Hi gina haven't heard from you i hope you're doing good jusy thinking of you hugs to you ALICIA JESSE'S MOM

Dear Gina,

Thank you so much for your friendship <3 <3 <3  Please know our hearts here are as one.   Wishing you moments of peace , and comfort, loving memories to sustain you,  And vent any time <3 <3  it's good for you and for us all to be acknowledged and validated <3  God Bless <3

Dear Gina,

Thank you so much for your friendship <3 <3 <3  Please know our hearts here are as one.   Wishing you moments of peace , and comfort, loving memories to sustain you,  And vent any time <3 <3  it's good for you and for us all to be acknowledged and validated <3  God Bless <3

Hello Gina, I read your commits and I want you to know that you're not alone.  We are together in this journey.  I lost my son December 7, 2010.  He was 43.  The pain never goes away.  I am trying to understand this feeling I have everyday.  And know that I will live with it the rest of my life.  My prayers are with you.  Paula

Gina, there is a group here on this site for siblings. Maybe you can get your son to read some of the posts or join. Or you can read what others are going thru.

Or order some books for him if you cant get out to shop without breaking down while looking. I know it was hard for us. So I order digital downloads or books by mail.

I am so sorry that you too are going thru this hell along with the others.

hugs to all

thank you for adding me as your friend Gina. Happy mothers day. God bless and keep you,

Wendy

thanks Gina I sent a friend request to you on fb your story inspires me I hope things keep getting better for you XOXO

thanks for being my friend, i am so sorry that you lost 2 son's i can't imagine, and yours was also 21 and recent i know the emptiness, have you gone back to work yet? I am so angry i don't know if i can do it. All we want is our son's back but that isn't going to happen, I don't know if i can go on!

Hi Gina I am so sorry ... I know you are going through a lot of pain and sadness.. I wish we weren't at this place in life. it has no purpose other than to want us to go with them. they are so special and so alive and now they are not. why so young why not us. why and all the regrets. his vibrancy will be forever in my heart. i cannot say i will ever be the same. i will not. i love him.  i don't come on here as much as i did but found it comforint to talk to other moms. moms i think are the only ones who knw the full pain. we made these babies. and loved them. and wanted them to nurture us as them forever... love to you carrie

Thanks Gina for asking me to be your friend , I am sorry we became friends though the lost of our sons , Jarrett was my only son , my pride ,my joy. Jarrett was a amazing son  Dont know how I make it everyday , I can't imagine losing two sons,losing one child is a life of living hell . I am here for you if you need someone to chat with , if you have facebook you can find me there, Vickie Fowler Bruggeman. I dont make it on here that often , Jarrett has a memory page on facebook.

Stay strong Gina. We can still keep the memories in our hearts and be thankful for what we shared with our loved ones while they were here. The Spirit Carries On...Pete

Honored to be your friend.  I hope that I can help you in some way when you need support.   Wish we  all were in some other kind of club together.

Hugs coming your way today....and always good thoughts.

Susan   Donny's Mom Forever

Gina, I meant to say "He IS the love of my life"

Hi Gina, I am so so sorry for your loss.... I am here for you, you can talk to me about anything, if you want to email me privately my email is atonsgirl@aol.com

My Son was just 18 when he left in a motorcycle accident, he was the love of my life.

so we finally got yh autopsy report back and it said cody died of a lacerated pulmonary vein where it joins the left atrium. It said he died within minutes. I reall wanted the report but it hasnt made me feel any different, I am not sure what I expected. It did answer the questions as to why he was not aircared or taken to the tramua center. 2 months today and still doesnt feel real!!!!

 

There are so many wonderful people here. I come to this site daily just to read and I find it really  helps me cope. And you are right this is a very sad club to join none of us wants to be here.........

Hugs

Colleen

Gina

So very sorry for the loss of Cody. He sounds so wonderful. Sometimes there are no words to describe this grief we live with. From across the miles.. A big hug

Colleen

Gina, we are so sorry to hear that you have joined the club no one ever wants to join. As, Terri mentioned, come here to vent as much as you need. WE do know what you are feeling. Tell us about your family, all of them if it helps you to get thru this terrible time in our lives.  You will go thru many phases of grief and this is the place to get some help when friends or family cant figure you out. I too lost my 21 yr old Amy, from a fall of 15ft from a window. She was in ICU for 5 days. So, I can relate to your Cody's accident. Like most of us here, there was no time to say our good byes.

I wont go on and on like I do sometimes, just know we are here.

so sorry for your loss. hugs and God bless you all

Gina, we are so sorry to hear that you have joined the club no one ever wants to join. As, Terri mentioned, come here to vent as much as you need. WE do know what you are feeling. Tell us about your family, all of them if it helps you to get thru this terrible time in our lives.  You will go thru many phases of grief and this is the place to get some help when friends or family cant figure you out. I too lost my 21 yr old Amy, from a fall of 15ft from a window. She was in ICU for 5 days. So, I can relate to your Cody's accident. Like most of us here, there was no time to say our good byes.

I wont go on and on like I do sometimes, just know we are here.

so sorry for your loss. hugs and God bless you all