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At 4:51pm on January 22, 2011, sewemily said…
Hi Lisa;  I am confused.  The court date for Marilyn's murder suspect was Friday.  I was not able to go because I live in a different state.  I don't know yet about what happened at the trial.  I will have to call the prosecuting Atty. to find out.  How did you know about the court date?   The trial probbably will not be until this summer sometime.  The next court date is March 11. 
At 8:10am on January 18, 2011, Liz Thompson said…
thank you Lisa...its nice to have someone who "gets it"...
At 9:37pm on January 1, 2011, Darlene Van Havere said…
Thank you Lisa for your support. I am here too.   thanks
At 5:53pm on November 9, 2010, misty mathis said…
Thank you so much for taking the time to respond to me. Its the hardest death Ive ever gone through.Ilook forward to talking to all of you
At 11:04am on October 30, 2010, Chris said…
Thanks so much Lisa its tough and I pray everyday I'm going to make it thru the day.. So knowing you all are out there and I am not the only one that is dealing with these type of situations.. There are so many stories here that are life changing and the grieving process is rough, we have to learn how to adjust the best way possible because we can never forget, we have to live on and be strong with the good memories by our side Thanks again Lisa for your support
At 11:34pm on October 22, 2010, nancy said…
Lisa thank you for reading my story i'm new at this and don't know how to find your story or if
you even would like to vent to me. my strongest point is helping other people because i don't
know what to do for myself. I would like to hear your story and maybe we can give each other
a place to talk, cry,or just vent our feelings
At 11:34pm on October 22, 2010, nancy said…
Lisa thank you for reading my story i'm new at this and don't know how to find your story or if
you even would like to vent to me. my strongest point is helping other people because i don't
know what to do for myself. I would like to hear your story and maybe we can give each other
a place to talk, cry,or just vent our feelings
At 12:01pm on October 15, 2010, Christine J said…
Thanks Lisa. It's comforting to know that there is such caring people out there who have had similar experiences in grief. Thanks for the support.
At 2:31pm on October 10, 2010, Charlotte House said…
Thanks for your support Lisa. It is hard when your siblings live over 100 miles from me & none have been since my husbands funeral to see me . I have one sister that will e mail me & a nephew & his wife.
I will be going there probably this week to sell my house we had there. We had just finished remodeling it all but painting the inside when he got so he was not able to go that far. After he passed away i went with my youngest son & daughter & cleaned out the house & had it painted inside. Hope the lady who wants it will go on & buy it this coming week. said she wanted it. My son will go with me since he is a CPA & a real estate person , he know about all this.
What we had done before we had to come back here to this house we replaced everything new at the other house so all she has to do is move in . Be glad when it is all behind me.
I still can't gp to bed at night, still sleeping in a recliner. the Dr said she wanted me to try & sleep in bed but i saw him try so hard to sleep in both my bedrooms, have my computer in oe room so no bed there now. He couldn't rest in bed so he stayed on the couch a lot.
I miss him so bad . I am going to his grave today , i got him the grave marker with a flag in it with The USAF on it & i need someone to go with me so if i can't do it alone . Was hoping one of my boys would come today & help me but no luck yet !
Take care & God Bless for your support.
Charlotte
At 2:31pm on October 10, 2010, Charlotte House said…
Thanks for your support Lisa. It is hard when your siblings live over 100 miles from me & none have been since my husbands funeral to see me . I have one sister that will e mail me & a nephew & his wife.
I will be going there probably this week to sell my house we had there. We had just finished remodeling it all but painting the inside when he got so he was not able to go that far. After he passed away i went with my youngest son & daughter & cleaned out the house & had it painted inside. Hope the lady who wants it will go on & buy it this coming week. said she wanted it. My son will go with me since he is a CPA & a real estate person , he know about all this.
What we had done before we had to come back here to this house we replaced everything new at the other house so all she has to do is move in . Be glad when it is all behind me.
I still can't gp to bed at night, still sleeping in a recliner. the Dr said she wanted me to try & sleep in bed but i saw him try so hard to sleep in both my bedrooms, have my computer in oe room so no bed there now. He couldn't rest in bed so he stayed on the couch a lot.
I miss him so bad . I am going to his grave today , i got him the grave marker with a flag in it with The USAF on it & i need someone to go with me so if i can't do it alone . Was hoping one of my boys would come today & help me but no luck yet !
Take care & God Bless for your support.
Charlotte
At 10:58pm on October 9, 2010, Charlotte House said…
Thanks Lisa . I will be writing more, my Dr told me not to get on line at night because it is so i have not been in a bed since My husband passed away. What sleep i get i get in a recliner. She wants me to try to start sleeping in bed so she said to not get on line at night so will write during the day.
I just know he couldn't rest in bed & i couldn't when he didn't so now i can't go to bed. I will try when i think i can & maybe get some good rest. I have a broken foot also & that makes it hard on me also . Supposed to keep it elevated & rub a cream on it 4 times a day. The Dr said it is nothing they can do for it. I broke it in February & i didn't have anyone to stay with him so didn't go to the Dr until the day he passed away & they just wrapped it & told me to stay off it. But when i got back all 4 of my children were there & the nurse & she was working with him & ask my son if he was breathing & he was gone . No fuss or gasping just like he went to sleep. I got back about lunch time & he passed away at 2 minutes past 1 . So he never spoke anymore after he talked to me alone on Thursday night. He told me he never dreamed it would end like this !
It is hard being a lone. All my kids live out of town.
God Bless you.
Charlotte
At 10:58pm on October 9, 2010, Charlotte House said…
Thanks Lisa . I will be writing more, my Dr told me not to get on line at night because it is so i have not been in a bed since My husband passed away. What sleep i get i get in a recliner. She wants me to try to start sleeping in bed so she said to not get on line at night so will write during the day.
I just know he couldn't rest in bed & i couldn't when he didn't so now i can't go to bed. I will try when i think i can & maybe get some good rest. I have a broken foot also & that makes it hard on me also . Supposed to keep it elevated & rub a cream on it 4 times a day. The Dr said it is nothing they can do for it. I broke it in February & i didn't have anyone to stay with him so didn't go to the Dr until the day he passed away & they just wrapped it & told me to stay off it. But when i got back all 4 of my children were there & the nurse & she was working with him & ask my son if he was breathing & he was gone . No fuss or gasping just like he went to sleep. I got back about lunch time & he passed away at 2 minutes past 1 . So he never spoke anymore after he talked to me alone on Thursday night. He told me he never dreamed it would end like this !
It is hard being a lone. All my kids live out of town.
God Bless you.
Charlotte
At 7:59pm on October 8, 2010, Charlotte House said…
Thanks Lisa for your support. I am so lonely without my husband of over 56 years. We were always together after he retied from the AF & then 22 years at the PO. He just went so fast. We didn't know he was as bad as he was. He could put on a good act when anyone was around , even our 4 children. But i could see everyday he was coming down & he would tell me things i needed to do. But we are never ready for anything like this when it happens. He was a great husband , father & grandfather. We have 1 G grandson but all we have ever seen was his picture on the computer. He was in Reno NV . Now in Washington State.
It is good to talk to someone who has been through death of a loving husband or any loved one.
Just miss him so bad , i to get up in the morning & no one here but me & it is bad. I have Panic Attacks & that is probably why he told me if i was scared i would never make it.
Just pray that God will be with me when i get so lonely. Allmy children live out of town so i am all alone also.
Thanks for your caring
Charlotte
At 10:48pm on October 6, 2010, Charlotte House said…
Lisa , I really don't know or understand how this works with this being sent to me by a friend to try & help me but maybe i will catch on how it works som. Thanks for your support on loosing my husband & i know he is resting not hurting anyme but it is lonesome.
God Bless
At 10:48pm on October 6, 2010, Charlotte House said…
Lisa , I really don't know or understand how this works with this being sent to me by a friend to try & help me but maybe i will catch on how it works som. Thanks for your support on loosing my husband & i know he is resting not hurting anyme but it is lonesome.
God Bless
At 10:35pm on October 6, 2010, Charlotte House said…
Lisa thanks for your trying to comfort me at this time with the loss of my husband. Hope you are doing better.
But it sure gets lonesome.
God Blaess
At 10:11pm on October 6, 2010, lisa marie austin said…
Hello Lisa,its Lisa Marie.thank u for your message.my brother took his life on august 6th,2010.its so hard and hurts so bad.I don't think the pain will ever go away.I don't know how to understand this.my brother was young and beautiful.I just can't understand.
At 11:20pm on October 5, 2010, terrie desiderati said…
thank you.....
At 6:48pm on October 5, 2010, mary johnston said…
Today my husband made things for me worse and I think don't love him any more how can you tell uor wife shes to fat 1 day after all this that she was better looking when she was thin oh and on the way he was flurting with the girl in the car next to me and says he was only racing her he had no intrest in her go figure and I hate him right now
At 3:41pm on October 5, 2010, Cheyanne Eubanks said…
Thank you Lisa I am sure I will.

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