy in heaven.  Know this.   Keep your heart and mind fully faithfull to God and like I try to do each day as well.   Some days are harder than others.    Love to you and your family.   Shannon

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