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At 8:20pm on October 31, 2014, Valerie said…

Hi Lisa!

 Hope you got through Halloween. I really don't care for this night but since I am now in Cincinnati until March, my husband and I went out to dinner. It was nice but again I am in a strange place and miss being home in Sandy, UT. I especially miss my mountains and I am having a hard time getting my bearings here. Anyway, I do have my son, daughter-in-law and new grandson to visit. That was the reason for buying a house here so we could at least see them part of the year. I had a terrible time worrying about the trip and having to fly. I suffer from generalized anxiety disorder and take medication for it but I still was so nervous and scared....I had never flown before. My biggest problem came when the door was shut but I did it and here I am.

I truly em grateful for running into people on the internet who share my feelings and knowing there are others out there going through the same thing makes me think more about them. Time does help and I do find days where I've not thought much about my lost loved ones. Some days are like that depending on how busy I am with my son etc. Having distractions works great :)  Ok, you take care and thanks so much. Valerie

At 5:17pm on July 13, 2014, Elizabeth Hernandez said…
Hi Lisa,
I haven't been on here for about two years. Thank you so much for your comment. I still feel angry and sad and still cry almost everyday. We won the case against the hospital but since my sister was still married to her estranged husband who had been gone two years prior to her passing. Anyway he received the settlement. It's like a nightmare. He was never there for her and hec gladly accepted the money. I go to a bereavement group called grieve share. I still feel like crap.
At 7:22pm on January 1, 2014, Nicole Dixson said…

Thank you so much, Lisa.  Today is just a rough day.  I am just trying to allow myself to feel the grief and just be.  My hope is that tomorrow will be better.

At 11:10am on October 9, 2013, Jojo said…
Thanks, Lisa. My heart is so heavy. I know that God will make it better. Right now, it hurts so bad...
At 9:07pm on August 19, 2013, Mary Coco said…
Thank you Lisa for taking the time to comment that means a lot to me
Mary
At 6:26pm on August 19, 2013, Mary Coco said…
I lost my sister Feb 28, 2013
We were extremely close and best friends all of our lives
We had a very special relationship. She was my soulmate.
She died of lung cancer that went to her brain and her battle lasted for only 2 years. She was only 57 years old. I miss her terribly and am still very sad about her death.
My life has changed and it is hard for me to see that my joy for life that I once had will ever return. I
Wish there were some people that could communicate with that have felt the loss of a sister in a deep way that I have. Thank you for having this sibling support group that I have been able to join and express my feelings
sincerely
Mary
At 5:28pm on July 25, 2013, Lorraine said…

Thank you Lisa.  I was recently in the hospital and was telling some of the nurses about what has happened since Sept of last year.  they said I should join a support group.  I said actually I did join one, but then i forgot the name of it.  When I got back home and could view emails I saw I had received some emails from Legacy and then realized this was the one I joined.  The last two siblings passing away this year left me even more devastated as they were the next two to me closest in age.  To have them gone has been very hard on me.  I lost two of my best friends when these two siblings passed away.  I feel so lost.  I use to talk to my sister every day.  We went out to dinner twice a week, and I miss talking and seeing her.  My brother who was deaf would always write to me and me to him.  I miss his letters very much.  He lived in Huntsville Al.  I plan to get down there soon to visit my sister who lives down there.  She has health issues too and I want to make sure I get to see her before one of us passes away.  I am grateful i refound this site. 

 

At 10:46am on November 25, 2012, Tamika said…
Thanks for your comment back. You may think it was small but it actually helped knowing I'm not alone. When you get deep in that sadness that's really all you need to hear. Thank you.
At 5:32am on November 21, 2012, Elizabeth Hernandez said…

Thank you so much Linda, this Holiday will be hard. My sister was with us last Thanksgiving.

At 5:45am on October 22, 2012, Elizabeth Hernandez said…

Thank you so much, I feel 5 am the only one feeling this but I guess I am

not.

At 5:45am on October 22, 2012, Elizabeth Hernandez said…

Thank you so much, I feel 5 am the only one feeling this but I guess I am

not.

At 5:45am on October 22, 2012, Elizabeth Hernandez said…

Thank you so much, I feel 5 am the only one feeling this but I guess I am

not.

At 10:49am on October 1, 2012, Lindsey Hughes said…
Thank you Lisa. Yes it would be very nice to talk to someone who understood a little better.
At 12:03am on August 20, 2012, Don DeVault said…

Thank you  Lisa, Im doing my best

 

At 12:03am on August 20, 2012, Don DeVault said…

Thank you  Lisa, Im doing my best

 

At 10:26pm on July 29, 2012, linda diaz said…

My brother was a police officer in Austin Texas and died in the line of duty while responding to a disturbance call in a WalMart. He was shot in the chest & neck and died of his injuries. i sometimes can't sleep & need to talk in order to keep from replaying things in my mine. I so wanted to know the 'minute by minute' of what happened that night, but know that i somewhat know it - it's keeping me up almost every night. this happended April 6th & i'm still having sleepless nights at least 4-5 times a week.

(sorry if this is repeated - I'm new to this & not sure if I posted my comment in the right place)

At 10:21pm on July 29, 2012, linda diaz said…

My brother was a police officer in Austin Texas and died in the line of duty while responding to a disturbance call in a WalMart. He was shot in the chest & neck and died of his injuries. i sometimes can't sleep & need to talk in order to keep from replaying things in my mine. I so wanted to know the 'minute by minute' of what happened that night, but know that i somewhat know it - it's keeping me up almost every night. this happended April 6th & i'm still having sleepless nights at least 4-5 times a week.

At 5:17pm on February 27, 2012, Gwen H said…

Thank you Lisa, for the friendship request.  This is a very lonly time, and feeling pretty much alone, as thousands of Sweet Memories flood my mind.The feeling as I look at her pictures, that Eileen can't be gone.  But, as I gaze into each room to a fravorite place of hers, they are always empty. Just Memories to fill the empty space.

Gwen

At 11:13am on February 14, 2012, Liz Reilly said…

Thank you, Lisa.  I am glad I found this group.  The pressure just keeps building and I need somewhere to go that people understand how horrible it is.

At 1:20am on February 14, 2012, Barbara Smallwood Cairncross said…

Thank you my friend & I';m still trying to figure out exactly how to move around in this support group....I'm in need of support for the depth of my grieving

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