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At 11:35am on June 1, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…

Valerie,

Its good to hear from you.  What sort of things was Sara interested in?  What did she want to do when she grew up?

At 4:58pm on May 23, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi Valerie just want to ask how ur doing? Me just here missing my beloved son Jesse.going on 3 years. Miss him everyday! Hugs to you ALICIA JESSE'S MOM!!aliciarodriguez717@gmail.com
At 11:59am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…

Valerie, My heart goes out to you. Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days. I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him. I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity. I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:58am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…

Valerie, My heart goes out to you. Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days. I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him. I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity. I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:41am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…

Valerie,

My heart goes out to you.  Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days.  I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him.  

I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity.  I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

 

At 11:37am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…

Valerie,

My heart goes out to you.  Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days.  I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him.  

I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity.  I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

 

At 11:37am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…

Valerie,

My heart goes out to you.  Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days.  I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him.  

I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity.  I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:37am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…

Valerie,

My heart goes out to you.  Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days.  I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him.  

I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity.  I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:01am on May 22, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…

Yes, it always feels special to know of other children that left this world near or around the time Jaime left.  Please forgive me, but I dont recall how Sara passed.  I read the postings and I dont recall how you lost your Sara.  I just know that I have tried to get close to our Lord and reading all these postings that are non believers... I get sad.  When I read your post, I was very relieved and happy to know that there are others that feel the way I do.  It hurts me everyday to think about how my child suffered in the hospital those last months and I was there for him everyday, but I feel I could of done more to help or console him or brought him closer to God.  We are catholic and I prayed for a cure, but it was not meant to be.  He was a good child, quiet and brave as brave can be.  He never once complained about anything, he just knew he was going to recover and I believed it too, but we were wrong.  He knows I love him with all my heart and he knows and sees everything now and I cant wait to earn the honor to join him and others.

Please keep in touch and take care of yourself.

At 11:40am on May 21, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…

Valerie, well put.  I also lost my son Jaime to leukemia on 2-7-2011.  I believe in Gods will and know that things happen for a reason.  Take care and God bless.

At 11:00am on June 9, 2011, valerie moore said…
dear valerie,  i was told i was "dwelling" on the loss of my dusty.  he passed on aug 28-09.  it will be 2 yr this aug.  i honestly do not believe we are dwelling on our losses.  we miss our children so much,  we have a pain that is indescribable, we feel alone... we are in shock.  i believe you are simply thinking and missing your beautiful daughter.  its been almost 2 yr since dusty went to see our Lord in heaven and the grief is still ever so strong. May God bless you, we all pray for you and love you.  valerie
At 4:26pm on June 6, 2011, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Im so sorry for you're loss.i lost my beloved son on7/12/09 he went in hospital for stomach pains. I think he was on xanax. And they put him to sleep and he never woke up 2 day's and he passed . I wish icould of done something. But they should of known. Im so sad.i miss him so. I just sleep alot.i dreamed him a few months ago he came to me he looked sad and told me he was fine. He smiled and left je looked like and Angel that he is.Miss him so.i just cry thinking of him. So i know how tou must miss you're Angel. I'll pray for all of us we just have to go on . God bless you .aliciasuarez54@gmail.com
At 4:35am on June 4, 2011, liz pozniak said…
Valerie, i know your pain. Its been 27 months and some days its still like it happened yesterday. We just celebrated his 23 rd birthday on memerial day weekend.i too have turned to God for solice. I want him here so badly and then i think he is having the best days with God so i tell him to leave a kight on for the rest of us. Each time i say that peace just washes over me. May you find some peace
At 12:37pm on June 3, 2011, valerie moore said…
dear valerie, again, so sorry to hear about the tragic loss of your beautiful sara. it doesnt matter how our children pass, they are gone and we are left on earth to try to survive, cope with the pain that only us mothers who have lost a child can comprehend. some days i am just plain tired of living day to day, minute by minute with the pain.  i feel i am left with a crummy life to live. i had to accept God as my savior in order to survive this life.  otherwise, i am  not sure where i would be today.  may the Lord bless you  and your family.  hugs and prayers,  valerie
At 9:43am on June 3, 2011, valerie moore said…
dear valerie.  your daughter is beautiful.  i am very sorry for y our loss. the days seem to drag and the memories are so fresh.  my beautiful only child has been in heaven since aug 28, 2009 and the days continue to be ever so painful.  what happened to your daughter???  remember, we are all here for you  ..  prayers and hugs to you,   valerie
At 9:43pm on June 2, 2011, shannon churchill said…
Valerie, Your daughter is beautiful...   I am so sorry for your loss.   So very sorry.   I am hurting really bad tonight, well I hurt every night, but tonight it is really sinking hard on my heart.  Praying for you.   Shannon
At 9:43pm on June 2, 2011, shannon churchill said…
Valerie, Your daughter is beautiful...   I am so sorry for your loss.   So very sorry.   I am hurting really bad tonight, well I hurt every night, but tonight it is really sinking hard on my heart.  Praying for you.   Shannon

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